i am addicted to masturbating. i do it every day at least once. i've been through a dry-spell on sex so lately i've been into masturbating on webcam... i can't help it, i love to be watched! is this normal? how do i stop? should i? i don't just invite girls, i ask if they like to watch first. but, i dont know.
Well, being an expert on masturbating constantly --see my boyfriend masturbates to porn constantly so I don't get much play because he's always sore -- I know how you feel.
While I don't have a webcam, I have unlimited access to bums and drunken homeless men in my area. It was hard to get them to pay attention to me at first, but once I filled my pockets with whiskey soaked cloths, they seem to wait for me to drop by.
They really like me now.
If you feel like you are strange, try mastubating for bums and drunken men. That'll cure ya!
You do what you like. You happen to be turned on by voyeurism. People have some different things that turn them on. Yours just happens to be people watching you in sexual situations. I don't happen to see anything wrong with that.
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One of my friends killed herself about 9 months ago, and I'm over it already and everything, but last night I had a terrible terrible dream where we were in a pool together and all of the sudden I ripped her hair out and started hitting her and trying to drown her. It has been haunting me all day, and making me feel guilty, and like she's mad at me for having the dream. It's making me feel so bad. Could this dream mean anything? Is she mad at me for having it? How can I not feel so bad about it. Should I feel bad?
If you had any kind of anger toward her about her death, which is common with people left to deal, then it could just be your thoughts manifesting themselves in a dream.
She can't be mad at you for having the dream because, well, she is now gone.
There is no reason for you to feel guilty about having a dream. It's a dream and most people cannot control what they dream. There should be no reason to feel guilty, other than the reasons you impose on yourself.
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Okay, well I got school picutes. I didn't like how they turned out so, I just kept them in my bookbag and then handed them back in saying I wasn't going to buy any. (without showing my parents) So then my mom is calling my friend's moms [just to collect the daily gossip] and she finds out that they handed pictures out. And she's like, "where is your pictures?" and I lied and said "I forgot them in my locker, and then handed them in" and to make a long story short, now she's calling the school and my homeroom teacher to get the pictures back, JUST so my dad can see the pictures. Theres only a week of school left, and it's just embarrassing just to look at my teacher.
That's why you don't lie.
No one looks great in school pictures. It's a conspiracy.
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if u keep dreaming about the same thing/person.. what does that mean? like, why would i keep dreaming about someone that i don't really thing about during the day? thank youuu
You can distract yourself during the day by doing other things, but if something really has your attention or something is really bothering you, it can manifest itself in dreams. It really doesn't mean a whole whole lot, it just means that your mind is fixated on some thing/person. If your dreams are reoccuring, I would assume that you are very fixated on some thing/person.
Sometimes when you dream your brain fires off thoughts and feelings and stuff that has happened. So, it may just be something that is in your mind, and while your brain is active during sleep, it is what comes up.
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The other day I answered someone's question. And in that question I stated that ovulation can also occur after a person's period. ( 6-14 days) which I googled and found out I was right. Another person wrote my advice column to dispute this fact, but turns out she didnt dispute it al all: here is that she said word for word: Oh, and no you are not fertile AFTER your period you fucking idiot. You are not fertile UNTIL 14 DAYS AFTER YOUR PERIOD. Get your facts right. Now does everyone see that she said your NOT fertile AFTER your period, its 14 days AFTER your period! Duh thats what I said! Why do people resort to name calling when trying to dispute something? or is it just this person doesnt posess any class? 5's for all thoughts.. except for her's.
Heh, this is funny. My boyfriend actually has a theory on this. I was re-reading it just today.
I will summarize for you.
Normal person + anonymity + audience = shitcock.
"So you see, given me, a normal person, plus the anonymity of the internet, plus you as an audience, I will sooner or later degenerate into a total "shitcock". That's right. This is a scientific law, proven by all kinds of observations. However, until now, no one could feasibly explain why this equation held true, or why so many people on the internet were such ridiculous fuckholes."
He goes on to say how internet asshats will either drive away the nice people, or turn them into asshats themselves. If you think about it, it is true. When someone is a dick to you online your first reaction is to curse them out. That turns you into an asshat as well. Given enough exposure to shitcocks, either you join them, or go away.
This leaves only the shitcock asshats to roam the communities and websites once populated by nice people. Anonymity and an audience can turn someone into a total fuckhole. I would assume that is what happened with this idiot.
