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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.
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well first off i sorta like my friend "bob"
butt theres so many rumors going around about him.
they seem true.. butt i dunno.
like hes been texting my friend.. and saying the same exact stuff to her that hes been saying to me.
so im not really sure..
he says he loves me.. and wants to become a little more than friends..
butt i sorta feel like hes using me..
and i beleive stuff to fast..
so like when i hear something bad about him i get all mad..
then when he talks to me about it..
i believe him right away..
i just need someone who can be honest with me i just like him wayy too much..
its sorta cheesy butt i dunno. :/
help?
Most of the time "rumors" aren't true. They are exactly what their called, RUMORS. But, if he is texting your friend and saying the same thing to her that he is saying to you, then he is probably just wanting to mess around instead of dating. He's telling you he loves you? First off, when a guy tells a girl he loves her when they haven't been together dating wise, then he most likely is just saying that to make you feel special. Don't listen to that crap.
Not only is he telling you and your friend the same thing, but he is most likely telling every other girl in the world the same thing. Don't fall for his sweet talk because I'm sure every other girl is falling for it too. Be strong and find someone that is faithful and right for you. Trust me, dating this guy will lead you nothing but heartbreak and pain. Hope all goes well!
One of my best friends has recently been diagnosed with chlamydia and she is very scared that something will go wrong with her baby because she is 5 months pregnant and has this STD. I know because of the STD she had to see her OB/GYN a lot more frequently. This is her first baby and she's only 16 in 10th grade.
Anyway, she is really afraid to tell her boyfriend that he gave her chlamydia because he promised to her that he was clean and had been tested recently. She lost her virginity to him the night they met, he was openly not a virgin then. Honestly, I'm convinced that the only reason they are really together is because he got her pregnant the first night they met and he feels bad about it because she's scared. I know she's also secretly afraid that when she confronts him about the STD transmission that he is going to leave her and the baby, but she has told me many times that she knows the right thing to do is to tell him.
She's going through a lot. She's still a teenager and is pregnant with her first baby. She's still trying to attend high school so she can graduate next year but also is holding down a part-time job. She lost her virginity only 5 months ago to a guy she met when she was drinking. Before that night, she had been wanting to save her virginity for when she actually got married. I understand that she's in quite a predicament now and is probably feeling very scared. I'm trying to be there for her.
How do I convince my friend to tell her boyfriend now, and how should she go about confronting him that he has given her an STD (chlamydia in particular)? I really think the only reason she hasn't confronted him yet is in fear he will leave. What can I say to encourage and support her in telling him about the STD she contracted from him?
The best thing to do in this situation is for your friend to confront her boyfriend. She NEEDS to let him know as soon as possible no matter what the outcome of telling him will be. If he ever cheated on her or planned on cheating on her, think about the other girls out there that are at risk for having sex with him. You need to tell your friend to tell him as soon as possible that she has an STD and he has been the only guy she has been with. More than likely, he will go get tested and treated. If he leaves your friend because of an STD then she deserves a lot better than him anyways. She is pregnant and has more things to worry about than him right now. After the baby is born, it will be a lot easier on her to make the decision of whether she wants him in her life or not. She probably just needs a lot of love and guidance right now. Be there for her as much as possible & show her that you care even if her boyfriend doesn't. Hope all goes well.
how do u meet guys in a small town from different schools?
I live in a very small town, so I've accomplished learning this, ha. Go to other schools football games. If your school is playing another town's football team, then go to the away game. You'll have people you know to talk to there, because a lot of people go to the away games, and you'll also have a lot of new guys there! Also, try going to a mall of some sort that is in another town. It was when I was in 10th grade, I'm in 12th now. But I had went to a mall 45 minutes outside of my town & befriending some sales guy in American Eagle. I went in there & he striked up a conversation about where I was from, where I went to school. Little things like that. So malls are definitely a good place. (:
ok well i just learned that my best friend has been talking bout me behind my back and i dont know what to do :[
Welcome to the world of reality. I learned this the hard way also, that there is no such thing as a "best friend" because eventually they will all either A) turn on you, B) talk about you behind your back, or C) use you. So don't worry about it because shes just like every other so called "best friend" out there. If it bothers you about what she said, confront her about it & just stop being friends with her. Forgiving her is not the answer because no one really ever changes. Sorry girl, it's tough but it's for the best. ♥
ok so i was txting my friend (shes about to b my step cousin) and she said she had a docters appointment and i said ohh why? and i sorta kept bugging her cuz it was bugging me and she goes: (my name) please nobody knows about thin except me my mom and my dad okay.
and i really wanna know!! shes 15
what do u think?
