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Yesterday i got my crushes cell #. so i texted him saying hey its justine! whats up? he never replyed! he sent me a fowarded message text! so technically he didnt reply. then today i sent him another text saying hey whats up? and again he didnt reply!!! i know he has a crush on me because he told my 2 friends and my friend over heard him saying he likes me. so he def without a doubt likes me back. he knows i like him 2 cause my friend told him. so if he likes me y wouldnt he text me back? im kinda depressed that he never did. so yea thats my pathetic problem! lol. i would really like some advice!!! thanks soo much!!!

What I would do is just wait until he says something to me. Don't keep texting him he might just get annoyed by you. Be kinda laid back and wait for him to say something to you. Sometimes when he texts you don't even reply to a forward or answer and hour later. It'll keep him guessing just like it keeps you guessing what he's up to and how he feels. But dont wait to long (:

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So i blocked this guy that i like because my friend told him i liked him and he and i hardly know eachother (other than a few messages we've talked through & seeing eachother at school even though we've never said hi or even talked in person before) and i was really embarrassed and sad and mad that my friend did that. anyways..my friend told me that the guy i like already had a gf and everything but i was so depressed that night that i blocked my friend and the guy i like. welll now i really regret blocking the guy i like because that was stupid. i already forgave my friend and added him back, but is there anyway to get the guy i like back on my friends list WITHOUT having to send him a friend request??? please please please help!!

nope you have to them back (send friends request)
just make up some excuse like you ACCIDENLTY hit block instead of send message or something like that.
hope i helped.

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okay well my boyfriend gets really jealous, but not to the point where it's over bearing.. his last relationship ended when he found out his girlfriend had TWO other boyfriends, so i don't really blame him for being this way.. well, we've been going out for a year (tomorrow, actually =) yayy!) and i was just wondering something.. well i never really talk to any guys as much as i did before being with him, but there was this kid on my myspace that added me who lives like in ohio and i live in pa (but on opposite ends so we're like 8 hours from each other, not that it really matters though) and he posted a bulletin about being upset cause girls are confusing or something, so feeling generous, i messaged him and we just talked about stupid stuff for a little bit and that's all. messages always seem shady, i know that.. so if my bf sees it, he'll probably be upset.. he knows my password and stuff cause he doesn't have a myspace so i gave him my info so he can still look at other poeples, although he like never goes on the computer anymore just because he doesn't.. so my question is should i delete the message? if he saw it i know it would create controversy, but its not really a big deal.. the kid said i was cute in the message.. and in his about me it says he's a flirt, so i know that part would deff make him be kinda upset.. i know he wouldn't like break up with me over it, but should i delete the messages just to be safe?? thanks =) sorry so long, i just like details haha ♥

First off,
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY :]
Next,
I personally think that you should keep the message. But you should call him or talk to him about it before he finds out about the message by himself. It might stop much of the drama & stuff because he'll know that you were being honest with him & told him. If you didn't flirt or anything I'm sure there's nothing really to worry about. Hope I helped :]

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sorry, this is kinda long.


Okay, im in 8th grade.. but im graduating tomorrow.. so im pretty much a freshman.

This senior.. who is moving to college next year wants to hook up with me.

Hes like 17.

and july 22 is my half birthday so ill be 14.5

look at this convo on aim we had.

a= boy
l = me

A: dhcre;ugf re
l: shey
A: shey
A: ?
l: heyyy**
A: how you is
l: i is good, ytu?
A: pretty good
A: kinda bored tho nd really tired
l: same heeree.
l: i have graduation tomorrow :] are you going
A: y do like want me to go?
l: dont you have a brother in my grade?
A: no
l: oh.
l: nvm then
l: oh wait hes in 6thhh nvm.
A: yea
l: anywhoooo..
A: im
A: hot
l: c0ol
l: me too.
A: really
A: how
l: why dont you tell me
A: hmm idn ide have to see you
A: alone
l: oh reallyy.
A: mhm
A: wat do you say to that
l: when?
A: idn u tell me
l: well i cant tomorrow, thurs, fri sat or sun.
A: k
l: so idk afte rthat
A: mhm
l: waittt.
A: ughh
A: blow me psh
l: how old are you?
l: 17?
A: ya y
l: oh just wonderingg.
l: ew im only 14/5
l: 14.5*
A: soo
l: isnt that kinda wierd?
A: why
A: for what
l: that your like hitting on me?
A: who said im hitting on you
l: haha your likee.
l: i have to see for myself and that stuff then your like alone.
A: ok?

