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♥ I had this column awhile ago, but I recently stopped using it.. I like deleted everything. But I decided to start giving advice again! I'm Becky, 16 years old, leave a question in my inbox, I elaborate more on those questions!
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Well, I like this white boy and Im black. Sometimes he flirt with me but he told one of my guy friends that he don't like black girls like that he just want to be there friends. But I really like him. I needs some tips on how to flirt with him and turn him on in a way he would not look at the color of my skin. Im 16
If someone won't date you because of your skin color, than he is completely not worth your time. If I were you I would have taken this a lot more personally!
what do you mean by to spoon with someone?
When you're both laying in a bed and your bodies are in the same "spoon" shape so that your legs are bent and the spoon shape is interlocking with your partner.
ok so there is this guy i really like, and he really likes me. we spend hours on the phone every night and i can tell we both really like each other. today he found out i was friends w/ this girl and was like OMG YOU KNOW HER? YOU TALK TO HER? SHE IS SO HOT! AHH OMG! and so on. it really hurt my feelings and i don't understand why a guy would say that to a girl he likes/is interested in. can someone explain this to me? i wouldn't want to talk about a hot guy to him. i just dont get why he did that
Guys to that to get girls jealous. He wants to see your reaction to that so he says it. If something he says like that bothers you, show it. Or maybe he just thinks your friends' hot, but he probably thinks the same of you too, or else he wouldn't be telling you.
i like or liked this guy. he used to go to my school and i was like totally in love with him for a whole year. he wasn't my boyfriend though. but we talked a lot. and i loved him so much.
anyway then he went to a different/better school. i never heard from him since but i missed him a lot and still loved him. i even saw him twice one time i visited our school but he didn't see me. and the other time i saw him walking on the street.
anyway there is this guy in my school and he is really hot and cute. and he always smiles at me. everytime he sees me he stares at me for a long time. and he is a lot like the other guy who left the school. thats the weird thing. and everytime i see him i get so nervous in my stomach. but only when HE looks at me. when other guys smile at me it means nothing to me
so do you think i like this guy?? and what about the other guy?
Only you can tell if you like either one of the guys...why would you ask us if you like him? Lol, that's just weird. Do you mean do you think the guy likes me? I think that would make mores sense. So try asking the question again.
How do you know if a guy likes you? How can you tell if he's flirting? If you like him and you think he likes you, should you ask him out or wait for him to make a move? And how do you ask someone out without sounding stupid?
You can't tell exactly if a guy likes you. He might just be a big flirt and flirt with you. Or there might be a guy that barely talks to you but likes you...it all depends on the guy. Every guy flirts differently, some with girls they think are cute, ones they are friendly, or any in general. It he's flirting it doesn't nessecarily means he likes you. If you like him and you think he likes you you should wait until you know for sure if he likes you to ask him. But I would personally wait for him to make a movie. To ask someone out without sounding stupid, ask them to go somewhere like the movies...you definately will not sound stupid. Good luck. =]
Alrite, Well i have recently been talking to this guy in another state. (for about like 2 months now). so about a month ago he told me that he like realli had feelings for me and asked me to be his girlfriend and i agreed. well, i realli love him alot and it sounds like realli dumb but we have already talked about like,getting married and shit..well it sounds like a cute little fairy tale rite? WRONG! ok i was just talking to him like 10 min ago on MSN and i was like, "do your parents know about me" and hes like, "yea and they fully support me. do your parents know?" and im like, "not yet" and hes like, "well u know your going to have to tell them"
so my question is how do i tell my dad (i dont have a mom) that i fell in love with a guy i met on an on-line chat room? Oh Yea, Did I Mention I Am Only 14. So Yea, Im 14 in Love With a 16 year old i met online in a chat room that lives in another state.....how do i tell my dad?
