Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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I'm having a few of my close friends over tomorrow, about ten or so of them. They will be staying all day, but the thing is, I don't have any ideas whatsoever on what to do. It will be raining all day so we can't really walk anywhere and no one is really bringing money to go to the movies. I have a lot of movies in the house, but they are all horror movies, which my friends aren't into. Suggestions on what to do will be appreciated. If it helps, I am seventeen (although the people who are coming aren't all the same age) and both guys and girls will attend. (link)
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You could go to the movie rental place today, and rent movies that they would like to watch. You could play board games, (kinda boring I know..but some people like that) Twister would be a fun one. Spin the bottle would be interesting, haha. You and your friends could always play in the rain. That can be a fun time! Ask them what they would like to do. Tell them some options that they have (things you do around your house), and see what they have in mind. If you have a pool table, that would be fun.
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My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help... (link)
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Just let her know that you will be there for her no matter what. And you should definitely support her, even tho she made a mistake (b/c getting pregnant at 15 is NOT something to be proud of!). Especially if her b/f is one of those guys who could care less about someone they "LOVED" the day before. She needs you. I also think that she should tell her mom, b/c she is going to need help and advice from her parents as well as her close friends! Good luck!
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well, my best friend and i are exactly the same practically and we always think the exact same. we pretty much agree on everything and she's really important to me
but, sometimes... we get mad for stupid reasons. we always make up like nothing happened, but sometimes she brings up really sad things like things that shes made fun (we make fun of each other all the time, jokingly) of me for , that actually hurt.
also, sometimes, she gets really into something and her school friends and her do things kind of against me. it really hurts sometimes
its not like im going to ditch her as a friend, but how could i cope with the things that happen, and how can i make myself feel better?
me- 14 f
friend-13 f (link)
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Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. Tell her that the things she thinks are just jokes, actually hurt you. If she talks about you behind your back, then she is not a good friend and I think you need to comfront her about it. She shouldn't treat you badly, if you are best friends. Just tell her how you feel and see where things go from there.
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Hey, I need a new screen name, can anyone give me some ideas? I don't care what about. Just like nothing sad or stuff like that. Thanks a bunch. I rate 5's!! (link)
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xSMILE xITSme
xOMGx its mEE
xLOVE lettersx
x3 staywithme
Heavens xAngel
lxl babygirl lxl
xx2cutex4youxx
x ADORABLE o5
UnFoRgEtTaBLee
ImLovinIt xx
mmm mmm Goodx
DontBreakMy x3
Happy2B Ursz
GorgeOus xx
xbutterflyKISSES
xUrBabyGirlx
pr3tty 1n P1NK
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My friend is having this huge birthday party! Her uncle owns the house in laguna beach and its gonna be a two day party. I've been her friend only for like 6 months but we're pretty close. My birthday was last week and i invited her and she came. I dont get y she wont invite me!! AT least 50 people are going so dont say she didnt have enough room in her 3 stretch limos. (link)
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If your "friend" didn't invite you and she invited nearly 50 other people, then she can't be too good of a friend. She might not think of you as the friend you think of her as! She might just consider you someone she talks to. You can ask her why she didn't invite you, if it's really bothering you a lot. If she invited a lot of "popular" kids, she might just want some attention from them. Just talk to her about it and tell her how bad it made you feel to find out that you weren't invited.
