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if any of you answered my question about my friend who always flips out on me for no reason. Heres what happened. I took y'allz advice and now we are closer then ever. She told e why she did it and she said i was because she felt she could trust me most..and because she did she figured she could take it out on me. See, she had Family problems..But they are all better.
Thanks to everyone who answered♥
Thanks a bunch,
Confused ♥ -Maria (link)
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awww thats Wonderful!!
♥ Michelle
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At school there's these rumours going around about one of my friends, and someone decided to ask her about them. For some reason she goes and blames me for spreading stuff about her (which i havnt btw) and comes up to me after school shouting and swearing! i tried to explain that i hadnt dun anything but she wouldnt listen, and now shes started bitching about me to everyone i know! Also, i bought her a bday present before we argued and i havnt given it to her yet. I dont know whether to give it to her or not!! i really hate the way shes being so petty and immature, but should i try 2 make things up with her (everytime i try to speak to her she yells at me) or just leave it?
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hey! I think you should still give her the presant! Also, mabe someone told her that you started it. you need to talk to her, if she doesnt listen you could send her an e-mail or be like "Please just listen to me .." try to make her. *~Good luck~* Xo Michelle
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Me and my best friend used to be so clost and now we are slowing drifting apart...we both know it and the other day she sent me an email saying that we weren't as close. I don't want to drift away from her, we tell eachother mainly everything. We are both starting to hang out with two way different crowds too. How can we be as close as we used to?? ~Shelby~
p.s. yes katie this is me..lol (link)
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hey!! you could invite her over your house. or go to the Mall,movies,or anywhere with you. If you really want to keep your friend ship going you could try these things or Just hang out. *~ I hope your frendship works out~* Xo Michelle
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Hi im a 13 year old guy living in alberta and heres my problem, I know this girl...were pretty good friends and all, but i need to know if she likes me because she keeps showing signs that she does, we flirt at school and stuff like that. yesterday after school she invited me to her house, she asked if i was still putting off girls till high school (long story) and i said well it depends on who asks me...then she said oh i c. We always flirt and hang around her house and joke and stuff like i said i would buy her in for the dance this friday and she was like ok so youll pick me up at 7 in a limo ring? things like that, but we arent going out. all my friend say i should ask her because she likes me but sometimes she acts luike she hates my guts then then next day she will love me. How do i tell if she likes me??? this is driving me crazy!
by the wa trhis girl is 13 too and shes in my class in junior high...just for the record :) (link)
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hey! i think she likes you and thats why she acts like the. Mabe she is afraid that you dont like her..and she doesnt want to give it away. Also she could say the stuff like "you'll pick me up in a limo" just to make you laugh or tokind of "roll you in" hehe. *You could ask one of your friends to go up to her and ask her if she likes you or you could have one of your friends ask one of her friends. -you should ask her, and if you like the way it goes then ask her out. *~GOOD LUCK~* hope i helped Xo Michelle
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Okay so this year my class and i are all going to washington for an end of the year trip, And my bff asked me to room with her, but i dont really wnat to but i say yes anyways. Now here's where it gets hard for me, my other friends (4 of them) asked me to room with them and i'd rather room with them and have tons of fun...BUT i dont wanna leave my friend alone.. and i would ak her to room with us but they all hate her and there can only b 5 to a room...what should i do? i dont want to be a bad friend but i DO want to have fun :(...i rate 5's! (link)
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hey. Just really think about it. I mean your trip will probably be a blast,so you should spen your time with the people who will make it even funner. But what you could do if you roomed with the four girls is you could spend a little bit more time with you BFF. You could sit with her no the bus...if you go out sit with her..and mabe you could walk with her some times..(for she wont feel left out) Also Do not forget to hang out with your other friends=) ~ Well best of luck~ **HOPE YOU HAVE BUNCHES OF FUN** ~
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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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hey! She is probably so sad, or mad that your moving she probably doesnt want to lose a best freind. But i think if you call her up, or go talk to her and tell her how much you care about her and how you really want to leave on a good note with her Hope i helped ~
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ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???
sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx (link)
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hey..tell your friend you are really sorry. Dont stop being who you are..but be careful about your jokes. Good Luck Hope i helped XoXo Michelle
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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer* (link)
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:0) just forgive him. I think hes seriously sorry. I no this is a stupid answer . SORRY:0( but I hope i helped XOXO Michelle
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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice... (link)
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IF they Yell at u and r embarrsed to be around your.. they are not your true friends. A true friend(s) will accept you for who u r ... Just ignore them. Mabe try to find some new friends... I really hope i helped you out* XOXO Michelle PS: if you ever need anymore advice ask me :0)
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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
Signed
Scared 15-f (link)
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WOW* I think you should talk to yourBest friend about it..tell her about how he use to hits you and says bad things..if she if you real best friend she will understand. But you got to sit her down and be really serious..bc i mean this is a serious problem-:|:- Good Luck-:|:- hope i helpd XOXO Michelle
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I have this firend of mine whom i've known since grade school. We are now 22 years old. When we were about 16 years old he told me that his sister had a baby and that he was left to take care of it. I found it strange because the baby was not his responsibility. He then told me that his sister took the baby to live across town.
We got out of touch with each other since high school. And met up again in College. It was a year or so when he decided to confide in me and tell me that he had a son when he was 17. He then told me that his son died due to medical reasons. I was his shoulder to lean on.
Recently i met another old high school freind of mine who said that she sees him all the time and he showed her pictures oh his son. I told her that i knew all about his son and i was sorry about what happened. She looked at me with questioning eyes and asked what happened to his son. I told her that his son died. She laughed and said no his so is not dead. She told me that the last time she saw him he told her that he had to buy some books for his son because he is starting school.
I was shocked. I could not belive it. I knew she was not lying she had no reason to lie. And it sounds like his son is no longer a baby. A baby does not need books. It sounds more like a first grader. As if the child was 7 years old. It was seven years ago when we were 16 and he had to take care of his sister's baby.
Could it be that my friend is a cold blooded liar? And if so why does he feel the need to lie to me. The person who was there for him through his so call suffering. And why would he tell me htat his son is dead when the opposite is true? (link)
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hun! talk to him about it..ask him why he lied to you.. Hopefully i helped XOXO CHellie
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i have a friend who is always complaining of being fat, but she isnt and she always says that no guys like her or will ever like her and all that is not true. she is a great girl and i love her to death. what can i tell her to make her realize that she is fine the way she is and someday she will find someone it is just a matter of time? (link)
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Hunny. Tell her how much you like care about her
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I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
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Confused, have u ever considered talking to you friend about how it is now fair the way she treats you. Hop i helped ♥ Michelle
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ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx (link)
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I understand you have talked to her about this but mabe you need to sit her down and really talk to her about it.. if she doesnt listen to you and still does all of this stuff you will have to go to an adult abotu this. hope i helped
* Michelle
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