My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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Im moving to another state and i really need hlp. im gonna have to make new friends and last time i moved i couldn make any and i only had about 3. how can i make new friends? plus, i like kiddy shows (nick, cartoonetwork) and im going to be in 7th. (link)
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My best advice for you is to join sports and activities that you enjoy and this will help you make friends. you can also just get out of your comfort zone, put yourself on a limb and just introduce yourself. put yourself out there and keep trying to make friends.
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My best friend is in some sort of a self-esteem rut or something. He and I are both 17/M. He used to be a 24/7 cheery and funny guy, but ever since he started thinking about getting a girlfriend, he's gotten to be more and more depressing. I tried to help him out, you, know, pushed him to ask out girls he likes, but he would always just say something like "She'll say no. Even if she says yes, I'd be a terrible boyfriend."
Now, I'm seeing less and less of him because he's spending more and more time locked up in his room, being depressed. It sucks! I want my friend back and I want the guy to be happy. What do I do? (link)
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If i were in your situation i would find a girl who likes him that he likes also and ask her if she would go out with him if he asked. then get him to ask her out. tell him you will help him be a good bf and be there if he needs help. that's one way. i would also maybe try to get him out of his room and do things that he and you like and used to do together this could get him out of his depression and really strengthen your friendship. Hope it helps.
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I'm in college and I have a few good friends. I'm not shy, I'm just very picky and cautious about befriending people and trusting them. I do not go out alot. Some college girls like to party, but I'd rather just relax and watch a movie at home. I'm not incredibly social, and it's mostly because I choose to be this way. Is this a really bad problem/issue? I've had boyfriends and big groups of crazy friends before, but now, I'm more into family and studying. (link)
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your like me in a way, and i don't find being this way a problem. but i would say you should make sometime maybe once a month or once every two months to go out and hang with your friends. it's good for you and it keeps those friends your not to picking about close.
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ok so my best friend and i have feelings for each other and I told him how I felt and he told me how he felt. We want to get together but he has a GF so we are just friends.Well he went off to collage and last night he came back. Well We met u pand he was with his GF. Well every 5 seconds he wanted me to hug him and I didnt feel right about it so finnaly I huged him and his GF gave me a dirty look. then after that every 5 seconds he gave her a kiss right infront of me. It hurt me sooo bad so I left without saying good bye and went to the school dance and all my freidns were there so I tried to have a good time but he was on my minde the hole time (link)
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i would try to move on or hold out until him and her fade. you should also ask him how he feels about her compared to you. the best thing to do is get a bf spend time with your friends and get him off your mind till they break up than make your move.
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Me 15
Him 18
My best friend is 18 and we have dated once then his ex GF wrote him a long note saying she loved him. He dumped me and they got together then we stoped talking. Then we became friends and then best friends. Its almost a year since we dated and he told me that he loves me and always has..the problem is he is still with the same girl he dumped me for.He tells me all these sweet things and how much he cares for me. Then he sayd he loves her to. i feel like i have fallin for him and he knows that. What do I do because we want to stay just friends but at the same time be so much more (link)
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Well you have to start making decisions. you have to decide which it is going to be. If you want to be best friends you have to back off and disappear for awhile let the bond between him and you fade a little this could take some time. If you want to be more than friends, you will have to get the other girl he dumped you for out of the picture. HE must decide even though it will be hard who he wants as a girlfriend, you or her. And if he decides her than don't cry back off and wait until they break up than take your thrown beside him.
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So me and my best friend both like the same guy. ( ya ik a common problem) I've dated him 3 times and I still love him. He broke up with me the first 2 times so he could date her. I know it sounds bad but I can't help but love him anyways. She dated him 6 times because they have known each other longer. I understand we both love him but I'm sick of getting hurt because he loves us both. The most annoying part is my best friend knows that I like him but she keeps talking about her fantasies about him. How can I keep my relationships with both of them without yelling at her to shut up about the fantasies or crying every night because I love him so much? (link)
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i had or have still the same problem i am not sure witch it is now. But you need to tell your friend up front that you like him too and it will do you both a world of good if she can stop talking about him. also try date other people see if you can move on. if you don't want to move on see if you can win him over by spending time with him and talking. Hope it all goes well.
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What if friendship turns into a little more than love? I know this guy and of course I'm a girl and he always trys to hang out with me but I don't know if it's just a friendship thing or maybe he really really likes me. Maybe love. I don't know what to think. Please help me. I need advice! (link)
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Well have your friend ask his friend if he likes you more than just a friend. Make sure the friend she asks is his best friend that he tells everything to. Than you'll hsve your answer.
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what should i do for my 14th birthday? (link)
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Hire a Dj since it's summer have him set up out side your house or somewhere special. than invite your friends. This is a grown up and fun party idea.
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my friend and i have been best friends for ever,but shes gettting on my nerves. she is so annoying all she does is talk about guys. theres even a i hate:blank club all my other friends hate her what do i do i dont want to hurt her and i dont wanna gove up are relationship tottaly i just want space...kinda for awhile ??? (link)
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try asking her to talk about something else for a while, like maybe school or any other subject. when she starts again change the subject. try avoiding her down the halls or don't answer the phone when she calls let it go to message, try hanging out with some other friends. you could also try just maybe going out with a few but not all of your friends. So she'll feel like it was only a small group and lot of people didn't go.
