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ok, well my momz b/f has HEPATITIS C that he got from another girl while cheating on my mom ..they have gone thru manny problemz in their relationship and he hurt he wayy too many timez...yet she still stayz with him .. and i cant get thru to her no matter wut..
but my real question is this : 3 days ago my mom told me that were moving into his house on friday .. she said she'd help me buy a car and give me 50 bucks a week for no reason and drive me to my old school everyday and all ill have to to do is take a train back home .. shez trying to bribe me to move in ...BUT the only thing holdin me back is that he has hepatitic c and i dont want my mom getting it and i feel lyk if i move in with them, then ill be supporting her chances of getting HEPATITIS C .. and everynite wen i lay in bed ill have to worry about wut they are doing in their bedroom and if shes having unprotected sex with him and if she'll get HEP C at any moment now ... i mean, i really love her and ive already tried talking to her about this but her mind is made up!! plz tell me if i shuld go and if i am overreating here or wut ..... but itz HEPTITIS C !!!!:( plz help me (link)
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This is a toughie. It will be hard to work up the confidence to talk to her about it but i really hope you do again. and you said you did before but keep doing. It will cross her mind someday but maybe not today. So keep going at that. I saw your other entrys about this and Im sorry about you having to go through this. I would be sooo confused. I mean you could live with your grandma but to be honest i would miss my mom too much and I would be wayyyy to worried about my mom But then again it seems as if your mom really cares that shes trying to get you too move and shs offering to pay you money weekly. I mean if she didnt care then she wouldnt be begging you. But all of this going on at once would confusse me just as much as you are right now. So your not overreacting. I hope You write back or keep in touch because I hope she relizes how worried you are. She just cant ignore your opinion on this.
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so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah (link)
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If you absoulutly hate it at your mothers house then maybe you should reconsider moving back in with your grandma. It was your mom that wanted to move not you. You shouldnt be unhappy and your grandma seems like she REALLY cares for you and thats good, Your very lucky to have her :) what ever you do decide to do feel free to leave a message in my box to keep in touch. I hope the best of it!
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Ok. Yesterdy my sister turned 18. So she thinks that shes like tha shyt. Well She thinks that now shes 18 she dont have to listen to my parents.Ive been tryin to explain to her that wen ur livin wit sum1 else no matter how old u r u still have to follow there rules as long as ur livin wit them. So she moved in wit her bf. I think hes gonna b controlling and not let her do nething cuz he never let her in tha first place. Ne ideas on how i can Tell her she still has to follow sum1 elses rules wen she lives wit them and how i feel bout her bf w.o makin her mad?? sry its so long! Ill Rate if u answer! (link)
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Well I would sit her down and talk to her one on one. Make sure nothing is around the 2 of you so she wont be distracted. Just tell her everything you feel about her and her boyfriend. Dont make it sound like shes talking to her mom or dad. Think as if you were in her position. OKay I hope I helped a little. Tell me how it goes. goodluck
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does anyone know any ways to get over someones death that you were close to? weird ? i know (link)
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Like others may have told you that people handle deaths differently but talking to someone you trust and rely on can help alot. Just knowing you have someone out there that you can talk to when needed helps a ton. Try thinking about all the good times you had with he or she that passed away. This is something that you cant just get over. It takes time and pacients and its really hard. I been to my uncles, and 2 cousins of mine and each one were differently handled. I hope this helps a bit.
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My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me! (link)
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You should set both of them down and tell them what you think. Tell them how worried you are about their health and even yours! Tell them to do it for you maybe that will give them a motive! My mom smokes and I told her when I were to move my apt was going to be a SMOKE FREE area! Even if your parents dont listen just keep in mind that when you move it will be your rules!! You wont have to live with all the disgust! I hope it works out cuz i know how gross smoke is. It even turns you wall colors to yellow instead of white!
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i dont know what to do... i still like my ex .. like alot.. the second time we went out i broke up with him for someone else but i really didnt like thisother guy.. and so i regret it but he said he has to build up my trust again... but see hes moving to another town and not going to my high school and i really miss him now what should i do? should i call him and try to talk to him ? (link)
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I Know where you are comming from. Except I went out with my guy for 8 months. I most deffinatly think you should call him and try to talk. Maybe you should be friends then work your way back. I agree with him though he does need to earn back your trust so work it slowly. I have a good feelin that it would work if you show him how much you still love him and it was just a stuid mistake And you relized it the min you guys split. Just dont come onto him so storng. he maybe still hurt. Yes guys have feelings too. But I hope he relizes how much you miss him!!!
Good luck and wishes from me!!
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my mom is getting married to this guy whos really kool except he like flirts with me and comes on to me. he says stuff like hey sexy, hey cutie, hey pretty girl, and stuff like that and its really uncomfortable.. should i just let it go? (link)
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You should deffinaly NOT just let this go. If you feel uncomfortable around someone in your own home then you should talk to someone. in this case it would be your mom. Then see what she has to say and bring it up with him. I mean if you dont bring it up then youll be stuck with ot forever since they are getting married. Mabye hes not trying to be so .... lovey like that but you still need to talk about it to them. good luck and I hope I helped
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ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and i get so upset sow e end up yelling at each other and i get in even more trouble, please help. (link)
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My mom and I were the same way. But I never took the time to sit and talk to her about it. I just assumed she knew how I was feeling. I mean shes a mom all moms know everything! She was ALWAYS yelling at me but when I was starting to be grounded everyday for the dumbest things I knew something was wrong and it wasnt me. I talked to her and told her that I hated fighting everyday and I wish we were more close like other moms and kids. Here I found out how she was under ALOT of stress from work and home just every day things. So e both workes at it. Sure she didnt take me every where I wanted to go but she tried. Now we talk about alot of things and we help EACH OTHER OUT when we can. Dont get me wrong cuz i still have things I cant talk to her about. But maybe if you talk to your mom and ask her how SHE is feeling and how things are going in her life maybe you can help each other and that will create a bond.
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