well hey there! i'm fourteen.I like to chill,play bball with my friends,read,listen to music and do whatever a teen likes to do.I'm mature for my age.I don't act like a whiny little girl. status? taken.
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How do you get a guy to ask you out? (link)
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well you can't really make a guy ask you out so try asking him out and if he says no then move on.don't hang onto a guy that don't wanna go out with you cuz they gonna make you look like the stupid person when they stupid for not going out with a great person.
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so i like this guy and i was talking to him today and he was like weres meg weres meg so i saw that he was like being cruching over her so i sayed you like her huh? and he shuged hes sloders so i was like you do!!! and he said ya but she dosent like me like that.
so should i still try for him?
or
should i try to hook them up?
its not like im in love with him i would rater see him happy with her then not happy with me and wer friends so i cool with that!! (link)
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well I know you wanna see them happy and all but if she don't like him, then don't even try to hook him up. and like you should try to forget about him. don't hang onto a guy that doesn't like you. there's other guys out there for you. you're just wasting your time if you keep hanging onto him so go find someone better. if you keep hanging onto him and he don't like you,then that makes you look like the stupid person and you don't want people to think you desperate for him.
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hi i'm 13/f and there's a guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me back..
cause he always talks to me
he always makes me laugh
i always catch him staring at me
when this guy took away my pen and i said give it back he didn't give it back but then when the guy i liked said it he gave it back. and then the guy that took my pen said "you just said that just cause you like her" then i think he smiled but he didn't say anything so i'm not sure.
and also the guy i like always kicks me under the table for fun and everything
so does he like me????? (link)
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he probably do like but shows it in funny ways. I think he's shy and isn't ready to let you know he like you just yet but if he do, don't get into it that mug because if you like the guy a lot then you ask him if he likes you and he says no, then you're just gonna end up hurt. so don't get your hopes up high. like I said he probably do like you but has a funny way of showing it. all guys have a different way to show the girl that he like her.
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oh okay, this my story i need help on.
last year i dated this guy who is two years older than me, well this guy is VERY inexpereince NO joke, so well anyways it was only a week a lasted because he didnt come up to me at school, which he does to all his girlfriends becuase he doesnt know how to approach a gril GAY i know well anyways, this summer he came over to my cousins and we made out and it was his FIRST ever kiss. GAYER i know, well anyways were talking but the thing is HE LOVES!!!! to talk to other girls to but he doesnt get close to them like that. now i had asked him if i was wasting my time and well yeah im he said so i told him that i was talking to another guy so it wouldnt look like i was heart broken and stupid and now im talking to that guy VERY UNEXPECTANT!! well now im still stuck on it. becuase the very inexpereince boy goes to the gym every morning bc he loves to play basketball and well i have gym 1st period so im there wiht my friends, well anyways he gives me a look like he wants to get back but idkk he so so so so SOOOOOOO EFFIN. confusing, i dont know if i should talk to him again even if he did break my heart. so yeah, and that guy that i didnt think i was going to talk to after he is so sweet, and we are "offcially talking" but i had LOVE and i absoulety LOVED the inexpereince guy for the most longest time and i dont know if im over him. gahhhh I posted a question called a "a year long fling or a year wasted" and well i got my answer when i asked him but he is so confusing.
gahhhh i dont know what to do at ALL!!!!!
Help me out please.
-cheergirl0811 (link)
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well I think you do because sometimes when you look at the person that you absolutely love and you're not with them right now, then deep down inside of you,you still have feelings for him and I know you do. it's hard to let go of someone you love. but does your heart tells you that you're still in love with him? follows your feelings. but since you loved him and it's hard to let go and you look at the person,you start having those feelings you once had for them again but sometimes things don't always work out the same as the first time. so I think you do still have feelings for but you're just unsure. try talking to him as friends again and see of anything happens again.
-I hoped I helped or at least gave you ideas :).
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i really like this guy that is bi-racial. (black and white)
and i don't know if my family would accept it or not but i'm not sure that i care..
is there anything wrong with a white girl dating a bi-racial boy?