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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do? (link)
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well you shouldn't take time away from your friend to see this boy. you should make time for your friend and make time for your Bf. don't let one of them hanging and feel like the other is more important. they both matter to you and you have to make time to be with them both. i think this will help your friend out alot because then she won't be mad at you because of your bf. And no one will get hurt or feel left out.
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okay so my one of my best friends is really emo. and my other friends are really preppy and they hate her. they always tell me not to be her friend, but i can't just stop being her friend just because she's emo. so what should i do?? Help!! (link)
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if you want to be her friend than be her friend don't stop just because they tell you to but if you don't want to be her friend than don't be her friend. or maybe you don't want to be your preppy girls friend. find your grounds and see where you stand.
also you are so righ by not doing what they tell you just because they tell you to do it.
Always yours,
Kittzen
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I have a friend that is always breaking up then BEGGING to be my friend agian. should I stop her for good or just live with it and stick it out? (link)
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well do you like her as your friend or do you just want her gone? listen to me if you don't like her than stop letting her be your friend again. but if you like her just put up with it and talk to her about it.
hope you two can be friends,
KIttzen
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I have a friend who is married for 5 years and having an affair. She confided in me and I as a friend listened....however the affair got way out of hand and I told her to stop it would be the best for everybody. She got mad after I told her that i told my husband. She in turn then started using me as an alibi and her scapegoat. So now she has turned the whole situation around and is telling her husband that it is me having the affair. I hate her ..so my husband sent some info to her husband annonymously...and she still turned everything around and is blaming me. My husband and i know the truth but there is no getting through to her husband because she is so manipulating. What do i do know? (link)
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I say,
you have to be just as bad as her turn her words around till you have her tell him the truth right in forunt of his face. or you can catch them in the act and take a picture or catch it on a recorded tape anything of that sort.
hope you catch her,
Kittzen
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hi there,
okay well..iv'e had this guy friend. "bestfriend" for about two years now, and he's great. He's actually more then great he's the best! he makes me laugh like no one else, im comfortable around him, and we just get eachother. we've never been more then "bestfriends" even though it always ran through my mind & some people would request it. i don't think nor do i believe there's anyone else out there that can make me happier then him. PROBLEMS.. hah number ONE he says he "hates me" i guess it goes with his mean humor i know he doesnt mean it. and he says it a lot. i know he's joking, we used to fight a lot about this "joking" that would upset me because it would go to far.. anyways i feel like when he says he hates me its like his code, like he's covering up for i love you because were "bestfriends"..problem TW0! were going to different highschools next yr because i moved and im afraid im gonna lose the one person who makes me feel best.. i dont know what to do, he's not one to let go ..even though im not sure how he feels. sorry if this was confusing, i just need help ASAP :( thanks! (link)
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Hey, it's kittzen,
Listen i think your right you may lose him, but if you tell him how you feel about him you may push him anyway pluse if he feels t he same than the long distance relationship will kill. what you need to do is simply you need to visit, chat, text, email, and even hang out. don't lose your special friend just because your far away and than when you move back or get older and con be around him more than if you still feel the same tell than he will know than your around if he wants you or feels the same.
Best of luck,
Kittzen
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I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.
He's confident, witty and a workaholic.
However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.
So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interested in him becos i was too shy.!
Later, i sent him email and was able to chat with him about work..and he responded quite well except that when i asked him for lunch, he just disappeared and dint reply yes/no.,,which was kind of weird.He could have said no.
I managed to obtain his cellphone and he replies all my sms except the ones on personal questions.
So how do i even talk to him tru the phone as a friend, if he's that shy since i dont really see him anymore in office?
How do i get him to even talk to me like a normal friend?
Would appreciate your advice.
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Kittzen helping,
Listen i know it seems like he's shy, but its not just that it seems to me like he really likes you. if's just way to shy to give love a shot. what you need to do is get to his best friend, watch them both see how he respons to a one on one friend to friend guy on guy thing than you try to do the same with him.
Also try catching a late work assissment with him, like maybe just an assissment where you both are working on it and than you order a pizza and sit down together. this might bring out his calm side and also it migh tell you if he likes you to or if he just wants to be friends.
Try these they may help you or you migh in the process of tring them find you own way to get this guy to talk to you.
let me know how it goes,
Kittzen
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i don't really like my friends and i want to meet more people and get out more, i hate staying inside.
any suggestions/tips/ideas?
thanks! (link)
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Kittzen telling,
I know the feeling and i can say i don't like my friends either, so days i just go around hateing on them cause i can't get along with them but here what i did to get completle happ with my life and my friends.
well i tried to go to camps near my house alone and make more friends like going up to them saying hi. And deffently scouting out in the hallways for people that looked okay and i could be comfortable with, you know things like that. also i got into more activies and such, try when you go out introced yourself to the people who you think you can get along with and relly put yourself out there.
and keep the friends you don't like also. they can be your best friends in the end or so i figured out.
Best wishes,
Kittzen
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