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I was the one who wrote about my best friend carly. well something bad happened. It all started yesterday when we were chatting online. Her ex came on and he told her that he liked me and then she told me. I was like why does he like me and she told me to ask him myself. well i didn't want to because I know what she went through with him and besides she doesn't like when her friends date her exs. well she told me that he wanted to talk to me and she said I should talk to him so I was like okay. well we started talking and then carly got offline. well like five minutes later she got back on so I started talking to her again. then she started freaking out on me and she told me to fuck off and stuff like that. I was like okay. I told her that if us talking was making her mad then I wouldn't talk to him but she just got offline. well I was still talking to her ex and she was talking to him and told him that she wasn't my friend and she hated me. he said he was going to talk to her which he did later on and she didn't seem like she was mad at me anymore. so this morning I called her and she hung up on me. so I called back again and she started screaming at me. I apologized for yesterday and I told her that I wasn't trying to go out with him or anything I was just excited that someone finally liked me but I didn't intend to hurt her and I told her that if talking to him was going to ruin our friendship that I wouldn't talk to him anymore. but she didn't really listen to me she just told me that she didn't want anything to do with me and that we weren't friends anymore. and then she hung up on me again. I don't want to lose her as my best friend and I am really depressed again but I don't know what to do since she won't talk to me. I feel empty and like I want to die without her, I know that is kind of weird but she has done so much for me and been there for me when noone else was. Pleas help me figure out what to do so that I won't lose her. I know that the fact that she is pregnant and all stressed out because of her bf has something to do with it but I want us to be best friends again. I will do whatever it takes so I don't lose her. (link)
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Stop talking to her ex b/f first of all. If you told him that you don't like him, and that you would never do anything to hurt your best friend (such as dating him), then I think that would make your friend feel better. Try to talk to her in person, and tell her that you aren't going to hurt her. She is probably just upset, b/c her b/f hurt her, and now she is afraid that her best friend might. You two are/were probably two of the most important people in her life, so I can understand why she is so upset. Just continute trying to talk to her, and I think that if she sees that you aren't going to give up, she will give in and talk to you. Be there for her, b/c it seems like she is going to be needing you a lot, especially if she is pregnant!
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I asked a question about this before. I was the one who was being indeed very selfish about my geeky friend who was embaressing me like hell!!! She was being very clingy and I was starting to feel embaressed about her because of her being geeky and annoying!
Well, she sat with me at lunch today. I followed someone's advice on trying to get some space because I realized I needed it!! But, how can I get space without making her upset. She's completely oblivious to me being annoyed with her!! I don't want to go out of the blue saying "You're annoying be so give me some space" She'll ask why! And then i'll have to tell her the truth! She's so annoying at lunch. I sit with cool people and she's totally butting in to all our coversations going "What?" "Who did?" ITS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!! I've been avoiding her and I know its not right! I need further inforimation!! (link)
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The truth hurts. However, I do think you should tell her the truth. It's only fair. The best time to talk to her about this would be when you two were alone tho. It would be completely rude if you just started telling her she was annoying and too "clingy" in front of everyone. You could try to introduce her to some new friends and get her to talk to new people. I do understand how you feel tho, b/c last year I had guys who were kinda like that with me. They never got the hint when I rolled my eyes after EVERYTHING they sed. So this year, I just stopped doing that and started talking to them. I still get annoyed with them, but not as much. Just remember to say things as nicely as you can when you are telling her how you feel.
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ME: ya.. but heyy ill make this easy.. if you wanna stop being friends with me now... (cause im such a bitch and i ignore people all the time in the hallway etc.) just dont say anything.... its better than seeing the actuall words...
HIM: i still wanna be....its hard when u get mad and aggravated tho
ME: thats why i want to give you a choice.. i will understand if you dont want to be friends..
he then signs off
what do you think that mean? does he not want to be friends anymore?? help please.. be honest!! pleaseee HELP ME! (link)
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It could mean that he just didn't feel like talking to you anymore that nite. It could have also meant that he didn't know how to tell you that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Or he might have just got kicked offline and didn't feel like signing back on! Don't get too worked up over it until you are able to talk to him again. You could try calling him and talking to him over the phone, which in my opinion is better than talking online when you are in a situation like this. But if he does tell you that he doesn't wanna talk to you anymore..don't keep bothering him, b/c that would probably just annoy him and then he could end up liking you a whole lot less than he MIGHT now. If he doesn't like the way you act, and you can understand why..maybe you could try not getting so mad all the time. I am the same way, I get so mad over EVERYTHING anymore. Everything annoys the hell out of me, and I can't stand anyone half the time. I hate the way I am, but I am trying to change. If you need anything else..just ask! Good luck!
