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I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!
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Tell Chelsea that she needs to make the moves on him!! Tell her to just lean in and look him in the eyes and KISS HIM! :P
-Hope I helped!-
*MiSs EmMy bOo-
-A kiss blown is a kiss tasted, the only real kiss, is a kiss tasted.-
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whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.
-confuzzled (link)
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You may be just jealous of her talking with dudes, or maybe even not talking to you. You would know if you had a crush on her.
*hOpE i hElPeD*
-eMMY bOO-
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I dont know why, but lately my best friend has been her normal self and its been bothering me. Just normal things she always does are bothing me. Like her laugh, its annoying now, and the jokes she makes just piss me off for no reason! i dont know what to do! (link)
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Well, I understand exactly how you feel. People change, you move on and grow apart. If it's the normal things about someone you don't like, then you probably don't like them as a person. Just try to be cool with her, she is your best friend.
*Hope I helped*
-EmMy BoO-
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ok friday night there was a basketball game and i went and i hung out with one of my bestfriends k but at the game i thought she was being mean right ok well after the game was a dance and i didnt go but i called my friend k and she was there and she hung up in face which made me really mad k and yesterday sunday i was talking to her on aim and shes all are u mad at me and i was like yea and shes all y and im like well you hung up on me when i called and lately you just start yelling at me for no reason... so she like got mad and blocked me... she came to me at school last week and just starts yelling at me telling me that i could have gotten her phone taken away and im just like ok well you gotta tell me that instead of yelling at me and yea shes done it more then once and like i was trying to explain to her that I hate when she yells at me cuz were supposed to be friends but she wont let me... and this pisses me off cause sometimes it feels like she doesnt treat me like a friend but something else... today i went up to her and tried to work things out cause shes my best friend so i went up to her and smiled and then shes like thats such a stupid reason for you to be mad and im like no you arent supposed to hang up in my face and this other girl standing next to me is like yea you should have just been like i cant talk right now gotta go bye but she didnt and then she starts yelling infront of some of friends that i shouldn't call her cell phone after nine and a bunch of crap so i just turn around and leave cause i serioulsy dont need her yelling at me... but still im so mad cause its like i cant tell her how i feel and if i do she will get mad isnt that dumb arent we supposed to be bestfriends and tell each other when were mad and stuff i even told her that it hurts my feelings in stuff but she wouldnt listen to me...
What should i do PLEASE HELP!!!
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It doesn't sound like this chick cares that much about your friendship. Just lay low for awhile and maybe she'll come to her senses, if not, then forget about her. But don't try talking to her, it doesn't seem to be worth your time.
*Hope I helped *N* Good Luck*
~Miss Emster Boo~
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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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Wow, that sounds like a similar situation with one of my friends. The thing is, you have to stop being there friend. Cause this will never end. Just tell her how you feel and that you don't think you two should be friends anymore.
*Hope I helped*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off. (link)
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I understand what you mean. I'm supposedly "punk" or "ghetto" or whatever, and a few of my friends are ha, supposedly "rednecks"
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ok well i have one main friend in my school----my best friend------and i'm starting to feel lonely. And it's not the type of lonely where i feel invisible. No, it's much worse, a lot of people know me, they just don't want to be my friend and they're really mean to me. My best friend thinks they're haters. Like today, this one girl said to me when I was at my locker "o0o0o those jeans are cute....but they don't look right on YOU." She said that to my face.half the school year is over, but i still have to get through 2 more grades after this year and i cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Plz help me plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well...you have to understand that people like that are very, very immature. They only put others down to raise themselves up. Just let them know that you don't give a fuck what they think and don't let them get to you! I promise that if you act like you don't care what people think they will respect you more. It's THEM with the problems, not you. Honestly, it's high school, tell them they need to grow up and get a life. If this still goes on I would go to a guidance counselor or something and let them know!
