im kicking off with freinds, beind down aroudn my girlfreind and its puttin her down, im stressing n my cousin as texted me their soem shags for me when he knwos i have a girlfreind and i showed my girlfreind and she was bein off, and now she was puttin down the fone on em when i tried with her. my school is make me have a downer, i need help i dont really knwo what im goin through. im always being depressed, aggresive, and having fantasies abotu gettin hit by a car
iammow answered Friday October 5 2007, 11:34 pm: First of all... Do you want to be with your girlfriend or not? Sounds like some things you do, she doesn't approve of. Does she make you HAPPY?? If not, you have to let her go and find someone who does. No one can run your life but yourself, so if someone wants you to do something use your own judgement. It seems like your friends, your cousin, and your girlfriend all want different things from you... But what do YOU want? Ask yourseld that, eliminate in your life things you don't, and try to go after the things you do.
Its hard when you're trying to please everyone, but you only have one life, and I always say "Make it count". I think what others think is weighing you down and putting stress on you. I think not being able to make them and you happy is also depressing you. It may even aid in your anger-and being angry can cause angry thoughts like the fantasy about being hit by a car. I say try to clear your mind. Keep asking what YOU WANT, and keep your cool about things that just bug you. I think you'll be alright.
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