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ok theres this kid that goes to my school and i really really like him i walk home with him everyday and people always ask us if we go out because we are constintly flirting and i always say no well one of my friends on her science book is all pictures of her friends and im on it and i borrowed it once and i wrote things next to them and just playin around i put sexy on mine and so he had the book the next day and he scribbled the comments i wrote on other peoples pictures and put something bad but on mine he underlined what i wrote and my friends thinks he sweats me and i really like him but id feel stupid if i said somethin and he didnt but theres alot of stuff and i think he does but im not absolutley positive what should i do
and i dont kno how to just go up to him and talk to him about if he likes me or not? (link)
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aww it sounds to me like he definitely does like you!! =D so what you are going to have to do is TALK about it with him!! if you're still too shy, you can ask a friend to do it for you! but you have nothing to be embarrassed about or anything because he sounds like he really likes you =D
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Ok, there are these two guys who me and my friend like. The one guy, lets call him D, is the one who I like, and I told my friend I liked him. So my friend decided to go for the other one, lets call him F. Well my friend keeps flirting with D, and was talking and getting his number and everything on instant messenger right infront of me. I'm angry because I like D. How do I get him to pick me over her? What should I do? (link)
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You could start flirting with "F" right infront of her like she did to you ;] and see how she likes it. or you could talk to her about it and tell her that was rude and unfair to you. also talk to him and make sure he knows that you like him alot!!! that way he will know and probably wont go for your friend :)
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so..i still kinda like my ex and i kno he still likes me..but i have a bf now..nd i rele luv him alot..but im torn in half i guess between them..have any suggestions? (link)
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Well If you really LOVE your boyfriend there shouldnt be any question to which one you should pick..cause you know you love him. I would stay with your new boyfriend that you say you love. But if you arent sure if you love him maybe you should try to go back with your ex and see if you are still always thinking about the one you say you love. goodluck ♥
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Can you give me some ways to tell how a boy likes you:) (link)
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he'll flirt alot with you..
he'll make it obvious that he IS flirting..
he'll compliment you alot..
he'll probably ask what you think of him..
he'll probably ask if you would ever date him..
stuff like that ♥
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what do you do when a girl who you truly like chooses a different guy over you for the 3 time and still wants to talk
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No no no.
She isnt any good for you from what I can tell.
and with you still having feelings for her it isnt a good idea for you to be talking to her cause she probably knows she has you in the palm of her hand and you'd probably do anything for her. I would stop talking to her..She sounds like a real bitch, so tell her she is one and you don't want to waste your time anymore with her! goodluck =D
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ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me. (link)
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well I think you should of talked to your boyfriend ahead of time before he left, but if you can get ahold of him, tell him its bothering you and let him know how much it would mess up the relationship if he were to do something that stupid and do anything with this girl. You could also ask the sister to keep an eye on him for you too..but if you do trust him you probably have nothing to worry about because if he really does like you, he wouldnt risk ruining the relationship by hooking up with this girl! and I don't think he would do anything with her because he knows she would probably try to rub it in your face..and he wouldnt risk getting caught! =D hope i helped ♥
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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?
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Well I can tell you that having confidence in yourself will help you meet new people. chances are you won't meet too many people if you are close minded and shy. just be open and be willing to have conversations and you should be fine =D
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So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.
I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.
I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?
Thanks so much. (link)
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aw.
all I can really say is to go out and meet other guys. you will eventually get over him but it doesn't help if you keep talking to him. cause if he's still in your life, he will still always be on your mind. Maybe you should take a break from talking to him until you are completely over him and know you can be just friends again without wanting him! goodluck ♥
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I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 months and I'm 19. Lately it seems like whatever he does I am always frustrated at. I feel like I am never happy anymore and I just dont understand why. I know I want to be with him but I don't know if I should be anymore. Maybe I am getting tired of him? Has this ever happened to anyone else before? Please help me (link)
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Maybe you arent really into him anymore, maybe he was just a fling and you are getting too old for that kind of relationship. you're getting into your party years so maybe being single would be best for you! =D
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What is the best age for a girl and a guy to get married?
And what should be a good age difference? (link)
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There isnt a "best age" or a "good age difference" unless its an illegal age it doesn't matter! and when you are older you can be atleast 10 years apart and get married..its different when you're in your late 20's and early 30's..if you LOVE the person you should get married if you're ready and you know for sure you don't want to spend your life with anyone but that person =D
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how do u know if ur in love? is there a differece between being in love and loving someone? i need to know b/c i think that i love this one guy but im not so sure anymore... could anyone give me some advice on love and dating? thanx... ill rate high!!!! (link)
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when you're with the person you're IN LOVE with, you might get little butterflies whenever you're getting ready to see them..or whenever you hear a song you get butterflies and think of them..you can tell you're in love. If you can't even IMAGINE your life without that person in it..you're in love =D
your heart will tell you if you're in love or not. ♥
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i kissed my boyfriend on the cheek for the very first time and im thinking now its his turn, should he kiss me? my friend told him "kiss her!!" but he never did. i was thinking he was suposed to be the one to kiss me first but i realized he was too shy so i kissed him, should i be looking for signs of kissing? haha i guess....alright help. (link)
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Hmm maybe he isnt ready? how old are you & him? i think you should wait til he kisses you this time, because then you'll know he def. wants to and is ready!
