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Hey I'm Aria and the pic to the left is from this summer!


*AGE* 17
*GRADE* JuNiOr
*LOCATION* BeAvErToN, OrEgOn
*SEX* Female
*HEIGHT* 5'4
*LIKES* Romantic comedies, dancing, flirting, talking on the phone and computer, being with friends, Disney, going shopping, blasting music, sweets, buying shoes, meeting new people, traveling, LOVING LIFE


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advice

Okay im 12 years old and all my other friendshave boyfriends. I had a boyfriend for a day but he broke up with me so it dosent really count. Anyway i realllllly want one and i have no idea were to begen. thanks a bunch!!!!

Ok well I know having a boyfriend seems really important right now buuut i think you should put that wish on pause for awhile and work your way there because i can garuntee that you can get a boyfriend but he needs to be a quality guy that you really like in order for it to last longer than your boyfriends previously. So to start off I'd say forget about the "boyfriend". For now start off new. Flirt with guys to see what theyre like. Be outgoing and friendly to everyone (not only hot guys but ALL guys and girls). Make a lot of friends because guys like when you are liked. It may take awhile for all of this to happen but it's worth it. Eventually (who knows how long.. it might take til high school) you will find a great guy who cares about you for you and not only for the status of having a girlfriend. The idea of a bf can be really desirable, i know, but in order for it to really last and be something you are proud of, youre going to have to wait for love to find you.. dont go searching for it. I hope this helps and I hope you find a perfect guy for you! Good Luck!

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um...this is gonna sound weird, but i'm 14, and i'm....like, hairy, if you know what i mean, my gf doesn't like it, how do i get rid of the hair without just shaving it, i've heard that doesn't work

Shaving is your cheapest option... but make sure to use shaving cream! And with shaving- it'll come back pretty quickly. Then the next option is waxing but, word of the wise, it will hurt! lol but it wont come back for awhile. And of course theres lazor hair removal... but I doubt you want to go to that extreme! and it's pretty spendy but it works and it doesnt come back!

best of luck!

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*16 yr-old female*
Okay well me and this guy were together over the summer and our relationship was kind of, well lets just say he wasnt so good at being a boyfriend to one girl. The thing is though that i fell for him and hes the first guy ive ever felt this way for. And i mean hes done some pretty shady things to me but still through all of that im there for him and i support him with everything (*making the college basketball team/new jobs/new car..everything*) and he knows how i feel. Well the other night we were talking online and he was telling me how amazing i am and how he really does love me and what not. Now normally id believe him but i cant because i know that if he truely did, he'd be with me right now and not a bunch of girls, ya know? So what im asking for is what is your perspective on this whole situation. Do you think im worng for not believing him or do you think he really does care but he wont be with me because he doesnt want to hurt me..thanks in advance..x0x
and im sorry its so long

wow... Well I think that if you dont believe him you'll regret it later.. and thats NOT something you want to do. But at the same time he's hurt you and youve seen him be a bad boyfriend to the other girl. How can you trust a guy like that? If I were you I'd tell him that if he REALLY meant all the stuff he said that one night online then he should prove it... make him prove to you that he's changed and can be the guy of your dreams... THATS when you really know. Tell him about your concerns with his ex and you. You might have to sit him down and MAKE him talk to you.. but do whatever it takes!! Its hard to get the questions out, but once you do youll feel soooooooo much better (Ive done it.. it was really hard to ask him straight out and to his face.. but i did it and i am SOOO happy that I did). Also, dont do it online. You have to talk to him face-to-face because that makes it a lot more real and its less likely he'll lie when he's looking staright at you! If everything ends up going well then dont just JUMP into him. Go slow so he doesnt feel like things are going way too fast. I really hope this helped!!!I'm always here!!
*Aria*

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hey this is the girl who asked about steve.. wow you gave really good advice, thank you SO much!! But see, Steve DID ask me out.. 2 years ago.. and I was a dumbass and I said no. And I know that Steve DOES want a relationship, because he sometimes talks about how he wants a girlfriend. And he's not the type to just want a fling.. he's not your typical, hott, popular guy.. he's not even that great-looking, he's not popular but he's still cool, and he's caring and easy to talk to. And when I said he flirts with other girls, he doesn't exactly FLIRT with them. He just TALKS to them and becomes friends with them. I donno, I guess I get jelous sometimes and assume that he's flirting. And I'm not really sure, but sometimes he hints around that he kinda likes me. So idk what to do. Any more advice?/ Thanks!!

