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I'm back for the third summer in a row!:) I'm here to listen to you, and try to give you the best advice I can. I've been through a lot, and I can relate to many problems people have, so all my answers I give are coming from experierence. My interests are swimming, tanning, horse back riding, dancing, flip flops, flimmaking, and photography. I like giving advice, and I love getting results. I have my email on here somewhere, and thats the best way to contact me. I'm always here to listen, I'm a great listener. I have my cell phone with me 24/7 so if your having a issue, or if you really need someone to talk to email me, then I can give you my cell. I'm here to help you. I would like to thank advicenators for creating this amazing site and giving me the opportunity to help out. Thanks! :)
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so the other night i was coming home late from work. i was at a stop sign and looked out my window and i saw the weirdest thing. i saw fairies floating around dancing with dwarfs and the fairies had those little boots on with the curls at the end. i told everyone about it the next day and nobody believed me. shortly after i saw them again when i was coming home from this crazy party. so i told my parents about the fairies, a big mistake, and yesterday they made me go to the doctor. they told the doctor what i said in private and then he asked to talk to me alone. he told me i had gone way too far this time and he said the fairies and dwarfs were illusions i had created because i'm always smokin and trippin. sure, i do drugs but these fairies were real, i know they were. does anybody else ever see fairies dancing around with dwarfs late at night?

Honestly I have never seen Faries, or Dwarfs. But that doesn't mean that you didn't. The sighting could be a result of drugs yes, or they could be a mental disorder, or you could have just seen them. It's probably best just to let it go, because no matter how you explain what you saw I don't think it will change your parents minds. I'm not telling you to stop the drugs, but if you really want to find out if what you saw was real or not then you could try going without drugs for a while and then see if you still see the faries and dwarfs! Good luck! :)
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lately, my tongue has been peeling. i burned my tongue really bad on realllllyy hot hot chocolate, but that was like a month ago, so i dont think thats why. it doesnt hurt or anything, but what could it be from and is it bad?


thanks!

Ok I just did some research for you. It said that you should see a doctor. It's common if you smoke/drink or if you use mouthwash daily. But sometimes peeling occurs without any provocation. If you also have bad breath and a bad taste in your mouth you can purchase a tonge scraper and use it daily. It's important you see a doctor because a peeling tongue is a major sign of tongue cancer. Thats mainly if it's in one area. The main symptons of tongue cancer are pain while eatting, lump in your neck, lump on your tongue, and tongue pain. I don't mean to scare you, and it's unlikely it's tongue cancer. But it's important you see a doctor as soon as you can! Good luck! :)
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How can I get taller?
Any foods in SPECIFIC I can eat to help a little?


There is no factual way to get taller. Milk, and veggies will help a little. But not a noticable amount. Your height depends on your genetics. Your body has a plan for you, and it's hard to change that. If you want to look taller you should try skinny jeans (jeans that cut off at the ankle) and maybe some heals. Good luck! :)
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Well, I got a pimple today and it's not like the usual pimples I have. It feels like a hard little rock and whenever I touch it, it hurts. Usually, I never get acne and when I do it's a VERY small pimple or a small break-out.

So basically, why does the pimple hurt when I touch it? And why isn't like the other pimples I have, small and soft?


I'm 15/f.
I started my period when I was 11, so I don't think it has anything to do with late puberty?

I have very clear skin but once in a great while I will get a pimple like the one your discribing. It can be from stress, or lack of washing, change in skin cremes, greesy foods. It could be your period is coming and that might have something to do with the change in your skin. Also different areas of the skin have harder pimples (gross but true) and that could have to do with it. It's natural to have it hurt while touching around it. It probably has a white cap on it. That is very senstive. The pimple is filled with fluid like puss (sorry I know this is gross) so it's probably sore when you touch it. It's going to be tempting to pick at it and touch it but it's best not to. If you pick it off then you with have a little divit almost like a little dip in your skin. And in order to remove that you have to have surgey, so bottom line don't pick it. But if you wash it daily and even do some sensitive skin facial scrubs it will help alot! Good luck! :)
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what is the best tampon to use if you have never used one before? my body type is petite. i got my first period over a year ago.

Well I use the Tampax Pearl light. And I am petite as well. I really like those because there not very big, and you can get good smelling kinds. They are easy to use if you have never used one before, but if you find you have to change it often, you could upgrade to a bigger version. Theres all different kinds, and if your not embarressed you could go into the store and look at the different types! Good luck! :)
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14/f
this is kinda embassising, but here goes..
ok, so im on a swim team, and i shave down there like once a week or so. my suit would show some hair down there if i didnt.. I usually dont shave all of it, i just leave i little line in the center there, about 1/2 inch wide.. should i shave all of it? is there anyway to reduce the scratching/itching that goes on down there after i shave?? What razor should i use? im currently using shick intuition.. I know that there will be a stubble, but is there anyway to reduse that?
and i was wondering if anyone knew the age you have to get laser removal.. should i try it?? what about waxing down there?? i herd that it hurts really bad, and im very sensitive to pain.. especially down there..lol
sorry i have a lot of questions..
anything will help thanks!!