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how do i tell if i'm a good kisser.............................................................if ne one knows how to tell please do (link)
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well the guy you kiss might say to you "you're a good kisser" lol but really just be comfortable and go along with what hes doing and you should be fine! =D
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my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
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aw well she probably doesn't know hes gay!
and maybe he isnt, maybe he just hasnt found the right girl he's interested in yet...you can ask the boy if hes gay or if he likes your friend!
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Well i met this really great guy, i really liked him, we hung out for a while at a dance, we danced all night. I fell for him, i thought he liked me to. Later that week i found out he asked my friend out to the movies. There not officially going out but soon they will be (knowing her) I'v called this guy and we've talked, but nothings happening. Do i just leave him alone? Or do i get in the game and try to date this guy. I dont know what im doing:( i need help, and FAST!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
-Heartbroken (link)
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Well talk to him and ask if he is still interested in you? and if he says he isnt, then go out and try to meet new guys! =D maybe at the next dance you go to you'll meet another boy! don't worry there are many boys out there and i know its hard, but you CAN get over him =D
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Ok ive been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and 1/2 and i love him so much. I know it seems to soon for love but i have been his best friend for many years previous. Everything is going down hill and i dont know what to do. I care so much and i dont know where he stands. We never talk anymore and if we do it goes nowhere. Everyone tells me i should break it off but i cant i dont feel its right. Hes into my friends, and really pays no attention to me. its almost like he has gotten to comfortable.
What sould i do? (link)
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i know you don't want to hear it
but it might be time to move on =(
i know it will be tough but just try to go out and talk to other guys, you never know you might fall just as hard for another boy you see!
I hope everything works out ♥
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Ok so this summer I'm taking Tennis camp with some friends from our school and some other kids who dont go to our school. I met this guy named Grant. I mean we met in the most freaky way. We met when he accidentally hit me on the head with his racket while doing a serve. I never really noticed him till then, but when he hit me and looked back at me and smiled, i believe that it was love at first sight -- for me, at least. During practice, we'll tease eachother in a friendly way, racing eachother, and trying to hit eachother with tennis balls. Only two of my friends know about me liking him. So here are my questions...
1) Do you think he likes me?
2) Should I ask him out or ask him if he likes me?
3) when should i ask him?
4) should I ask him face 2 face or have my friends ask him?
I appreciate all the people who took the time to read this...i rate 5's for any answers that help me a little. =]
--crushed. (link)
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(1) sounds like hes flirting with you so he probably does like you =D
(2)you could ask if he likes you, and if he says yes, suree go for it and ask him out!
(3) ask him at practice ♥
(4)If you are comfortable enough, ask him yourself...but if you're not there is nothing wrong with having a friend ask for you!
goodluck =D
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hi/ i am 16 years old girl and never had a bofriend, is that a bad thing, first there was a boy and he said that he like me, but the very week we met he move out of my school, so we became talking on the phone, and he said that i was his girlfriend, but we never wet on a date or kiss, that very week he ask me out to watch movie, but my dad didnt allowed me to go, i lied to him that i have to babysit my brother, he said ok another time we could go, but he never ask me out again and we were talking, but we never saw eachother. one night he told me that we should be friends that his ex want him back, from then he never called me, he just disappear, since then no boy has ask me out or something like that, i have never been kiss or do anything sexuall in my life, am just asking is that normal or am i gay or maybe i havnt find the right person. Please i need ur help
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Aw you just havent found the right person...
don't worry you are still young! and when school starts again i'm sure you will meet alot of boys =D you will def. meet more than one boy in your life so you have NOTHING to worry about! ♥
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Okay- so my boyfriend is going to Florida for 14 days and he's flying. He's really scared and I wanted to write him a letter for the airplane ride up there. I don't know what to put in it! Please give me just a few ideas. Thanks --- I rate HIGH! And give feedback if you want it! (link)
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tell him how much you love him ( if you do) and tell him you hope he has a wonderful time, and that you'll be thinking of him..and I can't really tell you exactly what to put because I don't know how you feel about him. But it should all come from your heart so just tell him what you want him to hear! =D
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i was goin out with a guy that i liked but when i met his friend i got atrackted and he was to but my ex-boy friend would always beat up his friend if he hit on me and my ex was to cudly for me. so i broke up with him but now i like his friend. should i go for his friend becouse im afraid he'll get beat up
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That one is really tough.
But I say you should do whatever your heart desires and so should the friend. It isnt your fault you're attracted to him but maybe you should keep it on the low for a little while until your ex gets over you..just to be safe =D
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