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Did I do the right thing?
My best friend has been kind of mad at me for a while now. Not like angry pissed off and doesn't talk to me; just kind of like hurt, upset, can't talk to me. I asked him to tell me what I did and he wouldn't. He's been kind of mean to me (well I think he's being mean but I know it's just because of whatever I did) and I really couldn't stand it. I've known him almost all my life and I can't have him act this way towards me and not tell me why.
So today I went to his house and told him that I'm sure he has a good reason and whenever he wants to talk to me about it I'll be there but until then, I don't think I can be friends with him. He told me that he just couldn't talk to me about it just yet and that he understood that I don't want to be around him and that he could talk a break from me too. So after that, I left.
I don't know if I should have done that now because I feel really bad about it. Should I have done that? What should I do now? 17/f
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You have a right to take care of your own feelings. If you needed a break from him because his behavior was hurting you and he wasn't willing to change his behavior, that's fine.
Don't cut him right out of your life though. If you do you might never know just what happened. Maybe wait a week or two and drop him a message asking if he was feeling any better and you could talk about what happened. Tell him you'd like to be his friend again and put this behind you.
Being there for him isn't going to be much help to him if *you* are his problem. So back off, and let him figure it out.
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just let him talk when he is ready he will trust you .you need to be patient just show him your there 4 him ok.if hes not talkin 2 you because u sneezed on him or something stupid dont 4give him ok let me know how thwt goes.
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yeha be there for him. I think he just needs some time to himself. hes shutting others out becuase hes depressed. give him some time and hell come to you when he wants to talk. he just needs some alone time. :]
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Well you cant just be mad at someone becasue they wont tell you there problem i mean i no you accidently did it but i would try to find out on my own and apologize..i meanyou werent going out so why would you need a break? remeber a break could be a long time maybe a permantent one dont let the door close on this he is your best friend is he not?......think about some things and ask him let him no you are truly sorry if you want him back..sometimes we cant always be right we have to accept what we did and see if the ones we extremly didnt mean to hurt forgive us
Tawny
hope i helped=)
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