She attacked you when you were right. I wouldn't put much stock into what she says. She doesn't even understand basic ovulation. And she is a FEMALE. You can't put much weight on the rantings of an asshat shitcock fuckhole.
Heh, I don't think I have ever swore so much in a "brilliant answer" ever. Sweet.
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i'm an embodiment of confusion.
can you be in love with two people at the same time?
i'm so freakin confused, and so damn upset that i just have to be very open here, because i need help..
almost two years ago i got into.. what's it called.. "paper marriage"? or a "marriage contract" or something like that, that i'm "half married", means I’m not living with him yet. yes it happens in some of the muslim countries. i've known my "husband" for 6 years now. he was the one who fell in love with me, i said "yes" for some very stupid reasons, firstly i came to my country after a long time and was not used to the society here, i was living in saudi arabia, and i totally freaked out when he would tell me stuff like "i'll keep following you till you say yes to my proposal..." yeah it was kinda romantic, especially when you're 18 it is. actually judging him objectively i had no reason to say no, he's VERY handsome, we have the same profession now, he's VERY nice in EVERY way, a WONDERFUL guy, kinda guy a girl would dream of having as her life partner. BUT... we have very basic cultural differences, for one thing, secondly, there have been incidences where... i feel... some very basic elements of his personality have shown, which bother me. my basic needs happen to be "deep intellectual, open minded conversations and an awesome brain with a very high IQ". sex and all is secondary for me. i'm very romantic by nature, quite impulsive, restless, and usually so nervous i'm almost neurotic. he's not understanding at all, he has very shallow thinking, he shuts his eyes and ears to questions regarding religion etc.. he's not all that intelligent, though very hard working.. something which i really appreciate. there's not the slightest hint of "philosophy" in his mind and he thinks it's all crap. and he has caused me a LOT of pain many times... things which i can't forget because they really matter to me, they weren't just fights... i recently made a new "friend", (yes i do have guy friends...), this one is DAMN SMART, really, a very bright guy, he's hindu.. he's VERY open minded, he NEVER "tells" me what to do and what not to, he treats me like a "human being", like a "person" before like a woman (which means he gives value to my opinion and doesn't make my ideas a matter of his ego), and we are similar in so many of our weird ways. (by the way, not that i'm trying to act or trying to show off or to praise my own self here, but for some strange reason every person who has ever gotten to know me in my life has told me i'm "different" from other girls.. i think they mean other girls in my society.. don't know.. whatever.. but this other guys says that too.. and i'm so much like HIM that he has fallen in love with me).. the problem is, that i feel "love" for this guy, but also for my husband because we have spent some wonderful times together, and he was the first man in my life, my first love, i lost my virginity to him, and 6 years is a long time.
i NEED someone to tell me, whom i should be with now... i know this sounds stupid, but really i'm so freakin confused, both love me so much, both tell me they would do ANYTHING just to be with me, i love this new guy a lot, can't see him upset, we do have little fights but i love the way he handles them, he's very intelligent and can actually almost read my mind every time. but sometimes i get so depressed thinking about my husband, i've been telling him in the past that we're not made for each other, and it's ok, he can have his time to decide for himself. i think my being "different" is what makes him want me like he does, otherwise he doesn't like anything about me, i'm not religious at all, he hates that, i come from a differnet background, a different culture (of which he knew when he proposed to me and i reminded him again and again to THINK about his decision because it doesn't matter to me where he comes from but to HIM it might) and he's suddenly realizing that he hates my culture (i speak urdu, he speaks pashto etc) though he tries his best to accept me as i am, but he can't, the matter keeps popping up, he thinks MY culture is not honorable like his.. on top of all that, he denies that he hates these things about me, but his actions speak otherwise..........
WHAT DO I DO!!!
my apologies for this being tooooo long.. but i don't know what the heck to do.... i have noone to talk to about this, noone whom i can ask for advice..
I am not sure that I understand the idea of "half marriage" but it sounds to me reading your question that you would really be happier with your new love. Your husband slowly realizing that he hates most things about you and thinking that your culture is beneath his will be an awful thing to have to deal with.
6 years IS a long time, but it could end up being 20 years with him not stimulating you mentally and respecting your ideas and thoughts and background. That, is what you said is MOST important to you. Your half husband doesn't respect or help you expand your ideas.
You sound like you would be much happier with the other guy and you know this already, you are just looking to validate your decision to be strong enough to break away from your half husband.
The longer you wait, the harder it will be and the messier it will become. But, you need to do it.
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first off is there anyway to get an STD if you dont do anything sexual? cuz my friend has never done anything like that and apparently she has an STD...how does that work? T H A N K S !