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okay you like him then go with him.don't matter what people say.let them say stuff.they just hating.but yeah if you like him then go with him.even if they do say something,ignore it.I went with a boy who rican and black and I'm Asian but I like him and I go with him.but not anymore cuz I got a man.
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i really like my boyfriend and we make out for like long periods of time and we hug alot and everything and i was wondering, what should i do with my hands when we makeout to show that i really care about him? (link)
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it doesn't matter where your hands are. it doesn't matter. the only thing that matters when you're making out with your boyfriend is the pure touch of your lips being pulled towards and the chemistry between it. you can put your hans around his neck like the movement of you and him kissing. or like running your fingers through his hair.
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i like always like seniors. im a sophomore. but ive always liked older guys, but who doesnt right?
But the thing is, ive had a crush on this magnificent guy since last year, hes obviously a senior this year. He's in one of my classes, and I can't like seem to look away from him, and he's caught me staring at him a few times. And I'm like in "love" with him. He is the nicest guy i have met in my lifetime. He is very responsible, he isnt into drugs, or smoking or anything like tht. He takes alot of pride in his schoolwork and does many good school activites. And he is nice to EVERY person i swear. But I know hes got more of a connection with senior girls, and his other friends tht he rather spend time with and talk to. And I think he is really cute, many people dont think he is, but i do. And I mean, im ok, like im a little bit overweight, but im trying to work on tht. I think about this guy like all the fricken time...i cry at night because i know i will like never be with him. But hes just so awesome, i mean yeah i talk to him and stuff, he does the most random gestures, like pats my back if hes walking past me, he talks too but i just like love him, if i cant do anything else, i want to be a really good friend of his, but how do i do tht? hes a senior and im a sophomore...hes in one of my classes, and an afterschool activity. (link)
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well I know that you're like so in love with him. try to be friends with him like talk to him or join the activities that he do. try to be real close friends with him but don't let him know you like him just yet. keep talking to him and try to be close friends almost like his best friends but more than that. tell me how the relationship goes so far.
-hoped I helped:]
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Alright, so on Sep. 13th, it'll be me and my boyfriend's 4 month; and I have no idea what to get him!
I've already (in the past) made him a scrapbook of us, I've bought him a gift (necklace), and gave him love quotes. So now what?
Help please!
PS. I have about 5 dollars.
So obviously, I'm on a very low budget. (link)
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get him like a card and write something in there and express your love towards him. or like spend the day with him. tell me how it goes. sorry it's not much but I hoped it gave you some ideas:].
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I'm 14 & a sophmore
so there's this guy I've liked since freshmen year
but he's really concieded obnoxious & loud around every one
but wen we r alone he really nice & a genuine charmer
idk if I should tell him cus idk itd b kinda weird rite (link)
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well it seems like he's the type of guy who wants attention from everyone. he's the center of attention and thinks it's all about him. hey once you tell him you like him, he might be like "I'm sorry I only love myself." like how stupid is that. so you really shouldn't tell. if you do, you might expect the unexpected. and he's obnoxious too and selfish. so move on and find someone better. I know it's been almost a year since you like him but don't hang around one guy all the time unless you're dating him. move on and find someone better.
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There's this guy i know from a long time ago..I was about 7 or 8 years old when i met him and hes like 4 years older than me.I met him beause my little cousin is bestfriends with his little sister.about 5 years ago i went to his house to help my little cousin with a project and he was there.I remember him in his soccer clothes and a soccer ball.He was about 13 or so.HE was actually cute now that i look back on it but i was effin 8!so one day im in the car with his mom and my cousins friend because they were giving me a ride home...and they told em that he was like INLOVE with meeeee since that day he saw me because i was super pretty and that he thought that i was to small and he thought that when i grew up i was gonna be absolutely gorgeous!so i was like shyyy cus I was thinking about barbies at the timee man!but yeah i saw him a few times....5 years passed and i was in a golf cart with my bestfriend and i passed by where he lived not even knowing they still lived thereee...his mom saw me and she was so happy to see e becaue she hadnt seen me like in forever!then i see the most gorgeaous guy i can think of walking back from the mailbox....IT was himmmm!My jaw dropped and I was like in shock of how beautiful he was....NOW HE DOESNT REMEMBER MEEE!he totally forgot..but i added him on myspace and on msn and i didnt wanna be so straight foward.. I was like do you rememberrr me? and we started talking and he still didnt remember..then i go i was dancing to some hilary duff song in your house when i was like 8...he was like oh yeah that was a long time ago...but i cant stop thinking about himmmmm!hes in my mind everywhere i gooo..our families are actually really close..should i tell someone in my family about it?what should i doo?!everywhere i go i think of this dude. (link)
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well first of all sweety, it's all in the past and you shouldn't really get all that into the guy. like I know it's hard to stop thinking about a very hot boy but still if he doesn't remember then he doesn't remember. my advice is to try to get to know him and start off by being friends. but don't get all that into it.