I shave all of it, and that looks a little better. I've tried lots of different razors and your going to have a stubble no matter what.. Try lotioning/powdering down there it will feel strange at first but it will make your skin less irriated, and it will help reduce the stubble. When you are in the shower if you have a shower head that you can take off the stand, try washing down there for a minute or two, and just have the water clean you out. I know that sounds gross but it does help. I don't know the age limit for the laser removal but I'm pretty sure you have to be 18 or older.. Waxing does hurt, but it saves lots of time, and it makes it much smoother and less itchy. It will only hurt for about 10 minutes and then it's over. And you only have to get it done probably once or twice a month! It can be embarresing if you go to a salon to get it done, just remember that, but there is waxing kits you can buy in the drug stores. Just read reviews and find a good kit. Many waxing kits you can buy are very cheap and they will leave wax on your skin. So just make sure you get a good kind! Good luck! :)
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Alright, every twice in a while i'll get little things, almost like little burns or rashes, its really red and a little puffy, like, right where panties sit, not quite your leg but yeah, there. and i know that the elastic on panties cause friction and irritates it, but i have no clue what CAUSES it.

has anybody ever had this?
know what it is?
help?!

signed,
clueless.

Yes I've had this before, it's common if you shave that the elastic can irritate it (like you said) then it causes it to be red, and itchy sometimes. It can be really annoying the best thing you can do is not to touch it at all, and use some kind of creme, or lotion. Don't try a brand new lotion, just use one that you've used before. And don't lather it, just a little bit. Everytime you take a shower be sure to rise down there and body wash. That will help! I'm not sure if you shave but that can be a major cause, and you can try using shaving gels or a nicer razor! Good luck! :)
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I'm 18 years old and I still have very tender breasts and I just recently moved up to a 36D. I was wondering, how much longer can my boobs continue to grow? I'm half asian and pretty petite and my back is KILLING me because of this.

Your breasts shouldn't grow much more, because your eighteen your body is starting to slow down. You can consider purchasing sports bras, or a more suportive ones. You can talk to a doctor if your back is still hurting. Good luck! :)
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15/f Yesterday i went to the pool and me and some friends were messing around on the diving boards, and i went off doing the splits.
It ended up shooting water up and now it hurts so bad!!! i am a virgin so did it break my hymen?? what can i do to make it feel better??

Well yes you can break it when you are doing sports or activities, it will become less painful I promise! You can try advil/heating pad/warm showers! It should feel better within a few days! Good luck!
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i got a really big weekend coming up in a week and a half and i dont want my period then because that will just ruin everything. Is there a way to make your period come sooner or make it go away faster?

Hahaha well there is a trick, if you make yourself more "horney" or your more active with someone then your period will come faster. Plus eatting alot helps! Good luck! :)
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Hey i'm 16 i've had my period for about 4 years but only recently started to use tampons. i know that they aren't suppose to hurt when they're in right, but i've had a tampon in all day so my flow is a lot slower that usual and my new tampon is kind of uncomfortable. should i take it out or give it time to absorb some and see if it gets better?

If it hurts, I would take it out. They don't need time to absorb, I would recomend getting a new type of tampon. Everybody is different, so you need to find one that fits you! I hope I helped at all! :) I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly

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Okay, heres the deal! My period is three days late, (which i could care less about) BUT, i am leaving for vacation on the 25th, then i'm coming back the 28th. Since its only three days, i dont care about that, but next month, i'm leaving on the 17th, and coming back a week later. Now, my quistion is, since i dont want to have my period next month, during the time i'm on vacation, is there any way to lessen the time that i have my period. Like foods that i could eat, or excersise's i could do? Any help would really be appreciated!!!!

