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Got nothing to say. What I say about me doesn't matter, I didn't come here to talk about myself. My advice is based on what I think of your situation and what I think you should do. Duh. I'm not here to sympathise when you're wrong or sugar coat anything. I'm honest, and yes, I have been an 'asshole' before - I try to wake people up to the best of my ability, thanks. If you really want to know anything about me you can drop one in my inbox.
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I'm 13/f in the 7th grade
For a while, I've been having a real hard time paying attention. I get really bored easily, and I fidget a lot, I'm really slow (physically), and I get lethargic a lot. and I'm VERRRY disorganized. My school learning specialist said that there's a possibility of me having ADHD. but when I was little, I was always full of energy. Usually ADHD shows up in kids when they're little. Does my case sound like ADHD???
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*Cheyenne*
None of us on here can tell you if you have it or not - you need to ask a doctor/psychologist; the person who diagnoses that sort of thing. But on the whole, you could possibly just be like every other teenager that cant stand being in class. You sound like me and I sure as hell am not ADHD. But still - get it checked out, and dont feel like a freak or anything. Good luck.
my mind is always racing so fast . im so stressed i fall asleep at like 2:00 in the morning . is this normal
It means you have things you need to sort out.
I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...
Yeah. Its called following labels, a shout for attention, being a poser, acting innocent, actually labeling yourself like a soup can and believing that listening to rock makes you a punk. Well does listening to techno music make you a fucking robot? No it doesn't. Grow up, don't look for attention, and don't follow labels.
Alright tp start this off, i`m 14/female. For about a year or so, I`ve been so down and sad/angry all the time. I never smile anymore, or things that used to be a blast too me, is no fun anymore. I don`t like hanging out with any of my firends anymore. I just like being alone all the time. Well, a few months ago my mom and dad took me to a conselour because they were concerned about me and such. They just said I needed too be on anti-depressants. I didn`t start using them right away, just recently. Well, I`m cutting myself now. I know its really bad too do and I know how stupid I am for doing it, but It just feels so right when I do it. I really need too stop or talk to somebody about it. My mom asked me what these marks were on my arm, and i told her is was eraser burns ( because they leave scars ) and she hasn`t realy noticed that more and more keep appearing. What should I tell her? I want too tell her the truth. I know she will probably understand but she`ll get really upset ( sad ) because she hates seeing me like this and i`ll feel really bad. What should I say too her?
You shouldn't be on here trying to get advice on how to hide the scars, love. It seems to me like you believe you've lost all hope. Well don't. That happened to me. I didn't do what you did. If you truly want to find a solution, no not to hide your scars, but to true happiness, you will. I just think that you are too bored with your surroundings, and that maybe you should try and convince your parents to send you off to another town with a cousin or something. Meet a few people there, do a few activitites. If suddenly you find it fun, then its obvious that you have stopped liking your friends back home. And if thats not it, then I'm telling you, and I hope that you think about it hard, for you, not me, that you try more than once to try and be happy. More than once. You don't just try once and go: Oh look it hasn't worked, bully for me.
No. You don't do that. Your parents care about you and I'm sure other people do as well. But still, what you do is for yourself in the end. Do you really want these scars for the rest of your life? Or do you really, truly want to live like this everday?
Think about it. Drop me a line if you need anything. I truly wish you good luck...try and not lose hope, okies? =].
I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do?????
Some people like to pick their nose.
im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...
Continue cutting your way to calmness till you die of razor infections and blood loss.
i feel like i'm going into depression.. my life seems like its getting worse everyday! i lost my b/f recently n nothing seems right! i will NEVER cut tho! but i dont no.. what should i do?
Put your head in a toilet and flush. Or try and work a solution for everything because if you make enough effort, there's always a solution.
I just went to the dentist and he gave me some shots, procliaming that the lower left side of my face, upper lip and the upper left jaw would be numb, also numb by the bottom of my nose. I'm really sensitive to numbing crap and the numbness has extended to half my face and has reached my eyelid and blinking feels funny. I HATE this sensation, i can't eat anything either, does anyone know how to make numbness go away any faster? I am about to rip my face off!
Rip your face off. Duh.
Or.
Wait for it to go away.
Tough decision to make eh?
ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose?
Your going through the 'phase'.
i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?
Keep on getting high and die of stupidity cause you lost all your brain cells while you were at it. Good girl.
hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0
Lyk, ohmahgad. YOU FAT ASS, YOU!
ok im not sure if this subject should be mental illness. but have any of you heard of the tidy-bowl-man?? the guy that lives in the toilet. my mom used to say he swims there and comes to getcha when i was really little. but then someone else i knew said they feared so have any of you heard about him? sry its long and stupid but i was wondering.
He's real, thats all I'm gonna say. DONT MAKE ME!