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hola chicaritas
no im not spanish, haha.

I'm 14/f and i live in cali
thats right... LOS ANGELES.

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i flippin hate my best friend (we are both 15)

but we've been friends forever pretty much--- our friendship pretty much consists of us subtly puttin each other down in like jokes and shit, but I only do it when she starts doing it, so like you no it only continues the vicious cycle haha

no but seriously i cant freaking just not be friends with her

cause like im pretty shy until you get to know me---and no1 really sticks around that long cause they just get bored with me.
and she's got a really "strong" personality, if you know what i mean, and she makes friends really easily cause she's funny( her funiness pretty much comes from insults)

so i have no idea how i should act accordingly
any suggestions??

Wow, Im going through the same thing rite now!
If you need someone to talk to... im here.

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15/f

i have this friend that i admire. she always makes me laugh and shes just amazing and shes always been there for me. ever since this school year started she made so many new friends, and i kinda got jealous so i didnt really pay attention to her because i wanted to see if she would do anything. she still acts really nice to me when the few times i actually do see her. im just kinda sad cause i dont see her as much as i used to and im afraid of being replaced by someone else. am i doing the right thing by not paying attention to her? if not what should i do?

wow, its amazing at how similar your situation is to mine. like EXACTLY. ive been best friends with this girl since kindergarden and ever since starting high school shes made so many new friends and i totally got jealous. I guess I wasnt sure if she wanted to be friend still or not even though she still acted really nice to me. I did the same thing and didnt pay much attention to her, hoping that she would be the one to invite me over. She was so kind and i could tell her everything.lm not sure if we'll ever be best friends again, so talk to her about it before its too late. if you wanna talk or anything im here, just say so in the feedback =]

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okay, well. i started a new school back in like, September. and I still dont' have many friends. I have a group of people i talk too and stuff, but i kind of want to make friends with other people too. I'm normally really shy and hate to start conversations. and i'm always afraid of messing up or embarrasing myself.
any tips on how not be shy?

hey, i know exactly how you feel. its half way through the year and i sill dont have many friends. I wish I had more and I've tried so hard but i just have no idea what to do. I know this isnt really advice or anything, but if you wanna talk or anything im here =]

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My best friend has been kind of mad at me for a while now. Not like angry pissed off and doesn't talk to me; just kind of like hurt, upset, can't talk to me. I asked him to tell me what I did and he wouldn't. He's been kind of mean to me (well I think he's being mean but I know it's just because of whatever I did) and I really couldn't stand it. I've known him almost all my life and I can't have him act this way towards me and not tell me why.


So today I went to his house and told him that I'm sure he has a good reason and whenever he wants to talk to me about it I'll be there but until then, I don't think I can be friends with him. He told me that he just couldn't talk to me about it just yet and that he understood that I don't want to be around him and that he could talk a break from me too. So after that, I left.


I don't know if I should have done that now because I feel really bad about it. Should I have done that? What should I do now? 17/f

yeha be there for him. I think he just needs some time to himself. hes shutting others out becuase hes depressed. give him some time and hell come to you when he wants to talk. he just needs some alone time. :]

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well, my friend, who happens to be the same sex as me, keeps getting uncomforatblely close to me... well actually 2 same sex friends do this... and when i ask them to stop they constantly do this and one i think doesn't do it on purpose and she's always doing this and it bugs the heck out of me... how do i make it stop?!?!?

It sounds to me like their gay and they just dont know it! good luck!

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I've had this firned. She's really sweet, and never did anything to hurt anyone. We went everywhere together, and told eachother everything. She's made new frinds now and doesnt pay attention to me that much. We have the same lunch period and she wont even sit with me!!! She's also changed a lot (but i still love her) I miss her so much. How can we be BFF again???

Write her a note or e-mail or something, or if you have enough courage, then say it to her. Just tell her (or write) that you really enjoyed the times you guys had to each other and you miss that. Maybe it's time to move on but if this friend is really important to you, then keep trying. Hope everthin works out!!

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ok, i have a really big mouth, i can't keep a scercret & all of my firends get mad at me when somethihg slips. they never tell me a scerect any more, even though i am working on it. does anyone have any advise. plese help, if u can!!!!!
signed blabber

Think about it... would you really like it if you trusted your friends to keep your deepest secret and then they just went and blabbed it to everyone else? Next time you think about blabbing your friends' secrets to others, just zip the lip. Just think how horrible or embarrased your friends feel when everyone finds out about about their secrets. And then when they figure out that their best friend who they TRUSTED, told everyone their secret, just imagine how they feel. Think before you talk. It's great that you're working on it, and i hope my advice works, or even helps at all. Hope you learn to keep your mouth shut. haha
The wonderful ***PINKYMEOWCAT*** hah
PS. Seriously dont mean to be mean! Just want to help you out.

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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55

Ok i go to a private school and my friend goes to a public school. We're still REALLY good friends, we just dont see each other as much! You need someone at skool that can be a really good friend, and it's not really replacing her, because youre still friends with her!! I have some really good friends at my school, and im even better friends with some of them than her and everythings fine. At first i felt bad, but then i got over it and realized that being good friends with someone else isnt gonna hurt our friendship!! ********Hope i helped***************
PINKY MEOW CAT TO THE RESCUE!!!

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Hi right well i went out with my two best friends today called k and m we went to a theme park! and some of the rides were two person seats! m always wanted to go with k she never seems to want to be with me on anything and im confused! my friends mean everything to me and i dont want to have a big argument! how do i sort this problem out becauses it kind of feels like she likes k more even though ive been best friend with them both same amount of time and i like them both the same!
please help rate high! sorry its a bit long

Wow, I had the same problem! I just started to hang- out with my friend Z more often( or in your case m) and she realized what a great person I can really be. hehe NOT BRAGGING lol but just spend more time with her and sooner than soon u will all get along equally. sorry if this didnt make sense but hope it helps im not exactly a professional on advice giving

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