Well he sounds like a great guy from what youve said! I dont know what else to tell you, but if you like him THIS much then I wouldnt give up! Just be careful because guys can be extremely blunt and it can hurt... I hope EVERYTHING works out tho!!!!! If you ever need anything, I'm still here!!

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Ok I've liked this guy Steve for two years.. I think about him nonstop, I swear I haven't gone a day without thinking about him, and when I'm not around him, I find myself anxious and thinking about when I will see him next. Steve used to like me, and I thought he still did like me, but now I'm not so sure cuz now I see him flirting with all these other girls and it makes me soo jealous. I feel like I can't be happy with anyone but him. I've been asked out by other guys, but I said no because I only like Steve. And I even had a boyfriend, but I broke up with him cuz I couldn't be happy and I couldn't stop thinking about steve. How do I let Steve know I like him, in a suttle (sp?) way? How do I get him to be mine without scaring him off?

hun i know EXACTLY how you feel!! It's kinda scary how much i can relate to you! OK well I just read this article in the March issue of Cosmo Girl and it talked about guys and how they think (the author of "he's just not that into you" who was also on Oprah) and a lot of it made sense. Greg (the author) was saying that if he doesnt like you anymore, or hasnt asked you out yet then he is probably not feeling you like you feel for him. And plus: if he's flirting with a bunch of other girls then he probably isnt looking for a relationship right now. I know what your thinking though: you dont wanna hear this!! Well i dont like the guy I used to like that is like Steve. I realized that the perfect image I had in my mind of him was not who he really was. He wasnt the guy looking only for a realationship with me, and he wasnt the guy who would put everything aside to be with only me. He liked girls and its obvious (whether or not you admit it) that he's just not that into you or looking for a relationship if he hasnt already taken action. See.. I didnt know this and I spent 4 years head-over-heals for this boy that i liked. He also used to like me but he wouldnt make anything official. I didnt understand then, but now I do. He was looking for a FLING. No commitment and he could flirt with whoever, whenever. I spent so many nights crying because of the fact that I cant make him "my guy". Now I realize that all the pain was NOT in anyway good for me. And if he really was the guy I (You) was supposed to be with, he wouldnt hurt me (you) that bad and he wouldnt be so oblivious to my feelings. Think about what you really want in a boyfriend (Sweet to you, respectful of you, caring to you, genuine to you, commited to you, good looking?, etc) and realize that if he hasnt fulfilled all of those in such a long period of time, you have a bunch of other guys to focus on; ones that wont make you jealous, and that REALLY and TRUELY care for you as more than a fling. I hope you understand where I'm coming from and I hope I helped!!!! Keep me posted!!!
*Aria*
(if you EVER need anything else just drop one in my inbox!! xxkissmexx)

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hey...I like this one guy but theres sum problems...well we hung out a couple times but we never really talked except the one time...but we talk a lot on the internet N I kno it may be weird but I like him!!!...were gonna hang out sumtime...I think even tomorrow...haha...but anyway...how should I let him kno that I like him...my friends keep sayin I mite have a chance with him N I hope theyre right...plz try to help!!! I rate...

I know exactly how you feel! You can reaaallllyyyy get to know a lot about a guy online! I think its bcuz its not as awkward as in person when you first meet someone... and he isnt as shy with his guy friends around, ya know? But MAKE SURE you dont rush anything online and dont talk in person! Things can get reallllyyyy awkward if you arent comfortable in person! Its great that you might have a chance with him!!! Try not to have high expectations though, because when you do you could winde up getting hurt... and no one wants that!
GOOD LUCK!! I HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT GOOD!! KEEP ME POSTED!

