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Question Posted Friday January 14 2005, 4:40 pm

ok...i feel really bad. my ex bf and i broke up a little over a month ago.( we are still friends) I have a new bf, but he is still single. He told me he likes this girl named "sue". But "Sue" is really fat and ugly. and i told my ex bf that...and i also said that he could do way better than that..:/ ( ( i no ) ). Well it turns out that when i was talking to him about this one of "sue's" friends was right behind us and heard everything i said. well, of course she told "sue" what i had said. "Sue" started crying in class. ( it turns out "sue" likes him too.) and one of her friends named "Jan" heard the whole story. and right before the bell rang "jan" comes up to me and says why are you talking SH** about "sue" and i was like "sue"? and shes like "stop pretending you don't know what im talking about?! you little dumb a**! meet me outside of class after the next period." "Jan" has been known for getting in many fights...( and winning)...she gotton detention and suspended a couple of times. What do i do? I can't fight worth crap!!! This happened on thurs. (i don't have school friday or monday) Thurs. right after that class (luckily i had a dentist appoitment)i left. "Jan" didn't see me. but im worried something will happen to me on tues. between me n "Jan". Please help me! What do i do? I will rate!!!


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Additional info, added Friday January 14 2005, 4:42 pm:
I am in 9th grade..."Jan" and "Sue" are both in 10th...and i don't really no either of them! :/.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Friday January 14 2005, 10:34 pm:
Dont fight them at all... just stay after school or something. If they continue to threaten you then go to the ur guidence counselor. Guys can like any type of person they want to wether there big or little it matters on the inside.
~Brina~

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MissEmmyBoo answered Friday January 14 2005, 8:12 pm:
The best thing to do would be to apologize to Sue and keep your mouth shut, because if your in high skool and you run your mouth a lot, it can and will get you in lots of trouble. About the fighting(which is so immature of Jan btw) you can go to a guidance counselor or skool authorities and tell them what is going on to prevent a fight.
*Hope I helped!*
-Good Luck babe!-
*Emmy Boo*

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lil_short_girl answered Friday January 14 2005, 6:00 pm:
well ..don't talk shit behind peoples back ....beacuse they always find out so ..u screwedur self on that one ....maybe she'll forget

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lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 14 2005, 5:06 pm:
Okay,I'm not saying this will help a whole bunch, and I know it's kinda whack, but you could let your teacher know that this girl wants to fight with you. Let them know she's serious and include that you do not want to fight. As for staying away from her, I cannot help you there. The reason i said to tell your teachers(and maybe assistant principal) is that they may be able to stop the fight from happening, or if it still happens, you won't get blamed and you'll hopefully stay out of trouble. As for fighting,you said you can't fight for crap....
Well, try your best to give her a time she won't forget! Trust me, you have to stand up for yourself because NO ONE ELSE will!!! Let me know what happens, okay? My email is lildiamyn_69@yahoo.com. Good luck!

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xoxhayley answered Friday January 14 2005, 5:01 pm:
It depends of how YOu feel about it- do you want to fight her? do you want to like fun away... or do you want to go to her and talk?... i would suggest talking and saying "well Jan i didnt mean to start anything with anyone, sorry this happeend(ect.)... annddd the only reason i was like saying shit was because it was hard listening to my ex say he liked a new girl, i'd never heard him say that to me, so i just said that- not thinking." ... haha... since you dont really know her, maybe you could pull off a lie like that or somthing, or just apoligize to your ex, sue, and jan. It depends on how you want to handle it though. But if you just run away from her then it mite not help the situation, and it could make you look 'bad' or whatever. So good luck with these girls.!! hope i helped :)

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