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around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do
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Well if you really didn't start a rumor, then I think you should tell her that. Find out where she got that idea, and ask her why she would accuse you of something like that. If she didn't tell that many people, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal. People will forget about it sooner or later.
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Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks (link)
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Tell him that you like him. Flirt with him, and do cute things to get his attention. Laughing at his jokes, and making him feel important are definite ways for you to show him that you care! Who knows, maybe he likes you too! You just have to be brave enough to make the first move..in this case it would be to tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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I`m a pretty funny person and I`m average looking, I`m not popular but somehow every time I like a guy we end up going out. I don`t have a problem with this but everytime I get a boyfriend we go out for 3 or 4 days then I break up with him. Like my attention will actracted to another guy or something . Sometimes me and the first guy will get back together then break up again. What should I do ? I hate doing this all the time. (link)
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Don't go out with everyone you like unless you are absolutely sure you won't like someone else in a few days. If you like a few guys at the same time, don't go out with any of them unless you figure out which one you like more.. you don't have to have a b/f either. being single can be REALLY fun!!
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This is long but like crucial in my life: Okay one of my friends broke into the popular jock's house and had a party while their whole family was on vacation (my friend and Mr. Popularity used to be friends a while ago, so my friend knew where the key is). So somebody spilled my name, but the truth was I went to Mr. Popularity's house without knowing he was gone! My friend called me and said "There's a party at [Mr. Popularity's Name Here]'s house." So me and my boyfriend went. But when we found out Mr. Popularity wasn't there we left. Well my mom was pissed at that already. Now my friend left his jacket with his name in it at Mr. Popularity's house. Before he confessed, he was lying about everything. So he said I had taken it at breakfast and that's how it ended up there. So now my mom thinks I shouldn't trust him and everything. Well how do I get my mom to see I didn't know Mr. Popular Jock wasn't home AND to trust my friend now? Opinions welcomed. I'll rate fives, no joke. (link)
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Well if you have a past of lying to your mom and getting caught, chances are she might not believe you! I think the only thing you could do is tell her that you didn't know that the kid wasn't home and be really honest with her. If somebody doesn't trust someone however, it's usually pretty difficult to get them to by just simply telling them that they can. your friend doesn't sound like too good of a friend either, if he is spreading lies about you and getting you in trouble. just talk to your mom about it, she should understand! and as for that "friend" of yours..you might wanna think about getting better ones. no offense!
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one of my GOOD guy friends that i am extremely close w/got a girlfriend. this girl has been on and off with this other guy 15 times and she cheated on him twice. and now that my friend has a girlfriend i'm almost jealous of her. i don't think i like him, but when i see them together i kinda feel ignored or something. but he's not ignoring me... i don't know if i actually do like him b/c i know they wont last long and it'll be a 1-2 week thing, but when he was single i didn't feel this way... (link)
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You probably feel this way b/c you are just used to getting all of his attention, or atleast more than you are probably getting now. Tell him how you feel, and don't be afraid to! You might not like him any more than a friend, you are just jealous that his g/f is getting more attention from him than you are. Don't worry about it too much tho, b/c you are rite..it probably will only last a few weeks.
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Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\ (link)
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In my opinion if you were willing to, you could see a counsellor. Someone who is able to work with you, and try to help you build your confidence up to the point where you can actually talk to guys in person! I get embarassed very easily, which causes me to be quiet when I have something to say, very often! A counsellor would help you figure out why you are so shy, and help you work on fixing that!
Here are some websites that you might want to look at.. I found these (by searching on google) where people talk about overcoming shyness. You might like to read them,
http://www.teenadviceonline.org/archive/45972.html
http://express.7.forumer.com/a/overcoming-shyness_post280.html
http://www.ym.com/jsp/body/askanything/jan0101.jsp
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-so-shy-around-him-i-can-hardly-speak.html
I hope you can find some of that information useful!