The only ways she could have an STD without having sex would be to have gotten at birth through the birth canal. That is unlikely since in the last 10-15 years they perform C-sections on women who have STD's to prevent any harm to the baby.
If she is a drug user, then she could have an STD through sharing various paraphernalia.
If you know that she is not an IV drug user, then most likely she is lying about not being sexually active. It also depends on what STD she has contracted.
Oh and please, I beg you, please ignore the advice given by xomarisox. Her advice here makes me sad. Her answer could possibly apply to the normal communicable diseases such as cold, flu, meningitis, etc..etc. But you do NOT transfer STD's by touchin someones thigh and holding hands with others. --that is just stupid.
Most STD's are transfered through open sores and or exchange of bodily fluids. Example: Sex, oral sex and anal sex. You can infect yourself if you have an open wound or cut and come into contact with blood or other bodily fluids.
You don't get a sexually transmitted disease on your thigh. You get them in your genital area and if certain kinds are in your blood stream, you can have symptoms around your eye and mouth area. STD's that are in later stages because they were not caught can cause infections and death, but won't be a danger to anyone else unless you are completely careless.
They are viruses and do not live outside the body for very long.
Everything she said is uninformed and idiotic.
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Ok, heres my question. Around October, I found the blog of an Australian girl on the Internet. She'd kept the blog for about a year before I read it. I started noting it and we added each other on MSN. Now we're pretty good email friends, strange as it sounds, I always seem to have tons to talk about to her. We never set out to email, it just started out kind of accidentally.
Anyway, she recently found out that a friend of her fathers is opening a chain of coffee shops and has offered to send her over here (England) to work there. She's always wanted to travel and is really thrilled by this. Anyway, she's going to be in a town about 2 hrs on the train from where I live and obviously she suggested meeting up. Well I have absolutely no reason to doubt she's genuine (ie. not a dangerous rapist) except for the fact she's an Internet friend. I've swapped photos with her and read her friends blog, and I'm planning to speak to her on the phone before we meet up, and it'll definately be somewhere crowded in the middle of town. I'm not telling my parents about her, although I'll tell my friends. My question just is - are there any other precautions I should take to be 100% safe? I'd really really appreciate a detailed answer,
Thanks so much in advance,
Me :):)
Nothing in life is 100% safe. That is what makes it worth living. The two of you have been talking since October and if she still seems like a genuine person, then she might just be that. I randomly found a guy online.
I messaged him and we started talking...we found out we had a few things in common and eventually we met. We have been together ever since.
People can lie to you whether it is over the computer or in person. I have been lied to more by people in person than by people I have gotten to know online. I guess I have been pretty lucky with that. I have come across some really genuine folks.
Just go and have fun. If you are in a public place, you should be fine. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just see where it takes you.
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My family owns some land in the Bahamas on the island of San Salvodore (not El Salvodore, San Salvodore). Lately, my Dad and Grandma have been discussing what we should do with the property. Real-estate agents told my grandma she could sell it for $5,000 but my parents detremenied we could get at least $50,000. My 85 year old grandma is the true owner but it seems she will be leaving the land to my parents in her will. So we really think we should try to build a house there. But I have a few questions.
1. Do you think they'll have building materials there or would we have to ship them from the U.S?
2. My grandma hasn't paid any taxes for the poperty because they never sent her anything about it. Do you think we still own the land?
3. Do you agree that we should keep the land?
It depends on the kind of house you want to build there. They have houses and hotels there I am sure, so they should have contractors and home builders there. Depending on what you want, you can probably do both.
If your grandma has not paid taxes on the land that could be a problem. You need to contact an attorney. Some major law firms (like the one I work for) have estate planning departments. You will need to find one to talk to. After she passes, whomever is the beneficiary of land will take on all of the responsiblities, that includes the back taxes and any other taxes that apply.
After you talk to an attorney, then, with their advice and PROFESSIONAL opinion, your family should make their desicion.
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how come i see most girls on myspace are chaning there myspaces to private then changing there age to 14, when they are like 16, 17, 18? why is everyone doing this?
I know I had a problem with disgusting and sexually explicit messages left to me. It was getting to the point where I thought about making it friends only.
It might be possible that these people don't want that stuff in their inbox, I know I didn't appreciate it much, and make it so only their friends can talk to them.
It is illegal to send sexually explicit material to minors. That might also be a reason. But, I don't know if they would even think about that.
And, they could just be being stupid. That is probably the most likely of the answers.
