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two years of PAIN lol
Ok I've liked this guy Steve for two years.. I think about him nonstop, I swear I haven't gone a day without thinking about him, and when I'm not around him, I find myself anxious and thinking about when I will see him next. Steve used to like me, and I thought he still did like me, but now I'm not so sure cuz now I see him flirting with all these other girls and it makes me soo jealous. I feel like I can't be happy with anyone but him. I've been asked out by other guys, but I said no because I only like Steve. And I even had a boyfriend, but I broke up with him cuz I couldn't be happy and I couldn't stop thinking about steve. How do I let Steve know I like him, in a suttle (sp?) way? How do I get him to be mine without scaring him off?
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hun i know EXACTLY how you feel!! It's kinda scary how much i can relate to you! OK well I just read this article in the March issue of Cosmo Girl and it talked about guys and how they think (the author of "he's just not that into you" who was also on Oprah) and a lot of it made sense. Greg (the author) was saying that if he doesnt like you anymore, or hasnt asked you out yet then he is probably not feeling you like you feel for him. And plus: if he's flirting with a bunch of other girls then he probably isnt looking for a relationship right now. I know what your thinking though: you dont wanna hear this!! Well i dont like the guy I used to like that is like Steve. I realized that the perfect image I had in my mind of him was not who he really was. He wasnt the guy looking only for a realationship with me, and he wasnt the guy who would put everything aside to be with only me. He liked girls and its obvious (whether or not you admit it) that he's just not that into you or looking for a relationship if he hasnt already taken action. See.. I didnt know this and I spent 4 years head-over-heals for this boy that i liked. He also used to like me but he wouldnt make anything official. I didnt understand then, but now I do. He was looking for a FLING. No commitment and he could flirt with whoever, whenever. I spent so many nights crying because of the fact that I cant make him "my guy". Now I realize that all the pain was NOT in anyway good for me. And if he really was the guy I (You) was supposed to be with, he wouldnt hurt me (you) that bad and he wouldnt be so oblivious to my feelings. Think about what you really want in a boyfriend (Sweet to you, respectful of you, caring to you, genuine to you, commited to you, good looking?, etc) and realize that if he hasnt fulfilled all of those in such a long period of time, you have a bunch of other guys to focus on; ones that wont make you jealous, and that REALLY and TRUELY care for you as more than a fling. I hope you understand where I'm coming from and I hope I helped!!!! Keep me posted!!!
*Aria*
(if you EVER need anything else just drop one in my inbox!! xxkissmexx)
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you can do one of a few things. 1. go up and ask him out. 2. have a friend ask him if he likes you. 3. talk to him and see if he flirts w/ you. 4. become friends with him, or 5. go home and cry cuz u dont think he likes you. i would reccomend any but #5. lol. hope i helped. o, btw, it's spelt subtle!
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Well, there is no magical way to get him to like you all over again. But you could tell him EXACTLY how you feel, and he might start hanging around you more and more. Then, you should feel a lot better knowing he's in your life in some way.
As for telling him, just be straight out with it. Don't keep throwing him hints and keep dragging on about it, because he may get scared a little and think you're obsessed, and he will run from you then. Hope i helped any:)
~Diamyn~
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