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Heyy!! My name is Amber. I am 14 years old .. and I go to FHS. I'm in the 9th grade. I love to give advice, even tho some times I might not give GREAT advice .. but I'll try my hardest! I love to hang out with my friends // play sports // go on long walks // go to the beach // go to the movies // and listen to music. If you need anything, jus IM me at [xPH0T0C0PYHEARTS] and I'll be sure to answer any of your questions!

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my friends house is realy dirty > and ii hate going over her house ... there are alays bugs and dust and just dirt all over ... i hate it but ii dont know what to do should i tell her or wat should i do ... like we always have sleep overs at her house and go over but i realy dont want to go over there but she is one of my good friends ... so PLEASE HELP ME !! i dont know what to do >o and should i tell her about ? help please ! thankx always .::* marie [ 14 female ]

I would just try and hang out at your house a lot. Instead of going over her house, invite her over your house to stay. I would just try and avoid going over her house as much as possible. Or one day be like "We should clean." Don't be mean about it, but try and make it fun. Or I would just sit down and talk to her. Be nice about it, but tell the truth. Hope everything works out.

Hope I helped.

x3333 '|[ Amber ]|'

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okay, my friend. shes been one of the best friends i've ever had since about kindergarten or first grade. we've hung out soo much. but this year seemed a little bit different. she started to hang out with this one girl. we'll call her sandy. so "sandy", she's definitely not the kind of person you'd want to hang out with. shes known to be backstabbing, and become your friend for the wrong reason. now, "sandy" and my good friend were in this really big fight earlier in the year. my friend talked soooo much about her, it wasnt even funny. she said horrible things and made fun of her a lot. now, they've become BEST friends. my good friend, that was once my best friend is now ditching me and my other friends for "sandy". i've even heard that she's telling MY secrets to "sandy" that i didnt want anyone to know. im not sure if its just me, that thinks its kind of weird that they're really good friends now.. but i was wondering what i should do about it, if anything?

Aw, I'm really sorry about what's going on. It sounds like your best friend really isn't a true friend, and you had to find it out the hard way. She seems like she's trying to impress "Sandy". If I were you, I would try and talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen, then I would try and move on. I know it sounds hard, but maybe that's what's best. Start hanging out with new people. Start getting to know other people. Maybe then your friend will realize that she did the wrong thing. She doesn't have the right to tell your personal secrets to any one. Hope everything works out!
Hope I helped

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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx

Sorry about your friend. But it seems like she really isn't a true friend. You said that you guys get in a lot of fights. In my opinion, I think I would be mad at her for all that she is doing. If she was a real friend, I think that she wouldn't be doing this to you. Does she know that you have a crush on that boy? Also, she wouldn't be hanging out with the girl that hates you. She could easily be talking about you behind your back. If this was happening to me, I would just tell her that I don't want to be friends with her any more. You don't deserve to be treated like that.

Hope I helped

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