-hoped I help:]
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I like this guy and hes really cute.He goes to my school but is a grade lower than me. We tried to go out once before but we never really did. How do i know he likes me or some tips to get him to like me. I know i shouldnt care what he thinks but I feel like i wasnt that important s.
Thanks (link)
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you'll know that he likes you if he sweats around you or acts nervously. and if he blushes whenever you two talk. probably even stuttering. and don't take this the wrong way but you know that you can't make a person like you. relationships take time to grow and develop. so give it some time and don't rush into it. tell me if he stutters or blush or any of that=].
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ok i probably already asked this question but i miss him badly and i try really hard to just get over him and its officially been a year since we broke up its just we went out for a year and a half on and off and he was always there for me in a time of need and i just miss talking to him.
i dont want him to like go out with me or anything i just miss us talking. he said he wanted to stay in touch and i was suprised but dont all guys say that to make it seem better and their the good guy but there not. i just dont know what to do.... CAN ANYONE HELP ME????!!!!! (link)
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well is there any way you could try calling him or writing him letters?if there is,then do it. and you miss him so much because you guys were together for a long time and been through so much together and sometimes you just can't help but reminisce about the times you've spent together. and the reminiscing makes you miss him. the more you think about the times you spent together,the more you miss him. so try calling him or writing letters and I bet that he'll be happy to hear from you.
-hoped I helped:)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. At first, everything was great. We were really happy and we never fought or argued at all. For the past 3 months it seems like all we do is fight and argue. He's changed a lot. He's 19 with no job, no license, nothing. When we first starting dating, he had a job and seemed to be doing well. Now, it seems like he's letting his life go downhill. He has recently become friends with two people that did me and him both wrong in the past. Ever since he's starting hanging out with them again, he's been a real jerk. I tried talking to him about everything, but it always seems to go in one ear and out the other. It seems like he doesn't care about my feelings or me in general anymore. Well, my question is, what can I do to make him actually listen to my advice. I want him to be happy, but our relationship is really starting to suffer because of choices he's making. I love him and I don't want to lose him. Any advice on how I can get through to him? (link)
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well try talking to him and if he doesn't listen to whatever you have to say then I guess the best thing to do is end your relationship.I mean he's hanging around bad influences which affects your relationship with him. and if he doesn't listen then why bother hanging onto a guy who doesn't even show that he love or care about you.every girl deserves to be treated right and if you don't break up with him now then he's gonna leaving you. and if keep staying with him,you're just only hurting yourself more because you're with a guy who doesn't even treat you right or tells you that he loves and care about you. so your choices are:
stay with him and end up getting hurt more? or end the relationship with him before he leaves you? which one is it.
-hoped I helped and tell me how it went=] good luck !
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what are things guys look for in a girl they want a real relationship with? what do they look for when they want someone to be with for a long time? and what keeps them interested and wanting you? thanks!! :) (link)
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well it depends on the personality of the guy.I'm telling you now that all and I mean all guys want in a girl is to have sex with them sooner or later.but guys they want a girl who looks good and has a sexy body and eveything they look for in a girl.plus to make them stay longer with you in a relationship and you love them so much then you gotta do whatever it takes to make him happy and whatever that pleases him.like I said,it depends on the personality of the guy you like .hoped I helped=].
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ok i asked him what he was so curious about and he said cuz i was his first n he had never been with no other female but he asked me to marry him last nite wen we went out to dinner with mine n his family n i accepted... does that mean he truly loves me? (link)
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awww.if the guy ask you to marry him,he definitely loves you.and both family going to dinner,then yeah he does loves you. but tell him to have sex with no other girl but you. congratulations on your engagement=] .
