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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that.
Much0 l0ve
Kayla
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-Im sorry if anyone has been trying t0 email me. My email address is currently n0t w0rking. S0meh0w the pr0gram g0t switched to msn. grr my c0mputer always d0es that. Anyways i am s0 s0rry if any0ne was trying t0 get in c0ntact with me and i didnt resp0nd.

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I'm thinking about using Veet (the hair removing stuff). Is it bad for your skin?

hey,
Ive never heard of Veet being bad for your skin. You dont have anything to worry about.
**mucho love**
kayla xo

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ok why the hec are the MAJORITY of these questions about sex related topics????? theres nothing about babysitting, school, sports, pets, gardening, home decortating, theater, etc. i refuse to answer any sex related questions because you dont ask advicenators.com how to get someone in bed w/ u, etc! you ask them "hey im babysitting two 3 year old twins tomorrow. i really dont like them, not that theyre bad kids, i just dont like em! what can i do?" i understand that people need advice on these things and this is an anonymous way to get it! but people, mayb you could ask your friends or something! i dont know. i just want to know why so many people talk about that on here! its kinda of gross! every other question. . .! yick. ok so please answer ill rate VERY high cause u actually continued to read this! :-P

hey,
people come to this site for all kinds of reasons. Everyone is seeking a different form of advice. Thats why there are so many advicenators. Questions about sex are the kind of questions you WOULDNT want to ask your friends. Thats why they come here because they can ask anonomosly. If you are having trouble babysitting you dont need to come here to ask for advice. You could ask your friends for advice because chances are they babysit too. I agree with you part way though. Some of the sexual questions give a tid bit too much information that some of us really dont want to know about. but some of their situations are really bad and advicenators give them important advice that they might need and could acctually help them.
**mucho love**
kayla xo

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EEk I have alot of blackheads and the facewash im currently using isnt working! DO u know anything that works beter? Like gets rid of the blackheads? Please! THanks

Hey,
at one point i had really bad blackheads. Face wash doesnt exactly do the job. But you dont know if it acctually works unless you've been using it for a long time. My dermatologist told me that acne (black heads white heads w.e) 6 weeks to form. So if more blackheads are forming on your face it isnt because your facewash isnt working its because of a clogged pore from about 6 weeks ago. If you've been using your face wash for over 6 weeks then yeah it probably isnt working. Go to a dermatologist and they will give you a strong perscripton medicin. No over the counter stuff that doesnt work.
**mucho love**
kayla xo

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Im really nervous. This guy who is like obsessed with me who i dont even talk to is taking me to a dance tonight. I don't really like being around him and I have never met his family. I don't know what I should say when he comes to my house. Can anyone help me not be nervous? I also want to be hyper tonight, so I'll have a good time. Does anyone know foods or ways to get hyper? Thanks a bunch!

well you cant really do much about your date. you already agreed to go wit him. its totally normal to be nervous so dont worry about that. Drink some coffee and coke and stuff with alot of sugar and caffien and you should be pretty hyper.

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how do i change my password on AIM

at the top of your buddy list there is a button that says "my aim" click it. then theres a scroll down of buttons click edit options and then it will say "change password"

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I am a 13 year old girl and in 7th grade. I would describe my clothes style as preppy. However, the music I normally listen to is (in my opinion, I really don't know) far from preppy. I listen to bands like Green Day, The Killers, Linkin Park, and Evanesence (I don't think I spelled that right). I was just wondering if anyone thought this was weird. I can listen to some "preppy" music (a.k.a- stuff you would find on TRL) but most of it really bugs me, because it doesn't soud like they are the people singing. Again, does anyone think that this is odd? Sorry for the length, but I was just wondering! Thanks in advance to all that reply!

well i hate to say this but "preppy" is not a type of music. trl doesnt play "preppy" music it has some of the bands you said you liked on the countdown all the time. Prep is a label not music. please dont confuse the two. and no it is not odd you can listen to whatever music you want.

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i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help!

you need to get the right products. use frizzys. its a great thumbs up product to get your hair "silky smooth" hah i sound like a comercial.

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I dont have normal nightmares like most people. My worst nightmares are falling down the stairs. Lame huh? So i'd just be stepping down these wooden stairs, and i'd hesitate on the last step, and fall. I always wake up with a fast heart beat. What does this mean???

hey
i can definitly relate to you. so it must be sort of normal to have recurring dreams. every night. no lie EVERY NIGHT i have a nightmare about waves. sometimes they are tall sometimes they are average. but i dont go one night without having a dream about a wave. i started having them a week before the tsunami occured and that really freaked me out. anyways thanks to your question i looked up some information about dreams that might help you out check out some of these websites:
http://www.lifetreks.com/lifetreks2/recurring.asp
http://www.som.org/1dreams/reruns.htm
They where acctually some form of help for me. i really hope you got all the information you need.

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What's better..