*Hope I helped!*
-Miss Emmy Boo-
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ok...i feel really bad. my ex bf and i broke up a little over a month ago.( we are still friends) I have a new bf, but he is still single. He told me he likes this girl named "sue". But "Sue" is really fat and ugly. and i told my ex bf that...and i also said that he could do way better than that..:/ ( ( i no ) ). Well it turns out that when i was talking to him about this one of "sue's" friends was right behind us and heard everything i said. well, of course she told "sue" what i had said. "Sue" started crying in class. ( it turns out "sue" likes him too.) and one of her friends named "Jan" heard the whole story. and right before the bell rang "jan" comes up to me and says why are you talking SH** about "sue" and i was like "sue"? and shes like "stop pretending you don't know what im talking about?! you little dumb a**! meet me outside of class after the next period." "Jan" has been known for getting in many fights...( and winning)...she gotton detention and suspended a couple of times. What do i do? I can't fight worth crap!!! This happened on thurs. (i don't have school friday or monday) Thurs. right after that class (luckily i had a dentist appoitment)i left. "Jan" didn't see me. but im worried something will happen to me on tues. between me n "Jan". Please help me! What do i do? I will rate!!!
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The best thing to do would be to apologize to Sue and keep your mouth shut, because if your in high skool and you run your mouth a lot, it can and will get you in lots of trouble. About the fighting(which is so immature of Jan btw) you can go to a guidance counselor or skool authorities and tell them what is going on to prevent a fight.
*Hope I helped!*
-Good Luck babe!-
*Emmy Boo*
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my friend katie has a horrible reputation. she is 15 years old, and has been sleeping with MEN since she was 12. she has slept with over 10 people. last year, i had a boyfriend of 11 months. we broke up because my bf cheated on me with katie, and lied to me about it. i was mad at her forever, and i even got suspended because of her. i forgived her, and she promised me she'd never do it again... so she broke her promise. i'm going out with this guy.. we've been off and on for almost 6 months. katie has somewhat of an idea that me and him are together. my bf called her to apologize for a fight they got into a few weeks ago. she was like "ohh well im going to be home alone tonight if you want to hang out" and ryne (boyfriend) said okay and flashed back to me (i was on the other line). he said hes going to go along with it, and he called her back. she told him that she likes him and everything, and she doesn't want me to find out. ryne is going along with everything and he wants me to go along with him and stuff. us three are in the same algebra class and if i see her flirting with him, i will go crazy. what am i supposed to do? go along with it or go nuts ? i can't hold my feelings in very long.. and she has no idea i know anything..
i rate high for anything.. even an effort
sorry for the length.. and if it's confusing
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OK, I hate to say this, but this BITCH is not a friend and your boyfriend ain't such a great person either. I would lose that man-stealing bitch and dump the guy. Why do you think he is going along with all of this bull? And that chic just can't be trusted, she's just another man-stealing slut. I would lose them both and find a good guy and don't let the hoe know who I'm going with. [Sorry to sound so harsh, but I HATE man-stealers, bad experience. :( ]
*Hope I helped*
~Emster Boo~
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Hey it's Becky, and I asked you about Adrian..yea..well I am addign you to my site..sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY!
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Thanks Becky, you're the shit! I'll add you to mine!
*Peace!! & Good Luck w/Adrian*
-Emmy Boo-
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I'm very confused.
My two best friends are starting to treat me like I'm a little kid or something because I haven't gone as far as they have, because I haven't had a boyfriend in a little while. Which I think is fine because I'm only a freshman, and my life doesn't revolve around that stuff. But it still annoys me that they act like I'm immature or something because I haven't gotten fingered, and because I didn't approve of my friend having sex with this guy for revenge. They also make fun of me for being really straight edge which I don't think I am. They think they are really cool because they hang out in a specific neighborhood in brooklyn sometimes.I don't know, I guess it just annoys me that they think they are much more mature because I don't get shit drunk and coked up all the time, and I refrain from making out with bunches of people. But I don't want to yell at them or make them think I don't want to be friends with them anymore. What should I do? (link)
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Later on these "friends" of yours will regret everything they are doing now. Don't let them pressure you into anything! Just becuase they're out having sex and being hoes doesn't mean you have to be. I think being "straight edge" is way cooler than being a hoe. Forget about them!
