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adviceee is needed :[
ok well i just learned that my best friend has been talking bout me behind my back and i dont know what to do :[
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JUst dont imitate her dont talk about her behind her back . Don't try neither to make her jealous you will have more problems . Just ignore and make other friends . You are not gonna die And your best friend will understand that u dont care about what she is doing . So be strong and who cares . She'll understand and apologize one day
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The truth is everyone talks about everyone. The things she saying I assume are negative, but maybe it was just because you two got in a fight or she was annoyed at you, so she was ranting to other people? I admit I do that when I'm in a fight with someone, but it doesn't mean we aren't best friends. I would never tell her secrets, though. I don't have much information to go on, but if she was just saying that you're annoying or ugle then chances are she was just annoyed at you and there is nothing to get upset over. However if she was spreading rumors about you or spreading your secrets then confront her and ask her why she did so or ask a friend to ask her if you don't like confrontation. There may be a very good explanation, so wait and get the full story then react!
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You have two options here.
1. Ignore her. This is probably the hardest to do, since some teenage girls are ruthless and will continue to talk bad about you even if you ignore them.
2. Confront her about it. Next time you see her, tell her that you heard that she's talking about you behind your back, and that you really don't like it. Ask her to stop, and if she refuses, tell her how immature she is. Honestly, people who talk behind others' backs are just lame attention-whores. They aren't worth getting upset about.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Welcome to the world of reality. I learned this the hard way also, that there is no such thing as a "best friend" because eventually they will all either A) turn on you, B) talk about you behind your back, or C) use you. So don't worry about it because shes just like every other so called "best friend" out there. If it bothers you about what she said, confront her about it & just stop being friends with her. Forgiving her is not the answer because no one really ever changes. Sorry girl, it's tough but it's for the best. ♥
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well first things first, before you start to judge your friend, talk to her about it first. if it isn't true, you may feel guilty for believing it. anyway, just confront her and ask her is she is. if she says yes, ask her why. if she feels uncomfortable, she may lie and say no, so try to do it suttley.
hope i helped and good luck
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Confront her about it.
No best friend talks behind her best friend's back.
cheers,
stargirl
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Hi!!!
TELL HER!
sincerely if she is your friend she won't talk behind your back... so feel good cause you weren't the one that was talking, it was her... so you are ok and have your concsience clear...
just tell her and also sometimes we do that (we shouldnt but we do) so also don't be too harsh, use your better judgement...
hope everything works out!!
toodles
Aly~
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