--Aria

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Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do??

as long as he's a little bit cute your good!! Flirt with him and get to know him... he might be the guy of your dreams :)

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Hi ok im 14 and well ive never been kissed.. i mean i could have been kissed a couple of times but i kinda said i didnt want to but i wanted to so bad its just i dont know how!! i mean what if u bite the other persons tongue or what if they bite you!? and then what if the other person has braces and u get scratched or sumthing else??? like idk i just keep on getting this ideas in my head and get paranoid!! i dont think ill ever kiss anyone unless its just like a peck.. please HELP!!!!!!!
p.s can u give me tips and how to french kiss??

virtualkiss.com

HAVE FUN ;)

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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

its obvious your bf really loves you since he's been together with you for THAT long! (which believe me it's long for a guy... they dont usually like commitment)...maybe the other guy thing was just a little fling you thought about. But I would say to stick with your bf. stay friends with the other guy tho!! lol and if anything ends up happening with your bf and you split or something THEN give the other guy a call! hope everything works out gravy baby!

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i have this boyfriend that loves me plus another girl what should i do?

show him how much you love him somehow... maybe fill his room with roses or something... I dont know. But if he's loving two girls he's a player... so I personally think you should somehow get over him. But if you can't then show him how much you love him!!

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hey... i like this guy but he doesnt like me back what should i do?

Get to know him better!! Ask more questins to see what he's really all about. Maybe that will give you some clues as to why he doesnt feel the same way about you? Maybe he just feels hes not good enough friends with you yet. Once youve gotten pretty comfortable with him then start flirting!! Guys like it and its nice to have attention once in a while!! Just dont do it tooooo much with all the guys because other girls will get jealous! Hope I helped! If you need anything else then Just ask! :)
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i hate boys...why do they feel the need to tear out my heart and rip it to pieces?! >:0 :(

I KNOW HWO YOU FEEL!! Sometimes guys can be so cruel! I dont know what happened to you... maybe a cheater or liar?? i dont know but a lot of the time they dont feel the same way about the girl as she does about them! It sucks! A lot of the time guys do think about what their actions can do! I'm sorry! If you ever need anything I'm here!

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my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

L is for the way you look at me, O is for the only one I see, V is very very extraordinary, E is even more than anyone that you adore... LOVE WAS MADE FOR ME AND YOU!!
haha ok i'm done

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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all!

tell yourself that its over with that jerk! you deserve someone who will treat you RIGHT!! You need to get your mind off him... try to find a different guy to focus on! Its the perfect way to keep your mind off your ex! Just make sure that your new guy doesnt treat you like you ex did! Hope I helped! plz rate me

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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you?

I dont see why not. If you like him then age shouldnt get in the way :D

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hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better

if you like him... flirt. If you arent sure yet then just ask a bunch of questions to figure out more about him. And when he asks you questios dont hold back, be really open. When your open to his questions it makes him feel more comfortable being open with you! Also you dont wanna be shy, just be yourself to let him know who you are and what your all about. I hope it works out for you! plz rate me

*xoxo* Aria

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i have gotten realli close to this guy lately and we are good friends. but i like him as more than a friend but i dont think he feels the same way. What should i do?

Flirt! Thats the best way to tell him that your interested in something more. But dont go over the top crazy with it. Still be natural and act like you normally do. Keep being yourself because thats obviously what he likes! dont rush things.. keep them slow and things will turn out! If you really wanna know then you could be totally forward and ask him... but some people get nervous and dont like people being so forward because it puts them on the spot, and in an uncomfortable situation. But I hope everything works out!! Dont be shy! Good luck!
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hey im 15 and im a Bi and none of my friends now and i really want to find a woman for me but i dont know how and i dont want people to make fun of me what should i do i need help

Are you sure your bi? I mean you might just be curious so you want to experiment. A lot of teenagers do that in order to find out who they really are. If your looking for a woman then I'd suggest a chat room or something like that, with people that have the same interest as you

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I never had my 1st kiss and I'm 15 now, and i want 2 get my 1st kiss..but i'm nurves,i'm afraid that i will suck at it and i have no idea what to do!Plz tell me how can i not be nurves and just relax.

Thnx,
Ana

just go with it. do what you feel is right. If you really want details then go to: virtualkiss.com
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Hello I was just wondering what qualities a gurl around 16-17 looks for in a guy. Anyone who can help me i'll rate ya good.

ok I'm not 16 YET but I will be in october.. if you dont want advise from a 15 yr old then dont read the rest... Ok anyways good qualities I like are sensitive (but not TOO sensitive), repectful, sweet, nice... the usual things! And of course they have to have a funny side!! It's no fun if your hanging out with someone who is a stiff. I love to laugh and I know A LOT of girls who feel the same way! Be yourself and be outgoing!
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