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divided and forced to choose
So me and my best friend both like the same guy. ( ya ik a common problem) I've dated him 3 times and I still love him. He broke up with me the first 2 times so he could date her. I know it sounds bad but I can't help but love him anyways. She dated him 6 times because they have known each other longer. I understand we both love him but I'm sick of getting hurt because he loves us both. The most annoying part is my best friend knows that I like him but she keeps talking about her fantasies about him. How can I keep my relationships with both of them without yelling at her to shut up about the fantasies or crying every night because I love him so much?
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Sit down with your best friend and calmly explain to her that you would appreciate it if she would stop talking about him all the time because it hurts you, and that if you were truly best friends, she would understand that.
Or if you really love this guy, wait for them to break up (because I assume they do break up sometimes) and pursue him then.
But remember, they're just fantasies. Who says they're ever going to happen? :)
Keep that in mind. It might just work.
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i had or have still the same problem i am not sure witch it is now. But you need to tell your friend up front that you like him too and it will do you both a world of good if she can stop talking about him. also try date other people see if you can move on. if you don't want to move on see if you can win him over by spending time with him and talking. Hope it all goes well.
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