*hope I helped*
~emmy Boo~
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Sorry about the length..and I hope this makes sense.. Okay, i have this friend..lets call her C...anyways, she will be really rude to me at school and it gets really annoying because i don't do anything at all so I ignore her or something. But then at home on IM she's like "I never say anything mean to you! Or im always just kidding! You are always so mean to me!" and she like doesn't get that i hardly ever do anything to her at all! Then she'll be like well you were calling me a bitch and a slut all day (which is NOT true, i don't!) but she will constently bother me about this guy i like and make fun of us when im with him and stuff and say she never did anything! It's soo annoying!!! what should i do to get it through her head???? thanks for any help! (link)
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I would lose her. She's obviously not a very good "friend". She denies everything and treats you bad. Just ignore her and don't tell her anything you wouldn't want her to know!
*hope I helped!*
~EmMy BoO~
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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks (link)
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Some awesome movies to watch with your friends are:
*Mean Girls*
*A Cinderella Story*
*Thirteen Going on Thirty*
*Thirteen*
*Big Momma's House*
*Sweet Home Alabama*
*Dirty Dancing*
*Glitter*
*Freaky Friday*
*The Banger Sisters*
~Hope I helped!~
>Emmy Boo
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Me and my best friend were having such a good time, going out away from our children together and then her b'friend goes and gets jealous. Jealous of me, like I'm competition for him or something...I'm not unless she's looking for a lesbian relationship, jesus christ!! So now she feels like she can't talk to me, she even hung up on me tonight!!!!! She said her b'friend doesn't want her to dress up or put on makeup when she goes out...WITH ME!!! He's so controlling that she can't even go out with her g'friends?? That's sick!! I miss my friend!! What do I do?? Nothing? Let her be retarded?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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This guy is very controlling is right! She needs to get rid of him! Call someone and tell them about this if it continues! It's not right for him to do that at all. He is very controlling and abusive! GET HER SOME HELP!
*Hope I helped!*
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I am having my 17th birthday party in like a week or so and I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for games, thing to do, etc. Here are something that might help I want the party theme to be pink and silver and the guys can wear red and grey, I have a pool table, big living room. Any ideas will help or you can tell me something about one of your good partys and I can get an idea from that? thanks and there is another problem how can I tell my mom to stay upstairs since guys are going to be there I don't know if she will trust me and I don't want her to be there cause I mean I am going to be 17 she should be able to trust me and I know that everyone will feel really uncomfortable if my mom keeps watching or checking up on us so what can I say to her ? Help and if u have any other idea, anything for a good party tell me please thanks again. (link)
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*Games and stuff to do*
-Spotlight!
-Spin the bottle!
-Poor Pussy
-Seven minutes in Heaven
*What to tell your mom*
I think that you should tell her the same things you told ADVICENATORS! :)
***Hope I helped!***
-Emily-
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dude is this emster martiny ( emily martin) from cn??? and taylor high school
xoxo becca xoxo (link)
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Nope, sorry this is Emily Edwards! :)
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Lately a girl has been hanging out with my group of friends, and some of them have been getting to be really good friends with her. I don't really know this girl so i have been making it a point to invite her places, and include her in things that i am arranging. Well recently, i have found out that she has been having all of my friends over that i have know since middle school and making a point not to invite me. Should i confront her about the way that i feel like she is trying to exclude me? (link)
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Well even though you are shy, I think you should definitely speak up to this girl. Ask her why she's leaving you out and if/why she has a problem with you! Trust me it will make you feel better to know what's up and try to fix this with her! ..:::Hope I helped!:::..
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ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do? (link)
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I think you should sit down with your friend and talk to her about this[maybe you could also talk to your BF]!! And for now, I would leave her out of your love life! If this keeps up discontinue being friends with her. -Hope I helped!-
[Emmy Boo]
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OK so i'm at a new school and like i made this one fried ... lets call her susan. So susan invited me over to her house for halloween with some of her friends too. I don't know for sure but i've heard her friends talking about doing drugs and all (not planning it for halloween but talking about it in like the past sence) I'm pretty sure Susan doesn't do drugs or anything but i do think that she drinks. I don't do any of that stuff, nor do I want to. Do you think I should go to her house and take the chance? PLEASE help me... i'll rate EVERYONE! (link)
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No- I don't think you should go to her house, because then you will be in that kind of environment and you will be really really tempted to do that stuff! - Hope I helped! -
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Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do?? (link)
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if she ignores you when you try to say your sorry about everything, then she really doesn't want to be your friend. You'll just have to get over it and let her go :/ But for the time being hang out with some different people and try to find someone cool to be friends with. -Hope I helped!-
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