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Lately a girl has been hanging out with my group of friends, and some of them have been getting to be really good friends with her. I don't really know this girl so i have been making it a point to invite her places, and include her in things that i am arranging. Well recently, i have found out that she has been having all of my friends over that i have know since middle school and making a point not to invite me. Should i confront her about the way that i feel like she is trying to exclude me?
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Yes, you should defineatly confront her about it...but in a nice way. If you have done nothing to her then she has no reason to intentionally be mean to you. Girls have always been known for being mean and sneaky and we are! The same problems u have, have probably happened to about haf of us so dont feel alone were all with you! :)
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Hmm, that's tricky. because you wouldn't want to seem like you're forcing the friendship... maybe try asking her about it if it happens again, just kind of a "aww... i wish i could have been there" thing may work... if it doesn't, i think i'd make sure to ask her
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Well even though you are shy, I think you should definitely speak up to this girl. Ask her why she's leaving you out and if/why she has a problem with you! Trust me it will make you feel better to know what's up and try to fix this with her! ..:::Hope I helped!:::..
-Emily-
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yea, i would straight up tell her you dont like the way she treats you. i mean, *IF* she is trying to exclude you then by confronting her you wont do any harm to the relationship, because OBVIOUSLY she wouldnt care to much. but maybe shes not trying to exclude you or something, and its all a miscommunication, then confronting her will be a good thing, and you both can grow from the experience. dont be rude, or harsh about it, and dont confront her while a bunch of your friends are around cuz that mite make her uncomforatble, and she might get mad at you. well, i hope i helped! good luck, hun! *brittany*
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U should so confront her!! She is prolly just trying to steal ur friends!! U should start having ur friends over with out her all the time...make sure u get to ur friends first!! well.. i hope i helped!! *-x-*AiMeE*-x-*
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