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I was shopping yesterday and I bought a shirt and my total was 17 dollars and something cents. Well I grabbed into my wallet and thought I pulled out a 20 and gave it to the casher.
I don't know if she wasn't paying attention or what but after she put the bill into the register, she asked me what I gave her. I said it was a 20 because I thought it was.
When I was at home I was looking through my wallet and I REALIZED THAT I GAVE HER A 100 DOLLAR BILL!
Now I don't know if it's too late to go back tomorrow and see if I can get my money back. Would they give it to me??
You can give it a shot, but honestly, your chances might not be that great.
Every cashier has to balance their drawer and turn it in. If you had given her a Franklin she would have been 83 or so dollars over. She may have talked to her manager about it, which if I remember correctly from my cashiering days was mandatory for a abnormalities.
It is unknown what was done about that. She may have found it and just pocketed the extra. Or they may have done something else with the money. It all depends on who was handling your money and what store you were at.
Call or go in ASAP. The longer you wait, the less likely you will get your money.
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what is love really about?
Love is an abstract concept designed to categorize how people feel.
Love is what ever you want it to be. Each person defines it and uses it in their own way.
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Has anyone ever played magic the gathering? How...mystical/weird/gothic/spooky is it? Does it involve wicca? What is wicca?
Thanks!
I have played it. My parents love strategy games. And out of all of them Magic is their favorite. Think of Magic as a Pokemon for adults. This is a card game that involves battling against one foe or several. The objective is to use creatures or magic to take all of the life away from the other player(s). It involves no real magic. Since there is no such thing as real magic that should be a given.
It isn't spooky at all. It is a card game. The only spooky thing might be the pictures on the cards. It is a competitive game, but it can be fun. It is difficult and has alot of rules.
It has somewhat of a stigma attached to it, much like dungeons and dragons. When I was in school only the wierd, nerdy kids played it. I don't see anything wierd or nerdy about it. It's a game.
If you want to learn about wicca here you go, this is a new and exciting tool we have so....
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how much is plastic wrap normally from the grocery store? and will it matter if its colored? thank you!
That totally depends on what you are using it for, which you left out of your question. It is usually about $1.50 - 2.50.
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i have naturally tanned skin and i'm doing my first show.I will be performing dances from disney movies.
my dance teacher said we have to wear lip stick and eyeshadow above the eyelid.any ideas for colour schemes coz without them lipstick sounds pretty granny-like.
p.s. i'm 13 so don't go overbooard on anything and any other make up suggestions to look a bit different would be appreciated!!!
i rate 5's
I have had lots of friends who were performers. They had to cake on the make up because the audience is so far away and the lighting is different.
They used dark colors like dark blues and reds and browns with thick black eyeliner and lots of sparkle.
If you want to be different try a dark shadow (brown or black...if you use black use a brush to apply the shadow, you can control the richness of the black.) and a bright eyeliner...I would suggest liquid liner, it usually shows up the best against the dark shadow. Try a teal or green maybe even red or yellow (if you can find yellow, it is pretty rare) depending on your outfit. You can extend the liner out from the corner of your eye just about as far as you feel like. You could even use multiple colors.
That is what I did for Halloween. I have red shadow and red eyeliner (urban decay, you should check that out) I also have a teal iridescent powder that looks so awesome over black shadow used every bright color I had and it turned out pretty cool.
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Well, I go to a lot of concerts because I LOVE live music. Problem is, I have to miss a lot of them because they're 18 or 21 and older. :( Now I don't drink or smoke or do drugs or anything (I'm 14) but I really want a fake ID for 18 or 19 years old so I can get in and see the bands. I wouldn't use it for the alcohol or ciggs or anything, and I do look older so it could work. I believe putting age limits on shows is a stupid thing to do because it just alienates the fans. Do you think my parents would let me? (They trust me a lot, by the way.)
And if this doesnt work, any ideas on how to get into 18+ shows?
They have age limits on shows for a reason. It is not how mature you are for your age, it is the atmosphere and the people who attend the shows. There is drinking and drugs at some and even though you are mature, you can get into a situation very easily that you cannot handle. Not saying it will happen, but it can. If anything happens to you and you are under age, you can solely be responsible for shutting down a venue. They are very strict when it comes to under agers. You would be on their property, and anything that happens to you is their responsibility. Now if you can get a good fake, and you're comfortable with your parents knowing or having their permission. I say go for it. Just be aware and careful.
