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Okay, well I am like BEST FRIENDS with this girl. She recently broke up with her boyfriend (about a month ago.) Now I think he likes me, and I like him too. But my best friend is telling me she won't be friends with me if I go out with him. I don't understand why she cares though, because she doesn't like him anymore and recently told me she was lezbo. I don't want to throw away our great friendship, but I really like this guy, and I don't like lezbians! What should I do?

if he asks you out go out with him because if she doesn't respect that you like him and he likes you then she's not a true friend. she should be happy for you no matter what if she calls herself a true friend.

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

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i think that you should give her another chance b.c. life is full of chances but i also think that you shouldn't tell her anything for a long time for her to gain her trust back



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hey. i have this friend that ive been friends with for a while and shes been blowing me off to hang out with her other friend. its getting me mad but i dont wanna throw away our longggg friendship thats been good till now. tell me what do i do?

i think that you should keep your good friendship with her but start to hang out with some other people.


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alot of girls in my school are really pretty.. they could get any guy to go out with them ! i myself think im pretty..but none fo the guys see it that way. the pretty girls dont need to wear a lot of makeup mayeb some lipgloss or something like that .. they are just natrually so pretty. i want to be one of the pretty girls ! and i want at least one of the guys they can get. x3

i say give it time and maybe change your stlye a little and then if you want them to notice you start hanging around the pretty girls and make friends with them.


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It all started in 6th garde when i went out with this great guy. We went out for about 5 monthes..then we brokeup becuase there was really no more love in it. After we broke up her started up this new name for me . I would rather not say what it is ! Now even though everyone hates HIM, some of the guys still call me this name. Its not like slut or anything like that..its just a stupid name that totally makes no sense to me. I want the guys to stop calling me this cause it really bothers me. I tried to talk to them..but their a bunch of idiots sometimes..please help me get them to stop !

just pretend that it doesn't bother you and they'll stop. they're just being immature so don't take it to heart.

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I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me.

hey,
i think that you should tell her that you're interested in guys not girls. but since you don't want to throw the relationship away i'd just tell her that you still wanna stay best friends.

~Alyssa

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Me and my friend Jay have been very close friends since the 8th grade. We are Juniors in highschool now, and in the beginning of last year he became very attractive. I developed a crush on him, and recently it's become really intense. We've expressed some intress in one another, he used to like me at one point this year, and vice versa, but neither of us told eachother. (i found out from my friend). I've been itching to tell him how i feel, because we hang out almost every day and i just feel it necessary. But last week he told me, unexpectedly that he likes my best friend, lindsay. They never hang out, and if they ever do, it's with me. She already has two guys that she's with and it would bad of me to say this, but she really is in some way a slut. I don't know what to do. I've built up all of these emotions for Jay, and now i really cannot tell him about it. When he told me about his crush on Linds, i acted a bit weirded out and he caught on a bit. Since then we havent hung out or talked. What should i do?

hey,

i think that you should tell your best friend your feelings for Jay. her reaction to it will tell you if she's a true friend or not and she can also help you out with it. but with the whole her being a kinda slut issue i don't exactly think you should bring up those feelings to her. lol. (p.s.) if you become closer to Jay and act like yourself around him he'll probaly like you too and when you feel the time is right, you can tell him how you feel about him.

i hope you take this into consideration.

~Alyssa

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