okay my name is Kristina a.k.a Munchie and I would upload a pic but I cant do it because my computer is messed up! Anyways I'm 5'1 and I weigh 102 lbs. Yes I EAT! I love food, but I know how to stop when I'm hungry. I love having friends and family! I hate the fact that I'm short. I have a myspace and if ya wanna add me my email is sexyhotchick_87@yahoo.com and you can see my pictures on there! I LOVE Jennifer Love Hewitt! she's so little and cute. I'm single right now. I also have dark brown hair and a round face. LOL! I love this website! And if you need me to answer I question then I will because I love giving out advice!
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latley, ive been really bored with life. i havent had any suiciadal thoughts of any kind. im just bored with life...i do the same stuff everyday. and then i got to sleep, wake up, and then do the same stuff. is their something wrong with me? (link)
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yes! Life is like that most of the time. When you get old, old then it will be like that all the time but you'll be used to it. I'm not sure how old you are but i'm almost 15 and I'm always bored there's never nothing to do. You can find something to do. If you're really that bored. It'll get better when you're like 18.
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14\f.
Today has sucked. For months know ive been completely moody, and it ruining everything.
Whyy am I for one moment happy, laughing and enjoying myself, next completely sad.
Its weird.. Im not on my period. Im not PMSing!
My Mother calls it hormons. I call it being depressed because im always in a bad mood. then maybe for a day ill be hyper, happy then crash and wanna stay in bed forever.
Help! (link)
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I'm not sure if you have talked to other people that are like 16 but everyone goes through this stage. It's just a stage though. It happens for like two years. During these two years bad things happen to mature you because when you were younger you always thought life was fair and you would never be sad. I know I'm 14 and I won't be 15 until 6 months and I won't be 16 until 6 months and a whole year. So, just keep reminding yourself that this is just a stage that matures you. It's to make you think about other things. It can also turn you into another person. It's a big change that nobody's ready for. Ask anybody though, cause everyone goes through this. Just know that someday you'll be changed and matured and your life will be different. Life has sooo many twist and turns. It's all fate though. One day you'll be where you belong. No, its not a mental disorder. I have mood swings all the time. So it'll be fine. I really hope this helps you!!!
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im kicking off with freinds, beind down aroudn my girlfreind and its puttin her down, im stressing n my cousin as texted me their soem shags for me when he knwos i have a girlfreind and i showed my girlfreind and she was bein off, and now she was puttin down the fone on em when i tried with her. my school is make me have a downer, i need help i dont really knwo what im goin through. im always being depressed, aggresive, and having fantasies abotu gettin hit by a car (link)
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Yeah! I really didn't understand most of this but from what I think you're saying is that you're going through a rough time and everyone goes through them. Everything will be alright like next week because things are always changing and so are people.
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13/f
Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself??? (link)
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cutting yourself to fit in is really immature and if your so called friends are putting razors in your hand and telling you to do it because you'll be emo well then they're not your real friends. And EMO does not mean that you're all sad and you cut yourself emo doesn't mean emotional either. Its just someone who likes to wear black tight pants,dark hair,dark clothes and they usually have the "EMO HAIR". I sometimes even see them wearing black, thick rimmed glasses. Emo is just the way they look. It's a sterotype that all emo's cut themselves. My teacher in school explained this to me because she has emo friends and plus I thought the exact same thing. You can actually look up the word emo. Now, for you if you wanna be emo then just wear dark clothes and dye you hair black and wear those really tight pants. You don't have to cut yourself and don't listen to your immature friends. They are like what 13! Yeah that's not a mature age where you know everything to tell you the truth. WELL, I really hope you can explain to your friends what an emo kid is so you guys dont think it's all about cutting yourself.
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hey i am 15/f and i am a really depressed person i have a really really low self esteme and i don't know why i mean i am not ugly but sometimes i feel like i am and feel that i can't go anywhere because of the way i look i feel like i would look grose to people even though there is nothing wrong with me and alot of people like me and alot of people think i am really pretty but sometimes i just don't see it
can you help me find someways that will help me see that i am not ugly
how can i look at myself and actually like the way i look for once (link)
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Well , you sound like me. And I"m not ugly all the time to myself. Every girl feels this way though. Even my beautiful cousin thinks shes ugly and sometimes fat. It's not true. You're probably really pretti. The think is if you think in your head and you keep telling yourself that you're pretty and skinyy then soon enough you'll look like that in the mirror. I used to beat myself up and people would tell me that I'm really pretti but I always thought I was the ugly girl that wasnt gonna ever get a date. So I started saying to myself that I was pretti and skinny and I do look that way to me now. It's not about what other people think. You have to feel pretti 1st. ok!!! hope that works 4 you!
