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I need a hint...
I'm 15/f sophmore, let me start off by saying I'm straight. I Love guys! I think they are the hottest thing on the planet! However... there is this one older girl on my volleyball team who's a junior and well, all of the sudden I'm looking at her longer, can't get her out of my head the whole nine yards. Here's my question: WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?! I don't like girls. It's just her and it's screwing with my head. Someone help...
p.s. please don't say "seek help immediatley or something like that...please."
Thanks,
Thoroughly confused
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It's really natural for you to be looking and comparing yourself to other girls. Which would explain the staring and thinking about her.
It's a subconscious thing we all do. Unless you're fantasizing about her, I doubt you should be questioning your sexuality.
As you said you love guys. And since it is only one girl and from what you've said you're not having "feelings" for her.
So I would chill out :] There's nothing wrong with you, and even if you didn't like guys as much, there still wouldn't be anything wrong with you.
Just try and sit down and think to yourself, what it is you like about her. Like is it her whole persona and maybe you aspire to be like her? Or maybe you think you pale in comparison? This is all completely natural. You're just finding out who you are :]
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Well here's the thing. I'm also around your age and it's normal for that stuff to happen. However, it's not normal to not question your sexuality once. Whether people want to admit it our not, everyone goes through a time where they really are unsure about themselves. Did you ever think that maybe you could be bi-curious? This doesn't mean that you're a lesbian or that you like girls, it jsut means your curious about what it could be like. I mean it could be a phase, or your body could be telling you something. If I were you, I really wouldn't worry about it. It's probably just confusion tha comes along with being a teenager. You'll get through it. Don't let it get to you. Let me know how it works out. I'm free on email and AIM. Also check out my column!
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I think it boils down to being natural curiosity.
Don't freak out or anything.
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