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ok.. so i have this friend... at one time she went through some really tough stuff.. and I didn't mind helping her and talking to her and stuff... but it was like she'd put me on a guilt trip and make me feel so sorry for her.. and like convince me I was all she had.. but then when we were at dance or something.. she was all happy and idk... not even the same person... so she finally got counselling after she started cutting and stuff.. they even wanted to put her in sight care or something.... but now i'm the one thats not so stable and she doesn't even care about me anymore.... she still sends me texts every once and awhile saying things like "i'm so lonely :'(.. I have no one!" ect....so i finally come out and tell her waht's bothering me and at first she cried with me and told me everything would be alright and we had this huge talk... but now she is being such a bitch to me... she doesnt have time to talk to me or hang out with me because she's always with other people.... and when we do talk its like "hey how are you?" "ok u?" "i'm ok" "well i g2g later" and thats it!! i just don't think its fair that i was always so loyal to her ... and now that i'm the one that needs help i dont have anybody...... its much more complecated then that but i guess that'll have to do...
5's to anyone who HELPS. (link)
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If you ask me, she is definitely not the kinda friend I would want to have. But then again, most people, believe it or not, are exactly like her. They only care about themselves and their own feelings. I think you should just try to make new friends, and get a new best friend. Someone you could talk, who actually WILL be there for you! If you told her how you feel and she is still doing this to you, she can't care that much. If you just need someone to talk to rite now, you could try talking to your mom or if you have any older sisters that might understand, they might be able to help. You could also get counselling too if you feel alone, and don't have anyone to talk to about your problems. If you want, you can IM me on AIM (my s/n is BrittanyMichx39) and be more specific and give me more detail about the problem(s) you are having, and I'd love to try and help you out or just give you some advice or suggestions on how to make things better! Good Luck!
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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes are "loserish" I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help! (link)
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I think you should just try to be yourself! Don't be afraid to say what's on your mind. When you know the answer to a question, don't be scared..answer it! Get people to notice you, but speaking up. If you are quiet and shy, people will just look rite passed you! But if you are loud and outgoing, people will love to be around you! You could always try to talk to people at lunch, or gym (if you have it), or ask someone for their s/n or phone number! Give em a call, and ask if they would wanna hang out sometime after school or on the weekends. Have a party or a sleepover, and just invite everyone and see who shows up! Just don't be afraid to be yourself! I found information on a website (mentioned below) that i thought you might like to read:
http://www.shykids.com/shykidsfriends.htm
Making Friends -
1. The quickest way to make a friend is to smile. When you smile, people think you are friendly and easy to talk to. It may not be easy at first to smile. But, you can practice in the mirror. When you look at yourself, think if you'd rather talk to your smiling face or your usual face that may look scared or angry. Remember that other people have feelings too and most people will stay away from a scared or angry looking face.
2. One easy way to start a conversation with someone is to say something nice about them. For example, you could comment on a great answer to a teacher's question, good catch at the ball field, pretty shirt, etc...Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you. Doesn't it make you want to keep talking to that person? 3. Ask your new friends questions about themselves. Who's their favorite singer, where do they live, who's their teacher, what do they do after school are all good questions to start a conversation.
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my best friend is like fading away from me. she just never calls me anymore. she used to call me every day. now whenever she calls she asks for my sister. i dont know why shes mad at me but i thnk it may be because im not a vegetarian. as stupid as it sounds i think so. any way she is a vegetarian and she believes in it very strongly and i told her that i wasnt a vegetarian any more and she was like "WHAT!" and hasnt really called me and actually talked to me since. and in her profile it used to say my name is Sarah (not real name) but my best friend Anna (me, not real name) calls me spanky. but now it says my name is Sarah but my friends call me Ess. she doesnt talk to me when my sister invites her over. i dont know what happened shes just mad at me all of the sudden. what an i do to get her back (link)
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First of all, i don't think you should worry about it. people change. your best friend just might want to be friends with other people, and that happens! I think, just to find out what's going on, you should comfront her and tell her that you want to talk about everything. find out the real reason why she is mad at you, and don't be scared to ask her questions! she is the one that is mad at you, so you shouldn't act like you don't care b/c it is obvious that you do!! another thing you could do is talk to your sister about it. ask her if your friend has sed anything to her about you. give your friend a call, or write her a note. she should atleast talk to you, but if not..she isn't worth the time and struggle. don't dwell on it for too long, when you could be out making new..better best friends!
