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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!*Keosha*
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: The three players are Elaine, her sister and her mother. Elaine was always skinny. Elaine's mother told Elaine; I am really worried when we go to the birthday party this Saturday that if someone told you that you are so thin, that you would read into it and think that they never thought you were thin; Elaine says; Well doesn't it mean that? And her mother said; No, you would just hear it that way.You were always thin; Elaines sister said: Elaine you were always the thin one I was always the heavy one. Elaine told her friends the story and they said; what your mom is saying is that you were always thin, and everyone who knows you from past and present knows you are thin but you would not take their comment at face value, you would read into it thinking they never thought you were thin and all they are saying is you are still thin. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH ELAINES FRIENDS (what your mom is saying is that you were always thin, and everyone who knows you from past and present knows you are thin but you would not take their comment at face value, you would read into it thinking they never thought you were thin and all they are saying is you are still thin.)
Elaine?
Being thin is perfectly okay. If you ave always been thin, thank god! God made you how you are supposed to be. Just be glad your not heavy or obese like 1/2 of america.
this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?
I think that you should be honest with yourself and talk to your brother about it, see how he feels about you coming forward. If it is not a good idea, then maybe you should consider sucking up to your brother big time and keeping it a secret. I am sorry about your car. It must be a nice one. I hope that everything works out for you. If you feel even more guilt or anything try praying about it. Prayer changes things and when you dont have anyone else, God is always there.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
*Keosha*
I do not think my parents are in love, and it makes me so sad. I think they would be better off divorced and happy, but I know that the only reason they stay together is for the their children.
I am so upset! I cannot stand it anymore.
Any advice?
Try talking to your mom or dad, whomever your closer with. Or maybe you should try talking to your grandma.. (I say this because your mom would most likely have told her if something was wrong)..
My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.
The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).
I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.
My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.
My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully?
The only thing that I can think of as of now is to file a restraining order and if it continues take this to court and let the bully get crimial charges. It's unfair, yes, but there isnt much else that you can do. I would try this and see how it works. Best of luck.
-Keosha
okay..
Basicly my mom has anger problems..
Her anger is causing many problems, and her relationships with the family are at stake.
She has LOTS of anger and I think the anger management classes would be a waste for her, because she needs to know whats bothering her. If i try to tell her, she'll start yelling and slamming things around saying why do you think i'm crazy..i don't need those fucking therapists telling me whats wrong..blahblahblah.
Are there any ways to MAKE her go to therapy?
so maybe someone could help me out?
i'm pretty tired of living with this.
If she wont go to therapy, maybe you should. They will help you find ways to cope with your family issues and if you can move away with another family member to get some space. You cannot change or help someone who doesnt want it.
I hope i helped. Good luck
-Keosha
well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do
Help me!!!
Accept the fact that he's being inconciderate of your feelings and move on with your life, i know your pissed but forgove him and let it go and if you have to just dont speak to him. . .