Much Love,
Danigrl1621
I don't believe in online relationships at all. !!! You cannot be in love with someone that you have talked to for two months online...you cannot be sure who he is. He could be a 40-year-old man. But anyways, do you think you dad will approve of this? If you don't think he would, it's not the right thing to do. As for your question...tell your dad that you have a boyfriend, but don't tell him about the internet part yet. And then when he asks you questions about him you can tell him. Hopefully he approves, for your sake, but I definately don't. Just saying. Good luck.
My friend has this guy at school that she likes, and he is always turning around in math asking her questions. But when they have math homework he always gets them right. She wants to know, is he flirting with her???
Lol. The mean girl affect! That's what my friends and I call it at least. You can never know for sure if he is. I wouldn't call it flirting, just an excuse to talk to her. It may just be a coincidence, like maybe his parents or siblings help him out at home, or maybe he's just bored in that class so decides to ask the closest person to him. And even if he is flirting, it doesn't nessecarily mean he likes her. Maybe he thinks she's cute.
Well theses this girl that i meant at the being of the school year and her name os Halie and i really like her but she has this boyfriend that keeps making her mad but she says with him cause she likes him so much and as long as she is happy im happy...but really the only for me to be really happy is to be going out with her!! Any advice!!
Make sure she notices how happy you are for her when she's happy, she'll think that's really sweet. Start talking to her, because you won't have any chance with a girl that you never talk to. But you can't really break them up but it seems like they won't be lasting for much longer. So you just have to be patient.
Ok well, we are about 17 and me and my girlfriend Britney have been going out for about three years now and i really love her. but i have no clue what to get her for christmas? usually i am pretty good at this stuff but this year i am clueless??? i have about like $250 to $300 to spend. Can someone please help me come up with some ideas for her? Thanks in advance !
Do you know Tiffany & Co.? It`s high-quality jewlery...and once I recieved the sterling silver
Two heart pendant for my birthday, and it stole my heart. It`s only about $150...you can buy a matching earrings/bracelt as well. Hopefully she doesn`t already have one. If she doesn`t, she`ll LOVE it!
Try www.tiffany.com for more info. You don`t have to get her that one if you find one you think she`ll like better. Try "Gifts for Her" under Jewlery. They come in really cute turquoise boxes too!
My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react?
I would be jealous too. That's really disrespectful for anyone to do. Even if she's "like a sister" that's still not how you should treat your girlfriend. You should tell him that you were disturbed by this, and that you don't want him to do it in front of you. You can even admit you were jealous! Lol. I would.
okay there is this guy that i really like but he is 16 and over the summer we made -out and stiff then he went back home an hour away from where i live and treated me like i was nithing what happend bc he still told me he loved me but then school started adn he dosent like me anymore adn everyone says he still does bc he says it and he wont tell me and i know he does
my question is how do i really know if he likes me or not?!?!?!?!?
Ask him! You well never know his true feelings for you if you don't ask him. I just find it lame that he told you he loved you and then he stopped talking to you. That's not boyfriend material. Love is a very strong word and it really bothers me when people throw it around like that lol. Okay anways, he is the only one who knows if he likes you or not. If you're too shy to ask him, try doing it online if he has an sn because it will be easier.. or maybe even on the phone. Build the conversation towards that subject. Just make sure you don`t just say "Hey.. do you still like me?" You might want to tell him how you feel about him first. If you need any further help, feel free to ask.
ok everyone is saying that damius my boyfriend likes my bff rayquisha and i dont no wut to do stay with him or break up with him please please please help thanx
-confused
If he really liked your best friend he would probably talk to you about if it he were a true trustworthy boyfriend. Since you just "heard" that he likes her, it could just be a rumor and not actually be true. Talk to him about it, and if you need any further help afterwards, I'm here.
well i am in luv with my bestfriend but i dont know how to tell him cos i dont know how he feels about me
Even if you're in love with your best friend, I don't think that's a good idea. Friendship is a far better relationship that a dating relationship. Think about the future. After you break up you might never talk to each other again then you won't have him as your best friend anymore. If you really want to tell him, ask him who he likes first. If he says you, you might want to tell him. If he doesn't, "Congrats!".
Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?
Thanks!!
Walk up to his door! You're in a relationship...you shouldn't be shy to go to his door! He'll also think it's cute that you have the courage to do so. Guys LOVE confidence.
alright well i have this reallllly big problem. im 13/f if that matters. but any who, i just started liking this kid nd wev been starting to hang out on weekends. and this girl likes him to .. were kinda close but not really. i dont want her to be mad at me for liking him. becauz he doesnt like me back i think he likes her. nd i think she thinks im gunna try nd steal him away witch is really stupid this is like 10 yr old shit but still i dont know hwt to do.. should i talk to her about it.. or just see how stuff goes? thanks all fives
Go ahead and like him, it's not something that you can control. If she gets mad tell her that she's not even going out with him so she has no right whatsoever to tell you not to like him. Who knows, he might end up liking you.
i have an advice question for you. i deposited a check with a teller at the bank today who was really cute and really nice and she kind of made a bit shy. she wished me a good day (like she does to all customers i would think) and i did back to her also. afterwards, i thought i'd like to ask her out, but i was wondering if there's any easy way to ask a girl out while she's at work. after she did my transaction she asked if there's anything else she could do for me...i said, no, that's all. after i left i was thinking if she asks me that next time i go there, i could hand her and deposit slip that says "would you like to have dinner with me after work?" ...or would she think i was robbing the bank? anyways, that was my idea and i guess my question is if it's a good idea...or if you have any better suggestions. thanks for your help.
Hmm...I haven't had much experience in this area but I'll try to help you out the best I can. First, I think that you should get her number or something before you ask her to dinner. It's really up to you, but if I were her that's what I would prefer. Like you should find out at least her name first... wouldn't that help a bit? Well good luck with that.
15 / F _ okay so i started going out with this guy a couple days ago && i really like him nd all ;; but it doesn`t really feel rite && i don`t think i`m ready for another relationship yett because me and my ex broke up about a week or 2 ago && i know i`m still in love with him ,, he was the 1st and only guyy i fell in love with .. and he still likes // loves me too ,, but i don`t want to wait around for him for _ ever yah know ,, but idk what to do ..
Break up with your current boyfriend. It makes no sense to go out with someone if you're still recovering from a recent relationship and you don't even like the guy you're going out with that much. Maybe you'll end up going out with your ex again eventually after a little break from relationships.
what is the meaning of life?
Read the Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom.
Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!
Hev
You're not totally worthless, and it's just not right to totally hate yourself. Just beacuse he said that he doesn't like you "at the moment" which is he doesn't like you right now, doesn't mean that he's never going to like you. Maybe you should take a break from liking him and find another guy, or you can continur to like him until he might like you. So time is basically the best answer.
ok here's the thing...there's this girl that i really like..but the problem is shes very shy and its hard to get a signal..going to different schools and having different things dont make things easier..i only see her once a week(our families are very bonded with each other) and so our parents and relatives r always in the same room..we barely talk to each other and that makes me nervous..when i stare at her she looks somewhere else or to the floor but doesnt seem uncomfortable..its hard to explain..i do have a crush but im not looking for a relationship..right now i just wanna know if she likes me back before i figure out my next move..can u plzz help me know if she likes me back without having to flirt or do something funny in front of my parents! (they r cramping my style)..she is a twin (almost identical) for what its worth..thnxx and i hope u can help me
You can get her screen name or cell phone number so you can talk to her in private and get to know her better. Or say that you want to go outside and play wiffleball or something and tell ask her to come with you. When you're alone with her outside you'll get to know her better and once she knows you then you'll be able to tell if she likes you or not, or even ask her. It shouldn't be too hard to get away from your parents/relatives. You don't even have to go outside you can just go in a seperate room. So yeah... I hope everything works out fine.