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i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.

You HAVE to come clean with your parents!! no if ands or buts about it .... what i woudl do is confess everythgin in a letter and even say how you wish to keep a myspace and say something like "you can check it ever day" i woudl give this note to your mom or dad right when you are about to leave so even if that have the inittial blow up you wont be there.. hopefully when you come back your parents ill have talked about it enough to be calm and maybe you guys cause have a long discussiuon about it... but you also ned to be prepare for them not to let u ahve a myspace and for you computer privilges to be taken away... it has to be hard to lie to your parents and i garentee theyu are only being strict because they want you to be saft.. but if you can prove to them that you can act matuarlly and have a myspace maybe that will lead to you being able to have more freedom and maybe your parents will become lss strict

JUst think about it
I hope I helped
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I'm 14. I'ma girl and I've been smoking for 2 years. Im a smoker and I like it and I know I'm not going to quit. I'm tired of hiding it and I want to smoke in the house with my mom like she does. I just dont know the best way to tell her. Should I just say it or should i write her a letter.

**K8e

Well im not going to judge you or tell you how bad it is im just goin to tell you what you want to know

I would tell her to her face... writing it in a letter only makes it worse... Start up a harmless conversation about her about it and then just say "well u kno.. i smoke" it wll be a shocker but if your mom smokes she should tlka to u about ti CALMLY!!!!


I hope i helped

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My little brother is driving me crazy!!! He hits me when he gets mad and leaves bruises! and he wont leave me alone! i have a lock on my door except its a hook lock so he just unlocks it! I would tell my mom but every time i tattle she gets mad at "me"!!! Im 13 and its because h's 10 and her little baby! its driving me crazy and i need help please!!!

I will rate 5 answers

HEY. i dont like promoting violence......BUT in this case i would smack him the the face and tell him every time he hits you again ti will be even harder and tell him if he tells then youll do ti even harder

Or

you could just alk to your mom about it

Either way is good

I persoally like #1

But thats just me

Askme247

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This morning my dad got angry at me. The reason isn't really important. He threw the waffle that was eating at my shirt and got butter all over me. I was upset because he had the nerve to throw a waffle at me, and also because I was excited to wear the outfit that I had picked out to school. I started crying and I couldn't stop. Keep in mind that I have my period now. I was still crying when I got out of the car, and still crying when I was in homeroom. Of course, everyone was staring at me and wondering why my eyes were all puffy. My teacher suggested I go to the nurse, so I did and stayed there for half of first period. I was really happy by the time I was surrounded by my friends. First of all, I felt like an idiot because the people in my homeroom knew how upset I was in the morning, and then saw me laughing my head off with my friends two periods later. I just feel so stupid and I can't for the life of me understand why I was crying so much!! I know I have my perios, but I've never got PMS this severe before!! HELP PLEASE!! Has anyone beed throuhg an awkward situation like this?

Ya it cold be PMS or it could have just been one of those days were you were in a really bad mood...but i dont wanna be mean but he threw a waffle!!! hahahaha.. im really sorry but for some reson i think that funny...... a least he didnt hit u !!!! laugh out loud im sorry if i didnt help....... and o ya i get this all the time

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me and my friends have this bad habit where we talk bad behind EVERYONES back...i mean EVERYBODY... including ourselves... i hate wen people talk about me when im not around...
idk how to stop me and my friends from doing this

when of your friends says something say "thats mean!!!" just dont worry about it tf you stop mabey they will!!! sorry if i didnt help

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I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.

13/f. Neika

Lye him down and let him watch a movie (he might fall asleep)Get a a few toys at a time( not all at once or he will get bored)... play with him and do not leave him alone... bring him outside and let him run all his energy out and let him sleep.. im sorry if this didnt help.... if u have anymore questions please ask

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Im 13 and i feel like im not wanted. my mom has a new bf and my dad has a new gf and my brothers 18 and is in a serios relationship so i feel like im not wanted cuz there always with someone else what should i do?

Talk to your parents about this... dont keep it inside!!! if your parentskno about it they can spend more time with you

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I don't know what to do anymore. My little brother thinks im pyscho. Today, my mom asked him to take out the trash and walked away. After she left he refused to do it and stated that I should do it because I never do anything. But, I had helped my mom ALL day with getting ready for this garage sale. So, I told him that he should do it because he was told to. He started screaming and freaking out on me. So after like a half hour of that I punched
him. I just can't take it anymore!!! That's the first time i've ever hit him, and I don't even feel bad about it. He's hit me louds so i guess that's why. I don't want to apologize, but how should I handle my anger from now on???

Walk away from this...... and never hit him cause u can seriously hurt him without even knowing it..... say your sorry and start fresh.... even if u dont really mean it just say it and make your little brother feel better...

Hope i helped

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