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Okay, so lately I have been feeling very apathetic about things like; school, relationships, friendships, and my family. I used to be such a 'nice' person according to my friends and family. But then suddenly my personality's changing, and I really don't know why. It's not an existential kind of problem, but more of 'I don't know who I am as a person' kind of problem. It's been really bothering my lately, and it has been deteriorating the relationships I have made around the people that I really care about. I didn't think that I needed help for this, but it's really bugging me. How can I know who I really am as a person? (link)
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You didn't give your age but sometimes when your 14 and 15 you start changing. But its just you're maturing in some way and that can effect the way you think. I guess. Because I used to be all about music and now I barely know any of the songs but when I was like 12 I knew every new rock song. I don't anymore though because it doesnt make me happy like it did. other things make me happi. You're probably going through a change that will make you the person that you are. I often really don't know who I am either because I'm still maturing and changing. So don't worry it will pass. haha.
`krissytina!!!
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I cut. I need help. I want to go to guidance at school.
What happens once I go and tell them?
Other than call my mom. (link)
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They will probably tell your mom. But they will not be really mean and say okay we are putting you away. You're not in trouble you need help. You may not want them to help you but they will help you get better. This is not right to do at all. This to me is a mental disorder. People will and can help you with this. It's not going to be easy. But you'll make it through it you really try. ok.
`munchie the munchikin!!!
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hi im getting my bellybutton pierced and i was wondering how bad it hurts or does it hurt at all im scared so please let me know
thanks (link)
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It hurts like hell. but its worth it. So you should get it done. It will bring a lot of attention. Mine gets infected every now and then so keep it clean. Okay? I really hope this helps.
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idk if this is in the right catergory but oh well
alright well im thirteen: in the beginning of the school year i was outgoing fun perky and always happy and now im always just blahh &the exact opposite:
did i just change? am im going to be like this forever? whatsss happeninggg :(
i need tips getting through this too: pleasee
thank you in advance! (link)
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Umm. Well, little girl you have a long road ahead of you. Let me tell you about my 7th grade year. Okay? ok. Anyways so it was 7th grade and I was so happy to see all my friends again. Then I quickly realized that all my friends hated me and nobody I knew were in my classes. So I didn't have any friends to hang out with or talk to. and plus I had a teacher who was always stressing me out with homework and classwork. I started failing my grades and guys didn't like me or anything. I didn't do anything to change it either. I just stayed positive. Now, things are better this year but they still suck. I hate 8th grade because my friend sabrina is always back stabbing me and trying so hard to make me mad. Anyways this is a stage and it feels like forever and stuff but its not going to be. Just stay positive and know that one day things will change and you'll be happy or content with your life. I mean people still hate me but I have some good friends that I talk to every now and then. People will come into your life and make you happy. You are just young right now and you're not ready for that. You're body and mind is maturing and can sometimes make you feel very unhappy with your life. it will change though. stay positive and happy. ok? okay. bye bye.
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ok, so the last few weeks i've been feeling like total shit. i'm fed up with numerous things and i dont know how to control my anger. I'm trying to lose weight for the new school year, but i get so "blah" that i overeat and lose control. I'm really mad at my image..for example, i think im ugly and fat. [even though im not, i sometimes have low points in my mood and i think im so ugly // fat that no one wants to be my friend and etc.] i have so many more like.."mood" problems, that they wont fit in this question. i think all of this crap has to do with some sort of wierd mental illness, but my parents dont believe me. i dont know what to do! pleaseeee,please help me.
thanks. (link)
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Okay. Yeah I'm guessing you're between the age of 13-15. Yeah. Well guess what I feel like this right now! I know what you're saying and no you are not mentally ill at all. I hate to say it but its a stage in life that every girl has to go through. It's confusing and sometimes you just want to end it all but you have to stay positive. If you look in the mirror and you don't feel pretty then just keep saying you're pretty in your head. So when you look in the mirror again you'll feel prettier. Also being pretty only gets you so far in life. You're not always happy because you're pretty. My cousin is beautiful but she isnt always happy. you really don't get any special treatment because of the way you look. also those people that don't want to be your friend will be sorry when you get new friends that really care. Dont mess with those people. All they will do is hurt you. All the time. So leave them alone and make new friends or just talk to people. And you are having mood swings because your hormones are all jacked up and makng you feel realy happy then really sad. Yeah! I have those too. I go from being happy and then crying in less than two minutes. Its strange. And about your self image. Okay yeah I feel fat even though I know I"m smaller than most girls my age. Which is funni. Because sometimes I think they look better than me. So you'll get through this. But stay positive. okay? okay. bye bye.
love the munchie from the south side. haha.
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Ive noticed some things about myself and i was wondering if these are normal and how to change them.
I could go outside with my family and have the best day of my life, but then come home and after a few hours be misreable and angry.
When i am having a great day, it never seems to last. But after a little bit i can cheer myself up. But then ill be sad again.
I get to sleep at about 11 (or somtimes 2) at night (or 2 in the morning)
I have wierd eating habbits where i dont get hungry (expt i always love candy/munchies) until late at night, when i need to go get somthing to eat.
I'm a 13 year old girl
I broke up with my boyfriend (who i had been datin on/off for a year) out of the blue. (The day after i had heart surgery and he has been so suportive about it, saying he would visit me and everything) He was perfect and amazing but i didnt think i loved him and some days im over him and im happy for him and whatever new life hed like to have and i want him to get a girlfriend and move on and other days i just want him back. But i know i cant because i dont even know what i want.
