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Suicide - A CRY FOR HELP
A suicide attempt is a cry for help -- a desperate effort to end the pain of problems that have become overwhelming.
A new teen suicide hotline is available in Southeastern Idaho through the Bannock Youth Foundation. If you or someone you know is depressed or contemplating suicide, help is available 24 hours a day. Help is free and confidential.
1-800-949-0057
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Let's Talk . . .
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Emergency Medical Services: 911
What To Say To A Troubled Friend . . .
"I'm here for you."
"I want to hear about what's bothering you."
"I really care about you."
"Let's talk and figure out how to make things better."
"Things are tough now but they will change - you've got to hang in there and I'm here to help."
"I would feel horrible if you hurt yourself and I don't want you to die."
"If I can't help you, I'll help you find someone who can help."
"No one and nothing is worth taking your life for."
What You Can Do To Help A Depressed Or Suicidal Friend.
Listen to your friend with concern.
Ask your friend if he ever felt this bad before. If so, how did he handle the situation?
Share a time when you felt pretty bad and assure your friend that things can and will change.
Be especially concerned if your friend takes drugs and/or alcohol because their judgement is impaired.
Ask if your friend has suicidal thoughts.
Let your friend know that many people think about suicide but never actually attempt it.
Give your friend a hotline number and make sure your friend calls.
Stay with a depressed person. Do something together.
If your friend is suicidal and refuses to get help, tell a responsible adult as soon as possible.
Make specific plans to see your friend the next day.
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Anorexia, Bulimia & Compulsive Overeating.
Abuse, Rape, Incest Hotline: 1- 800-656-HOPE
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Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
National Runaway Switchboard: 1-800-621-4000
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-SUICIDE
Peer Violence Hotline: 1-87-REPORT-IT
Young and Pregnant Hotline: 1-800-550-4900
Youth Depression Hotline: 1-800-HIT-HOME
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I have a bad sweating problem. Even when it's cold, I sweat, and yeah i put deodorant on EVERDAY. but i still sweat ALOT and it shoes on my shirts. and im a girly girl and i love wearing short sleeve shirts, but i don't want that to SHOW. are there any deodorants that can stop it from showing? PLEASE HELP. I RATE 5'S FOR ANY HELPFUL ANSER.
Well there are conditions that make you sweat perfusely. You might want to go to your family Physician and see whats going on. Your doctor might be able to prescribe a special medicated deodorant that will help with the sweating.
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okay i know girls are suposed to shave down there, but i dont really know how. If i used like Nair, or something will it come off? Anyone know from experience or know someone whos tried it, and it worked?
Dont EVER use nair down there. It will hurt worse then anything you have ever felt.... if you go to your local drugstore, there are products that a formulated to deal with the unwanted hair ''down there.''
And if you can't choose.. find the youngest female clerk thre and as her what product she would recommend. Easy and simple.
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I'm an 18-year-old female and lately my hair has been falling out like crazy. It's mostly when I brush it but even with just running my hand threw it, some still comes out. When I run my hand threw it's maybe like, 6 strands or so. But, when brushing it's like a wad of hair.
My hair used to be really thick and now it's like half of what it used to be about 7 months ago. That's alot of hair to loose!! I'm really scared because it seems like I'm going bald of something. My friends say it's stress but quite honestly, I have nothing to be stressed about!
Does anyone have any ideas???
Hun... With lukemia... You hair falls out.. thats one way to TELL you have it.. i said its possible!
I never said you had that.
And i would know.. I had lukemia when i was 14...5 years ago....so i DO know what im talkin about.
Today the discharge in my underwear had a yellowish brown tint to it. Some parts of it looked kinda red. This is the first time this has happened. Is this my period coming or should I worry. I don't want to go to the doctor *unless its really serious* because my family is really short of money right now. I'll rate 5's for any helpfull answer.
Its your period. It has started honey. When that first happened to me i was freeking out, the my mom said it was my period. SO congrats hun! Your a woman now.
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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(
No, there is nothing wrong with you. The tampon you might want to use is tampax pearl. Very comfortable. Also, insert the tampon while sitting down and your legs spread open. Insert it at an upward angle. This should work
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i was wondering if VEET bladless shaving actually works?? and if so how long do your legs stay smooth?
it works for me it worked for about 2 to 4 weeks
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i have horrible blackheads, and i got that blackhead clearing astringent by Clean and Clear. if anyone has used it, could you tell me how well it worked, and how long it took? thanks! =)
my friend used it and it worked really good for her. you cant see them any more but she has been using it for a month but she very much likes it
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I've tried using tampons and I want to be able to use them for the summer, but everytime I put them in (i know the right spot) it gets stuck after a certain point, even when I use slender, and it doesnt go up anymore. Help!
then aybe your forceing it to much it. your onlysupposed to put it in all the way to the line. My friend had that problem but i straightened her out with it. Its a vey comman mistake made by many first timers
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can you get TSS from wearing Pads?? thanks
No you cant you con only get TSS from wearing a tampon because the blodd is still in side of you not on the out side.
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i just got braces~& i heard that you could have chewing gum but you couldnt have bubble gum
also what are some good foods you can eat with braces?
Oatmeal. Thats one of the best ones.
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does anyone know the best way to get rid of pubic hair i mean shaving sometimes leaves whiskas and i don't like that. I tried waxing on my legs and it really hurt so i gave up! Is there any wax you casn buy that does not hurt and is effective???and leaves legs smooth and about pubic down below how can i get that smooth.
Use Nair
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How exactly is being anorexic bad for you? People has said that if you're anorexic your body loses all these nutrients but what are the actual like 'symptoms' you get if you're anorexic. Besides dizzyness and fatigue.
Thanks I'll rate 5 for any decent answers!
When your anorexic, your not getting the nutrients your body needs to keep going. It reduses the blood flow and you loose tons of your energy. Soon you become pale and very fragile and your organs stop working properaly.
more information on sideaffects of anorexia, go to this link
http://www.anorexicweb.com/Wishbone/wishbonepage4.html
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Okay, I have a problem.
I have a dance performance on the 17 and 18 of June, I normally get my period on the 15th. I have researched tampons and the pros and cons but the problem is they(tampax.com) say that when you start to wear tampons you should just wear the ones for lighter days. That sucks because my period is normally really heavy and the preformance is from 5:30 to about 12:00 both nights. There is only one bathroom and its normally filled during recital nights. I have my dressing room with about 60 other girls and there is no possible way I could wear pads with my costumes, one I have too many white outfits and two I move around too much on stage. I can't have the pad go flinging out. That would be disgusting.
So the question is, is it okay to try wearing tampons for heavier flo on my first time?
Yes, I have tried tampons before and it always feels uncomfortable because i'm not use to having string stick out of my vagina but I would go with the discomfort for my dance.
i would recomend pearl tampons. I find them very comfortable. But you will have to get used to the string, because if you can't then you will have to wear a pad which obviously will stick out under your outfits.
Hope i helped you and good luck
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I have a few pimples and alot of open pores and my skin is very oily. I want to get rid of the open pores and my oily skin (I really dont care about the pimples I dont have many). My question is does anyone know a product that will take away the excess oil in my skin and close my pores. It can be 2 products. I dont think there's a product that will do both.
Baby powder!
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