Well, it could be something personal that she doesn't want anyone else to know. Just let it go. Maybe eventually she will come around & let you know what it was all about. If not, you can't get mad at her because some things that happens in peoples life need to stay private. Just apologize to her, and let her know you were just concerned and wanted to make sure she was okay. ♥
uggh;;
well i honestly dont think im unattractive
and i kno guys dont think im ugly
but at my age all guys want is ass
and im not going to be a whore
and give it to them
are there other things
that guys look for
besides whether or not
they're gunna get some!?
pleeease help me
im getting sick of being single
[it would be great if i could get some guy's thoughts on this]
alrighteyy thanks =]
Well not all guys are like that. The guys that are still immature and haven't figured out that there is more to females than their assets, are not the ones you want to look for. You just have to keep looking for the right guy, sometimes it takes a while but there is always that one person out there that comes along and changes everything. ♥
i want to be like those really cool teenagers the really fun outgoing ones that everyone wants to be friends with but IDK how too get things started or what to make people wanna hang out with me can you give me some tips and dont say just be yourself cause I guess that doesnt work
To be honest hun, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be popular & fit in, however, it does have its downfalls. You should go to new places, hang-outs, & just make conversation with new people. I know it seems like a lot, but casually bump into someone and say "Sorry! Are you okay?" That's a big conversation striker haha. I wish you the best of luck! ♥
My friend (15/F) is definitely over weight. I know that nobody's perfect, and stuff. But she's at the point where it's a potential health risk! It could possibly be my fault for not helping her earlier, but I can't exactly change that now.
Her parents don't exactly help, though. Her dad makes unhealthy, meaty, casseroles almost every night. So, she isn't used to eating healthy foods. And I guess she's too oblivious to notice what she's eating.
Her parents also pressure her a lot. For example, there isn't a waking moment when her dad isn't nagging about some sort of walking. To be blunt, both of her parents are always reminding her of her obesity.
She has a short attention span, and gets annoyed by anything repetitive in the least bit. So, repeating exercises makes her walk away.
She recently bought a Jane Fonda exercise tape, which she used when she was younger to lose weight (which worked). She is convinced that only that exercise tape will work. After a month, she still hasn't received the tape (yes, I'm sure that she did order it).
My question is: how do I help her lose weight without being too pushy? Or should I just wait for the tape? But what if it takes months before she gets the tape?
Also: she will do almost anything I say, as long as it's not too harsh. So, obedience isn't an issue. She's just really impatient and ADD.
SORRY for the massive question! I tried to make it easier to read! Thank you for any answers!
Well it seems like she really looks up to you for guidance, so don't be too pushy in the situation. You should join her in losing weight. Like, if you maybe exercized with her, it could make her feel a lot better. Ask her to go for a jog with you one morning. Encourage her to eat healthier. Say things like "I've been trying healthier foods and their actually not that bad." Make her feel interested in trying new things that could be healthy for her. You sound like an amazing friend & I'm sure she is very lucky to have you!
I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?
PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying.
Hm, to be honest she doesn't sound like a very good friend AT ALL. If I was you, I'd just be like "hey, the world doesn't revolve around you. I have feelings too, and It would be nice for you to appreciate me more." If she doesn't want to change or appreciate your friendship more, than I would stop talking to her. It sounds to me like she talks to you when no one else is around her. She's probably a very self centered girl who likes attention. I call girls like that attention whores. You deserve someone better as a friend than that. Don't sweat it, she's just self centered & she doesn't even realize it. ♥