Ipod Mini that holds 1,000 songs
or
Ipod Mini that holds 1,500 songs

It's a $50 difference and I'm wondering if it's worth the 500 songs, and if anyone has one please let me know what types of problems you've had if you've had any

well ipods are really hard to fill with songs. you may not think so but. it took me a week just to think of 100 songs. just go for the cheaper one. 500 more songs isnt worth it.

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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate?

well people are really used to typing like that if you can read it dont complain about it. your here to give them advice not complain about their spelling...i agree with you but it isnt something to get worked up about.

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im not talking about the movie "the notebook" im talking about the actually BOOK "the notebook"... where do i buy it? is it at any bookstore or do i have to order it? thanks.

um well i dont know where or what your local book stores are but i can usually find every book i need at barns and noble...good luck i hope you find it!

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Hey guys,
My older sister wanted to know if a snake can grow it's head back if it gets cut off. She thinks that she heard that somewhere, but she's not sure. It seems to me like she's thinking of a worm or something lol. Her boyfriend was telling her that snakes can't grow their head back, but she was saying that they can. I wanted to find out for her. Someone answer please!!!! Don't make fun of the question either, because I'm not even sure if it's true. I sort of think it's true, yet I don't think it's true. If your nice, and you give a good answer I'll rate you!!!! Thank you so much! :-)

no it doesnt seem very possible...if a snakes head was cut off nothing could get to its brain and it would die. its pretty much impossible.

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Hey does anybody know any good april goold jokes? me and my friend were thinking of getting fake blood and pretending to fight in school! does anybody know where you can buy fake blood around this time of year?? PLez help!

-take plastic wrap and put it on the toilette seats.
-wear crutches to school and see how many people ask you what happened.
-do totally random stupid things.
-pretend to be pissed at someone.

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I'm a girl and I'm 14. I'm attracted to the female body, but in an artistic way. I want to tell my friends, and show them some of my artwork, but I'm afraid they'll think I'm a perverted homosexual or something like that. Anyone have any advice on what to do or say?

just tell them your totally straight but you are just involved with that kind of artwork.

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My BFF told me that when you feel someone in watching you (you know that feeling??) it means demons are in the room with you. I'm so scared now!! Whenever I get that feeling I scream and get really scared

she most likely has no evidence to prove that statement correct...as a matter of fact...nobody does. dont worry about it, chances are there are no demons in the room with you

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Hey, I believe in God and pray to him a ot when I need help. I don't go to church though, but I still believe. Is it bad I don't go to church?? Am I gonna go to Hell????

no your not going to go to hell. i dont go to church very often. i usually only go around the holidays. like christmas mass and easter mass palm sunday and ash wednesday. you get what i mean. but anyway, i am a strong believer in god. i pray to him when i need help too. Going to church would be a good idea though.

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ok my head is like 23 in. all the way around.. and it bothers me so bad.. and to make it worse some kid called me big head.. i have like obsessive cumpolsive disorder.. when people tell me whats wrong with me.. i never stop thinking about it because it bothers me so bad.. i mean is having a big head bad and would you make fun of someone for it.. i have friends and guys have asked me out.. but my self esteem is just so low and i need to stop.. i also have a small mouth and these 2 kids call me stone faced because i barely smile and it annoys me so bad and they know it does but people in my school just love to make fun of people.. its basically the only way they can be funny. just tell me what you think.. and if your gonna leave something ignorent DONT PISS ME OFF

every school has those select few people who live there life just to make fun of others. Dont worry about the whole big headed thing. It just grew faster than your body. soon enough everything will be evened off. If they make fun of your flaws make fun of theres. Yeah yeah two wrongs dont make a right but still. If someone makes fun of me i flip out on them. Who cares if you barely smile. Next time they call you stone faced say "wanna know why you never see me smile? well its because looking at your ugly face isnt exactly the highlight of my day" or something like that and dont even wait for them to say anything just walk away.

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Hey everyone, I was wondering about warts. i have two bubbly-like things, one on my ankle, one on my knee. I'm mostly likely sure they're warts, I can't go to get them checked out. DOn't ask. But I but this thing, it was like 20+ dollars, like the most expensive wart remover thing there was on the shelf, it was supposed to freeze the wart off, but it hasn't been working. Anyone have any experinces with warts or know any information on how to get rid of them? Thanks in advance. I rate well. =)

when i was in like sixth grade i did karate and we walked around barefoot. I ended up getting warts. All i did was go to the doctor and they froze it off for me with dry ice. I used alot of store bought products...NONE Of them worked. A couple of months after you get it frozen it will start to go away. They can re accur though. My dermatologist said that warts is a virus. Once you have it it doesnt go away. When they start to disappear you still have the virus and they can recurr...thats pretty much all i know about the topic. You can look it up online too...

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I know about cutting and what cutters do..but i watched tv the other day and it showed a girl who snapped a rubber band on her wrist and needed phyciatric help for it...what does a rubber band do and whats the purpos?

rubber bands are like a form of therapy..everytime they feel the urge to cut the snapp it i dont know exactly how the therapy works but a kid in my school has one for anger management and every time he is angry he snaps it.

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I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?

cover girl dream matt mouse comes in alot of shades...

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