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Right so I got drunk on Friday (really bad I know and Im not doing it again) and my friend was being really nice about it. But now all she can do is say how Im making a massive deal out of it and I was probably just ACTING drunk and that I wasnt drunk at all because I didnt drink as much as she did. I cant see why she doesnt understand that I really was drunk. I couldnt walk straight, I was laughing at everything and saying things Id never say sober and I had a horrible headache for the rest of the night and very almost chucked my guts up.
Im not proud that I got intoxicated, but I learnt my lesson and all I can now is forget about it and joke about it if anyone else brings it up. Im just not seeing why my friend is so 'OMG YOU WERE SO NOT DRUNK YOU COULDNT HAVE BEEN OMG OMG' to me. Ive never really had alcohol before and Im not used to it so obviously Id be more of a lightweight. I dont know how to say to her that I was drunk, without sounding like I was proud of it. Ive apologised to her for the way I acted (which wasnt bad anyway, I was just giving people hugs and laughing) and she says shes not angry at me. But she keeps on saying how she knows I wasnt drunk when in my own mind, I know I was.
How can I get her to see that Im not proud of getting drunk that night but I really genuinely was drunk and wasnt just acting to get attention?? Help please, and no bashing me for drinking, everyone drinks some time.
The thing I don't understand is why is her reaction such a big deal? If you are not proud of being drunk, then her reaction shouldn't matter. She is being an idiot and being immature. I don't know if that makes you feel any better or not. You could try to reason with her if you really wanted to, because, alcohol has different effects on different people. If you are smaller than her or weigh less, it will take less alcohol to effect you. If she had eaten and you hadn't, that also causes alcohol to enter your system much faster. If she had drank before and like you said you haven't that could also be a reason why you would not have had as much and still been drunk. Those are all reasonable explainations as to why you were, in fact, actually drunk. (or sooo you claim...ha, just kidding) Let it roll off your back, she sounds like she had to be the most drunk that night for her to feel worth while. If she isn't believing you now, she probably won't in the future.
Next time, drink her under the table. Then claim that she was lying about being drunk the next day. Oh, kidding again. Drinking under 21...happens.
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I'm a 16 year old girl.
Ok. So I like my eyes and all but when guys try to get me to go out with them just by telling me that they like my eyes it totally turns me off even if the guy is really hott or nice. Here is an example of what most guys say: "Your eyes have taken over my soul."
The whole "your eyes see into my soul" thing is getting very old. My question is, can't guys come up with some original pick up lines?
If you have beautiful eyes, most likely it will get commented on. This is just what people do to let others know they notice. If they sound completely cheesy, and it's obvious that they are just hitting on you, then it is fine to roll your eyes at them. But if it is in anyway sincere sounding, then you can't hold it against them. They are trying to let you know there is something attractive about you and that doesn't happen all the time (well, at least if you are me) Women like to be complimented in a sincere and original way, guys compliment on what they know. That would be how you look. I bet you would have a WTF moment if guys compeletly stopped complimenting you on your eyes.
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"Actually I have had a compliment on my eyes in about two months and I find it rather refreshing."
That does not make sense. Your entire question was based on the fact that you did not like the redundancy in the first place. Unless you meant to type a n't at the end of your have. So I will respond to you as if you had...because that would make your sentence actually make sense.
So you haven't gotten a compliment on your eyes in a two months, I am taking this from what you have said. Then why ask a question that implies that his happens to you all of the time? You wanted to know why guys are unoriginal and I gave you a reason. Then, because you implied that this is a constant occurance, I tried to point out to you that if it stopped completely, alltogether, you might find yourself wondering why.
You then snidely mentioned that it hasn't happened in a while and you find it refreshing then rated me a 3. So don't ask a question about it if it is not relevant, to you, now. I rate you a 1 for your response. Beauty is fine, but you can still be ugly if you have a nasty attitude.
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My friend said that Orbit gum causes cancer is that true!?
Yes, yes it does! I command you to stop chewing orbit and take up smoking. Smoking is very well linked to cancer and is less shady about its cancer causingness. As the commercial would say..
Fabulous!
(Orbit does not cause cancer any more than waking up in the morning does. Smoking, however, is proven to, so DO NOT pick up smoking. Unless you already do, then I will see you outside. We can get get cancer together)
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hey
wats a good IM name to have???
heres some words i like:
pink, love, cherry, juicy, hate, hell, red
n ma name is emma lol
thanks in advance ♥ ◊
1. hatehell_lovered
2. juicypinkcherry
or any combo of that sort...
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