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what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz
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Well first of all, you shouldn't have to try and get someone's attention. A person should like you for who you are. But if it's really important to you, to get this guy to notice you, just try to be his friend. Get his s/n or his phone number and talk to him sometime. Don't be afraid to ask him to hang out sometime. Flirt with him. Wear a cute outfit when you two hang out, or even when you are just going to see him somewhere. Just be yourself! Good Luck!
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my best friend and i are goin to different high schools next year. i had the choice to go to her high school, but i decided not to because i didn't want to be unhappy at that high school. a month ago she left to go to another country with her family and she's comin home soon. while she was on vacation she called everyone else, but me. durin the school year we only saw each other 3 times and we haven't seen since. she only calls me when she has no one to talk to. we call each other wifey because that was how tight we were b4. she's changed a lot and i just dont know if i want to be her friend anymore. i've been through everything with her and now she's kinda leavin me for her little slutty friends. she's always sayin how she's goin to make it all up. when she makes plans she'll tell me about it, but wont invite me. i just feel like we aren't friends anymore and i've talked to her about this already, but i guess she doesnt get it. what do you guys think i should do?
sorry that this is sooo long, but its just killin me to keep thinkin about this inside. i'm givin advice to other people and i can't help myself (link)
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that just goes to show how much people change..i can relate to situations like that. i think you are making a good choice to go to the other school. there, you can make new friends because your "best friend" doesn't seem so great anymore. some people are very easily influenced by other people, so the reason for your best friend changing so much might be because of the people she hangs out with. i think you should just either talk to her, or even better yet write her a looong email, or letter that explains exactly how you feel. tell her you don't even feel like her best friend anymore, and ask her what she thinks about everything. maybe she is trying to tell you that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but whether or not she does..you will make new friends, and have good times with them! i know it might be hard, but don't try to let it get to you so much. surround yourself with people who really care, who actually notice you are there, and who honestly want to spend time with you. if someone thinks you are not good enough for them, which your "best friend" might, chances are you are too good for them. (not in a mean way..i mean i'm not suggesting you say that you are better than ANYONE because nobody is better than anyone else) but if she doesn't need you, you don't need her!
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i like this girl but she is one year younger than me and she is just my friend what should i do (link)
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Age shouldn't matter when you like someone, especially if it's only a one year difference thing. (if you are mature,and it's not illegal [such as an 24 year old dating a 15 year old..]) But just look at your situation, and ask yourself some questions. (answer yourself honestly, to the best of your knowledge.)
-does this girl feel the same way about you?
-would it ruin any friendships or relationships that are important to either one of you?
-does she live near you?
-could she give you what you wanted (never ask for too much), and would you be able to give her what she needs/wants?
-would it most likely work out perfectly (or close enough to it)?
-would it make you both happy?
-do you like anybody else more than her?
-does she know you like her?
-can you be yourself around her?
-do you tell her everything, and vice versa?
-do you trust each other?
-could you see yourself with her in a few years, maybe even longer?
-do you know each other really well?
-how long have you been friends? (long enough to possibly take it to the next level?)
-do you want the same things?
-do you two argue/fight a lot?
-do you love her? (when i say "LOVE" i do not mean "IN LOVE" i mean, do you honestly, genuinely, without a doubt care about her?)
-would you be willing to do anything for her?
-are you sure this is what you want?
and remember, DON'T BREAK HER HEART! Good Luck!
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