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today I got in a hung fight with my mom!! i'll spare you the deltails but i will tell you this, it envolved slamming plates, both of us yelling and crying and stuff...wow she told me that i was going to H*** (i am a goody-goody i've always made sure i was going to Heaven) and she sed to burn in H*** and i got so upset

what should i do? i;m just not getting along with her PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!!

Well, what actually happened between you and your mom? I think you should say sorry to her, even though it might not be your fault, but she is your mom. You have to respect her. Every mom will forgive their daughter.. So, you should say sorry to your mom. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much.

Good question, I have the same problem. Hmm, I think you should tell her very carefully. Oo ya, does your mom allow you to have a boyfriend? If she does, it's not going to be that hard to tell her about your boyfriend. But if she doesn't, you should wait for the best time, so she won't get mad at you. And, one more thing.. Congratulations!! Is your boyfriend nice? Hope I helped!!

-ViTaChaN-

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sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i?

No, you shouldn't!! Well, I had that kinda problem too when I was little. LoL. It was a long time ago.. But okay, bout your problem, don't run away..that's not good.. Your family will be so worried about you. You have to control your temper, they're your family, I'm sure the love and want you, they just can't show you how they feel.You should talk to them bout your feelings.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i am a girl and my brother is 2 years younger and we always get in fights. ALWAYS. its getting annoying now cause we fight about EVERYTHING. we also in general annoy eachother like if we are in the car and he pinches me so i will hit him. and yeah we like REALLY HURT eachother. so i want this to stop... please try to help and if you do i will rate you a 5!!

Well, You have to handle your anger.He'll get over it if you ignore him..He'll be happy if you're angry, that's why you have to control your anger..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Well, my mother doesn't like me hanging with almost everyone that I want to be around. She always complains about every single person that I'm friends with or trying to be friends with she hates. She usually complains about their wealth, looks or just some other characteristic.

And just recently I've been banned from the mall for no reason at all.

Another thing they wont let me have a boyfriend, not even let me talk to boys on the phone. And I'm 13! I'ev already got some people asking if I'm... bi or lesbian :/ and I'm not. I have a boyfriend right now, secretly. But I want to know what to do in the means of going on dates and whatnot.

My mother always laughs at me when I bring the subject of boys up. It really lowers my self-confidence in a way. D: I don't know what to do...

A lot of moms don't like their children to grow up..I mean, every mom thinks that their child is a baby..You know what I meant??Like my mom, she said this to me "Even though you're now a teenager, you're still my baby!"Have you ever heard a mom said that to their child??That's what happened to me..And you know what??You have the same problem as me..My mom doesn't allow me to go to the mall with my friends!She will just allow me to go, if my grandma will go to the mall with me..I hate it..But, what can I do? She thinks that I'm still a little baby, and I know how much she loves me..So..I never can go out to everywhere with my friends..It's okay, just do what she tells you to..She will change someday..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-

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Ok here's the deal. This is kind of embarrasing but I wanted to get a new computer, a laptop for school. And I wanted to get rid of my old computer. The thing is, my parents want to buy it, they don't want me to throw it out. Uh, I kinda may have gone on sites that they wouldn't approve of...but they won't take no for an answer of buying it. I'm perfectly ok with throwing it in the dump, but they're not. I'm so afraid somehow they'll find out what sites I went on if they buy it. What do I do!

Delete your history..And, you can even auto delete it..You can set your internet up to auto delete the history in every week or even every day..You just have to go to tools, click 'internet options', then you just have to click 'delete cookies.' And if you want to set the auto delete up, find an icon which is saying 'delete history' {it's underneath 'delete cookies' and 'delete history's icon}Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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hey davette. thanks. you sound like a really nice person and I wish you the best.

Is this a question?

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my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more?

Okay..If i were you.. i'll ignore him for a while..And just do anything i want!!

-ViTaChaN-

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13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!

Just try to show her that you're not gonna make the same mistake like what your sister did.

-ViTaChaN-

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