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Im 17 and Ive been with my boyfriend now for about a year. He's a really nice guy and he lost his virginity to me, but he cheated on me 2months ago...he slept with his ex!! he said it was because he was curious and it was a stupid mistake and that he loves me so much and im the only one for him. He swears he would never do it again, Should i believe him?? or leave him??? (link)
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okay if he said you're the only one for him, why he slept with his ex for? and what is he curious about? his ex girlfriend or something. well is he curious about still having feelings for ex by having sex with her? to be honest, whatever guys say to girls they don't really mean it cuz they just saying stuff you wanna hear. but you gotta ask him what is there to be curious about?and tell me how it went.:).
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Okay... Iv'e been in a relationship now for almost a year, and i love my boyfriend so much, but i have a problem. everytime i ask him about marriage he laughs at me... he says he wants to marry me and spend the rest of his life with me, so why does he laugh about that??? (link)
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well maybe he's nervous about the marriage. you know guys have a funny way of showing how they react to something that is as big as marriage. but I'm sure he does love you but marriage is a big thing. give him time to think about it. and you should too. if you rush into the engagement or wedding then you'll regret it. but just give yourself and your boyfriend some time to think. just ask yourself "am I ready to get married and start a family?" .or do whatever you wanna do. good luck and I hoped I help=]
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So I recently got my first boyfriend. He's a great guy in every way, he really enjoys spending time with me and is being very sensitive to what I'm comfortable with since this is my first relationship. The thing is, I just can't understand why he likes me...whatever he sees in me, I definitely don't see it. I'm very good in school, but other than that, I'm just average looking, I'm way shorter than he is, I'm usually very quiet, I tend to be awkward socially and physically, I'm pretty un-exciting (don't like risk-taking), and I'm not exactly a great conversationalist. So, I'm always kind of second-guessing things, and I feel much more insecure than I probably should. I actually kind of asked once why he likes me, and his response was that I'm everything he's looking for in a relationship now - why wouldn't he like me? Somehow, his answer didn't really help. Any advice on how I can relax more, go with the flow, enjoy my amazing first boyfriend and truly accept that he likes me? (link)
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well if his answer is "you're eveything I'm looking for in a relationship" then that means he doesn't really know what he likes about you. ask him what he's looking in a relationship and what type of girl he's interested in. if his answer is "well I'm looking for someone like you",then that means he doesn't know you. and if he does say that,take your relationship one step at a time.get to know each other more. good luck and tell me how it goes. aim me on ll miss sweet ll.
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I am 19/f.
I am from India.
My boyfriend is 18 and we are dating each other for nearly more than 1 year.
Initially the relationship was wonderful but lately we are fighting a lot.
In my past i had many frnds who r boys n now bcoz of dat he thinks dat i m a flirt n he doesn't even trust me.
Wen i say dat dey wer only my frnd n nothin more den dat he gets angry n starts arguing.
Now i dont even have many frnds n now days i avoid talkin 2 ne boy 4m ma class.
but still he doesn't trust me.
But he says dat he loves me a lot.
Even i love him a lot.
I don't want 2 leave him. (link)
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well all relationships are about honesty and trust. your boyfriend needs to understand that he needs to trust you more.I mean without trust,where does your relationship go from there?tell him he needs to understand that you're not the type of girl who flirts with guys that are your friends. like you said,you guys have been dating for almost or over a year now,so basically he should trust you by now.make him understand how trustworthy you are. good luck=]!
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14/F I have this best friend that I absolutely love. He is so cool and makes me feel good.He is not popular neither am I. That is why people make fun of him. He also has a deaf ear. I don't know wheather to listen to everyone in my school or date the uy that makes me feel absolutley awesome. Like I am in heaven. Please Help
~~~Unicyclegurl~~~ (link)
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go for it.if u like the guy then go ahead and ask him out but if you do go out with him and you guys break up, what will happen after that? think about the consequences of going out with a best friend. but really you shouldn't care what people say. do what you gotta do.
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