Do you think he wants something serious.. or just to get in my pants.

All he was trying to do was get in your pants. I mean think about it, he talked about you giving him a blow job & when your said eww & that your 14 in a half he didnt give a damn. If he really liked ou he would be trying to get to know you. Not what you can do in the dark. Besides, in my opinion he`s pretty old for you.
Hope I helped.

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is it just me or nebody else where whenever i love someone, they end up breaking me heart. everytime...

that`s just life.
You learn from break up & thats how your relationships become stronger.

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i really neeed your advice:

who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved?

I think you should pick the person you first loved becasue you have to follow you`re heart & you cant`t love someone just becasue they loved you first. Timing really doesn`t matter but the way you feel about someone does.

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13/f
i posted a queastion like this before, but i must have left something out because it was very misinterpreted.

i like this guy. i told him i liked him, but he doesnt like me back. he likes my friend (i new this even before i told him). my friend and him are good friends, but she has a boyfriend (11 months so it wont end any time soon). she doesnt like him back obviously,but he still likes her. the guy i liked asked me out, but it was months ago, but he did used to like me (i rejected him then). what should i do?

Basically you`re pretty much single.
I think that you should jut flirt with other guys & be open for anything that comes your way.If you like the guy you regected you can hang out with him for a while and I bet something would come up between you two. If the guys that you like now sees you with other guys maybe he would be a little jeleous and ask you out or something. Take things smoothy & i hope it works out.
Hope this is something you were looking for.

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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

That`s a lie. Most females love it when men wear cologne becasue they know that,that man knows how to take care of himself. & it smells really good.

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where can i buy two nice rings for me and my boyfriend. I only have 80 bucks

The cheapest I can tell you is K-Mart. It always has gold,silver,diamond,etc. Jewlery on sale 70% all the time. I once saw a gold neclace there for about 5$.

http://www.kmart.com/catalog/section.jsp?N=68+4294967242&categoryId=68

I also know that wal-mart has like the best deal on jewlery also.

http://www.walmart.com/jewelry

Here are some sites! Hope I helped. :)

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well me and him are back together he asked me out and i said yeah...but he is being nice but he wants to go to this place where all my friends hangout and all his friends play soccer and we all hang out there and im just worried that he will hit on my friends...and tommorow he is going to new jersey with his friends but i dont trust his friends because they always try to break us up and i dont know what i should do should i be mad that he is going to the those places?...well thank you

I wouldn`t be mad if he was going to those places but a little worried if his friends try to break you guys up.I think you should talk to him about all of this. Tell him how you feel about him & tell everything you wanted to say before but couldn`t. You should also to him how you feel he might hit on your freinds. He might regret it but that`s the only way you know he knows how you feel about things.

I hope you have a great day with him & remember; keep it cool :)

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So, I was talking with this guy and I'm 15 and he's 16. We were planning on doing it because, I thought, we were basiclly dating. Today, I found out he had a myspace and apparently he has a girlfriend he never told me about or mentioned. I saw the comments she left him saying how much she loves him and then his replys and they were from today. I know this means he's basiclly an ass and I shouldn't be with him or care for him anymore but I really hurt. Should I just not answer his calls and have nothing to do with him anymore or should I confront him or what should I do? Should I tell his girlfriend that he was planning on having sex with me? (I've never talked to her before) Someone please help me before I lose my mind.

WOW is that guy a player or something? I think you should tell his girlfriend but most girlfriends would be like your a lier so you should have proof or something. I know you do probably hurt 7 i think the best thing to do is say no & just walk away. I mean the guy is dumb. yes, i think you should also tell him. Maybe thre was a missunderstanding but i doubt it. If it wasn`t a misunderstanding don`t take him back whatever he does just don`t take him back.