Awww. Man I hate periods, but yes there is somethings you could do, but sadly it will come when it comes.But it never hurts to try! Try to stay away from sugary foods, drink tons of water, and run! Those will probably help a little but theres not much you really can do! Just like eat less carbs, and more fruit, vegtables. Try really hard to stay away from bread. And run, do crunches! I hope this helps! Poor girl, on your vacation! I recomend extended relief midol, really helps it last up to like 6 hours so you take it in the morning then your good for like the rest of the day! So Good luck!
I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly

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hey guyss
so i have exactly 10 days to loose as much weight as possible and tone up my stomach
im meeting my boyfriends friends and we're all hanging out at this theme park where we're prolly going to hang out at the water park for most of the time and i need to lessen all this flubber by then!
if it helps... im 16 and im 5'' yes im pretty short lol
and i weigh 107 lbs...soo any advice on this would be great...thanks so mucch

Well it seems like you don't need to loose any weight, your almost to skinny! But if you really feel like getting toned that I recomend eatting less high calorie foods. Don't stop eatting all together, just try to stay away from foods like pasta,and breads. Do at least 100 crunches a day. Try in the ten days to get yourself into a schedule, then every day try to get maybe 10 more crunches than you did before. Be sure to keep yourself hydrated, I don't know where you live but here in this summer heat it is important to drink lots of water! :D Good Luck! Remember your in perfect weight right now, you don't need to loose!

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When I wore my bathingsuit today, I notice you could see some of my pubic hair when my bathingsuit was a little out of place. I have been thinking of shaving it, just like a little, where I need to, but I am scared due do bumps, and a rash or something. Can a razor shave off a long piece of hair? Should I even shave there?

Well hmm. I had a similar problem, and I know it's kind of werid but shaving for me does cause bumps. But if you trim with sissors and than shave you should be fine. If you ever want to stop you can. I don't know if I would. Waxing is much better but much more painful. Good Luck!
Love,
Molly

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17/f
The pastor at my church is sick and members of my church are going on a juice fast for 7 days. I am 5'6" and I weigh about 130 pounds (mostly muscle). My question is about how much weight will I lose during this and what's the safest way to come off the fast and try to gain my weight back (in muscle)?
Thanks sooooooo much!!!!

Hmm. Well you don't need to loose any weight. If it's a juice diet, the first time you start eating again you'll probably gain alot of it back. You can probably stick to your athletics to keep yourself still muscular. Maybe limit the exerise a little bit. Just make sure you are always hydrated. I'm not sure if your on a juice fast if you can have water but if you are you should have as much as you can of it. I'm not sure where you live, but in this summer heat it's important to stay hydrated. You can eat whatever you usually ate before the fasting. Just don't overdo it, and don't eat to less. I hope I helped at all, please ask me any other questions. Good Luck. I love feedback good and bad!
Love,
Molly

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ok well heres my problem im a "perfectionist" sort of.. lol well i guess you can say i try to look the best i can.. uh.. in other words use everything i have.. yeah i dont know how to explain it.. well my biggest problem is that i over eat a lot lately.. over the summer, when i got a boyfriend it stopped and then started again.. after it was over.. the relationship didnt last very long maybe for 14 days.. well yea i start off eating healthy and then just eat junk food.. its like if it eat at all.. i eat junk food also.. but this isnt all the time.. i eat more than i should.. okay.. well i know a lot of info about dieting.. that sleep is important.. (which i get) at least 8 hours a night.. um.. i know sucking on ice can burn calories.. i kind of know what causes cellulite.. see well im not to clear about that and part of my question is that.. im not sure.. i know sugar & fried food can cause cellulite.. and caffine.. yeah so i need some info about that!! and i guess boredom can cause over eating.. thats the thing how can i stop that?.. um.. also i watch this show at 3 everyday.. its from 3 to 4.. thats wen i seem to eat.. during the whole hour =(.. i eat slow during the hour but eating for an hour definatly add up!! slow or not. when theres school i do the same.. right when i get home.. which is 3 i start eating and then eat too much.. stop around 4.. with school i think it was even worse.. well i did lots of excercise and stuff.. but not enough.. well my problem is i guess i need to stop watching that show somehow!! or just suck on ice during it.. sometimes i just cant.. i dont know.. well tell me what you guys think!! this is huge problem for me.

I had a similar problem and my sister did as well. We both had issues going on around us and we weren't truly aware that depression can be expressed in many ways and eating is one of them. I'm not saying that is your case, but maybe this boyfriend trouble is making you feel a little depressed. Don't stop watching your show if you really like it. Just try to sit in a comfortable place with a big big big big glass or water bottle and start drinking. Tell yourself that by the end of this show I am going to have this water completly gone. Eat lunch before that so when your show is about to go on you at least have a meal. Then if you feel yourself craving anything just sip the water. I'm not much of a water drinker, but it really did help. Try maybe running in place while the commericals are on. It seems like you care about your health and you want to do the right thing. Maybe if you have a friend or sibling to talk to about your exboyfriend it might help. It's a tough sitituation to be in, and it's really not fun but I hope I helped you at all. Don't force yourself to do away with snacking all at once, your just going to crave it more. Just take away a little less junk food everyday until there isn't anything left to take away. Good luck I hope this helped at all! Any questions please contact me, I love feedback even if it's not the best!
love,
Molly

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