Some days when i think about things my ex-boyfriend would do or say, it would make me be thankful it was over and other times the same things make me miss him.
I know im smart enough to get straight As but i get As and Bs because its so much simpler in theory. I get to stressed from all of the pressure of quizes.
I have high expectations of myself and i seem to fail most of them.
I used to think i had the best body but now im losing faith in my self image.
Im in-consistant in everything.
I used to think i needed to be perfect in everything..
Im inspired easily but easy come easy go.
I feel like my life is ina downward spiral and that im going crazy. But tomorow when im happy everything will look so clear.
What is my problem? Why am i like this?
Please help. Id love any advice that you can give me. (link)
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Okay I understand you because I used to be you age. It's confusing and diffcult and sometimes I just wanna take a gun and shoot everyone. Yeah I'm 14 now I'm still going through this shit. I hate it but I understand that I'm maturing and my body and mind is changing all the time and I have no control over it. I often feel very lonely and like people don't like me because I'm me. It's not like that though. You need to be positive about your self. Because if you think you're ugly and fat in middle school then guess what you'll always feel that way. Another thing is life always changes its not gonna be like that forever. and I know it feels like it never ends. It does though I've seen people go from being really depressed when they are your age and when they turn 16 they start gettin new friends and they get a good healthy social life. The real truth is that you're young. And you have to go through this so you can mature and be able to have friends and boyfriends. so just wait it out but always think positive thoughts. Don't self destruct like cutting yourself. Also this has a lot to do with hormones not you or anybody else just hormones so when you feel like everyone is coming down on you or you're coming down on your self just remember this is all hormones. Okay?
Okay. I really hope this helps sweetie. Stay positive!
~ Munchie!
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Lately I've just been feeling terrible. I don't even know - lost and miserable and like I can't turn to anyone with any of this. There's nothing really wrong with my life. I just can't stop crying. (link)
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Sometimes last year I felt this way as well. I didn't change anything and I think that there's something that's maybe bothering you and making you feel sad and it must be something you don't have a lot of control over. I understand but if you feel like crying then just cry and let it out. You might need some time to think about your life. You write down your feelings on a piece of paper. You could also figure out what you don't like about your life. You just need time to think things over. Once you find whats wrong then it's easier to make it right. My advice to you is just do stuff that makes you happy. Life is TOO short for you to be sad. all you gotta do is find something that you like. This will help you forget about whats wrong. You really don't tell me a lot so I don't know what's wrong. If ya wanna talk then just drop one in my inbox.
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15/f. I apologize, this is really long.
Well, I'm beginning (and have already BEEN) to be VERY depressed. And I mean, sometimes for no reason at all. I can't talk to ANYONE. My parents don't understand...and tell me "Oh...don't be ridiculous...there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone passes through this stage". etc. It's driving me nuts. There is too much pressure from school (having to get straight A's or else my parents will EXPLODE), I HATE my friends. They haven't ever done ANYTHING for me. NEVER. They never.......care. :( When I look at them...I see FAKE USERS. They talk crap behind me...which I can prove. I've been cutting myself...and I can't stop. I have NO ONE to talk to and no one to confide in. I don't know if I have some kind of mental illness...but I feel so freaking ALONE in this world. So very lonely. NOBODY and NOTHING ..(LOL) understands me. I feel like an outcast. I'm constantly judged by everything. music tastes, clothes, grades etc. I'm so different. ARGH. I want a therapist and I was wondering (after writing such a long paragraph) if I'm in need of one. :/ Any suggestions? Do therapists actually help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Yeah. I'm not gonna agree with those stupid people below because you don't need one. Trust me! They really can't change anything. I've been to one and I'm 14 years old. So I don't want you to think i'm 18 and I've been through this. Hell, I'm still going through this. i hate everything! I really hate my life. It sucks. My friends seem to not wanna hang out with me or anything. So I hate them now. My parents and or family don't understand me. They say the same thing over again. It's a phase. You'll get through it. I understand you because I go through this everday. What's worse is I'm not even suppose to be in 8th grade so people call me stupid and I just want to belong but stupid people won't let that happen. Yes, my friends are all fake and they all want me to be just like them but I'm never enough and that pisses me off! I can't be perfect. Nobody's perfect and I'm not nobody.. Look, I'm going through it too and if it ever changes (like everyone says it will) then I'll be sure to keep you posted. I am so touched by your problems that I want to talk to you more just because my life sucks too. Do you have myspace? If so I'm avril lavigne. Search by NAME not DISPLAYED NAME. If you have it and if ya wanna add me. haha.
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How can you stop having a panic attack? How can you make it go away?
NO links, just advice (link)
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okay I think you need to see a doctor. Because they could probably explain to you why you are having these panic attacks but idk if you can cure it but just ask a doctor and maybe they can give you something to help with it. I dont know what's causing it and if you do you can probably research on the computer how you can treat it.
I really hope this helps you!
~Munchie!
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