Hope I helped & hope everthing will trun out good =]

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let me put this in short version. i met a boy we really clicked he told me how he felt about me and we were just really close.. he left for a week and i saw pictures of him making out with another girl..
and i asked him about it and he said he has been wanting to go see her for a year and a half now.
when he comes back to my state should i forget him?
(he makes out with 7th graders too i learned)
or should i just not date him..
we wearnt exactly dating yet
but he sure made it seem like we were going too...
i threw up three times because of this.
i really believed he wouldnt be like all the other boys but he was...
and i like it when its JUST me and ONE boy..
so my question is.
should i forget him and move on?
thanks so much even if you try..
i rate 5.

Ok my opinion would be to wait for a while. I understand you like him a lot but just give it a little more time. If he flirts & makes out with other girl & he likes you then there`s not point of going out with him because you never know if he could be cheating on you with someone else. you might not know but he could be just like the rest of the boys. =( All I`m saying is give it & him time. hope I helped!

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Hey, my boyfriend and I are real greatt ogether but the thing is. he keeps teasing me like calling me dork and stuff. It seems like hes joking, which i dont mind but. HE DOES ALL THE TIME. and then think its cute when i get mad..i dont like it. i dont know how to tell him i dont like it without making him feel like i hate him or something. Plus i once told him he can call me
his lil black slave cuz it turns me on (hes white im black) but he says it too much. but i hate it...and he likes to spank my butt. idk what to do...he's too kinky.

Wow girl you need to stand up & say something!!! Ok, he calls you names & most imporantly the slaps your ass! WOW you truely need to say something. Don`t let a guy think your scared because then he might think he can do anything with you. Try askinghim to stop nicly & if he gets mad tell him the truth. Tell him you don`t like him calling you names & he knows he would feel the same way if you did the same thing. if that DOESN`T work take matters in yuor own hands & tell him you had enough & just walk away. If he comes running back he loves you & didn`t mean it but if he doens`t do anything leave him. That`s my opinion & I hope I helped you !!

Hope it works! ♥

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I like this boy he always stares and smiles at me. I was in flag football and i was on his team and then this girl joined after me and later at lunch he walked up to me and said im training you for football alone then the girl said what about me and he said no way!! I have heard lots of rumors that he likes me and im starting to not like him but i still don't know if he likes me. i'm so confused does he seem to like me???

Of course he likes you. I mean if he stares at you that`s the first sign of him liking you. & then he askes you do you wanna play flag football with him alone I mean come on that`s something!& espically since he he said no to the other girl. Those romors are true 100 % I think you should got for it & see what happens.

Hope I helped ♥

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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him?

Well you could start off by doing some things that take your mind off of him. If you are in the hall way and you see him passing by just think about another cute guy you like and hopefully you'll forget about him. Eventually you will get over him sooner or later. I know this is not a nice thing but you could think about his bad side.

hope i helped

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I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??

Why should you be mad? For the first part he said he was just joking around. And for the second part you should be proud you got a big ass. Thats just my opinion.

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there is this girl at school that i really like. i want to ask her out but i don't know her that much.

what advice could you give me?

thanks

Well first of all you can aproch her and introduce yourself.You can carry her books or something of that matter. Once you get to know her do nice things and ask her out to the movies or something.You can also talk to a friend that might know her.

Hope i helped

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There is a girl that i only think abt her i am in love with her how can i make her like me?

You cant make any one like you. You can flirt or talk to her so you'll get her attension you cant make anyone like you.



hope I helped

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i need to know if grils like geting secret antmirers gifts on valin time's day( i'm giving her a cristl heart) and if i should insribe some thing on it, what should i do.

That is really cute!! the crystal hearts! I think you should put "♥ your secret admirer!!"


♥xOx_LoOvE_xOx!

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ok, well im 13 and i HATE my body!!!! i think im fat but my friends say im not...i think i need to loose weight-fast! do u have any tips on how to look hot n' sexy some how!? please help me. thanks
cab

I think you should do exercise such as :

*sit ups
*squats
*squat thrust
*push ups
*running
*really any kind of exercise you know !!
DONT eat junk food ! Eat healthy food that help you cut carbs and lose fat. Also DONT take diet pills they dont work and you can die from then.

Hope I helped ♥ xOx_LoOvE_xOx

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