sry this is so long..
i'm 14 yr old female thats a freshman..
Well theres a guy named "steve" thats not his real name lOl well i'ved liked him since about..the end of last school year and he told my friend he used to liek me..he doesn't really talk to me in school i guess we're in different crowds and i don't have classes w.him but i talked to him once on the phone and he said his cell was cutting out so he'd call me back when he got home..but he didn't. but the other night @ a football game i started crying bc of smthn that happened w.another guy that made me upset ((but the truth is..nothing happened...i just wanted attention..lOl well i kno thats wrong so i won't do it again!!)) well steves twin brother and one of his friends came over and gave me a hug and they were trying to find out what was wrong and then steve came over and was like whats wrong and he started massaging my neck but then my friend was like..thats what we're trying to find out and he was like ooh ok i'll leave my bad and stuff like that...so a little later i was standing w.my friends and he came over and was like whats this guys name ((of course i paniked bc nothing was wrong..but i amde up a name lOl!))and he put his arm on my shoulder..i kinda got the vibe he wanted to beat him up or smthn lOl and then he was like alright wheres nick ((his friend...lOl not his real name either)) and he walked away...then @ the end of the night he came up to me and gave me a hug. like all the 'popular' guys were paying attention to me all right long and it was great..but i kno its wrong to make things up like that and i'm not doing it again..BUT steve and the other guys wouldn't have paid attention to me if i wasn't crying...oh i forgot to mention steve still knos i like him..and none of the other guys were as touchy feely ((well besides steves brother who hugged me)) but on to my question...that night he was onine and didn't IM me and the next night he was on and didn't IM me...my friend says i should IM him but i have 2 times in a row and i really think if he likes me he'll IM me..but what i wanna kno is since i don't think he woulda said a thing to me if i wasn't crying...do u think he is interested in me? and he didn't IM me or call me or anything soo...what does this mean.. i kno this question is a lil unclear but if u were in my shoes would u talk to him in school ((girls FLOCK around him so it'd b hard to get a chance)) would u IM him or what would u do?? sry this is so long but i really need help!!
Hello! Well, my advice is to try to talk to him more and know him better. Don't try to force anything on him, just give it time. Try to talk to him online, and find out more about him. If you talk to him one time and then go 'hey wanna go out?', then he might not say yes because he doesn't know you that well. Once you guys have a pretty good relationship and he knows that you are a cool person, maybe you can ask him if he would consider going out with you. Try to catch him at school, online, or even call him. At the next football game, try to talk to him there. You will know when the time is right to ask him. (Or he may ask you) I really hope I helped, let me know what happens and if you need futher advice. Bye
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Thanks loves
well said.
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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!!
Hello =) In my opninion, I think he is TOO old for her. 8 years apart is a pretty big gap. But, if they feel very strongly in love with eachother - than dont worry about anything. I hope I helped =) Feel free to leave one in the inbox if you'd like
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i really like this guy but he is 2 years younger than me. my friends think its not right and i get really hurt. should i be wrong to like him or should i ignore my friends? im very short so im just a tiny tiny bit taller than him. hes the sweetest guy in the world though. please help me thank you i rate :)
Hello =) It doesn't matter that he is 2 years younger than you. Trust me on this one. If your friend continues to act like that, ignore her and tell her that it really hurts you when she says that. I hope I helped :) Leave one in the inbox if you'd like
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Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do?
Hello =) He is so sexy :-*
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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )
Hello =) It seems a bit odd that he kisses you and is all over you, and yet he doesn't want to be your gilfriend. YOu should talk to him and ask him why he kisses you, but then he wont be your girlfriend? I don't think he is using you becuase if he is your best guy friend (and I'm assuming you've been friends for a while) If you need anything, drop one in the inbox
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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!
Hello =) No, it isn't wierd! I go through that too :) Its normal. If you need anything, drop one in the inbox
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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him
Hello =) It just may not be the right time. Wait nutil you are confortable enough to kiss him. No pressure :) I hope I helped... if you need anything, drop one in the inbox
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I moved to Tennessee about a month and a half ago from West Virginia,and I am still in love with this boy in West Virginia.He tells me he still thinks about me all the time,but he also talks to this other girl,and I don't know what is going on in his head,and we have been out twice,but had some problems.I really don't know what to do,because I live in Tennessee now...please help!
Hello =) In my opinion, just keep in contact with him a lot. It could be over the phone (if your allowed because of the long distance bill) or online. Try to talk to him as much as possible :) I hope I helped... if you need anything, drop one in the inbox
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Okay Heres the deal:
I really like this boy in my grade and well I don't think he likes me like that. I think he likes the girl who I really really hate! I know the boys phone number but I'm too chicken to call and I never can ask my friends to call even though they know! Please Help Me!
Hello =) I think you should get to know him better, and once you have a better relationship: you can ask him if you can be more than just friends. I hope it works out :) Leave me one in the inbox if you'd like
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this past week i went on vaca with my friends and 2 of our guy friends happened to be staying in the same town as us. we hung out with them like every night. one of the guys there was the guy i liked(lets call him jon). one night down at the beach we were all laying on a blanket and i was laying next to jon and after like 15 minutes he was like "can i put my arm around you?"..so obv. i said yes. the next night after walking around the beach we all layed down on the blanket again and me and jon ended up next to each other and for a while i was just laying on his arm cuz it was well...just there. after a while my friend reached over and put his hand on mine..well a few minutes later we ended up just cuddling and holding each other and the rest of our friends left. the night was great but the problem is i dont think he kjnows i like him A LOT and i know he doesnt like me...i like him so much and i doubt that night meant anything to him and now im just confused and dont know what to do
Hello =) I have a very strong feeling that he likes you. Go up to him and tell him how that really meant a lot to you, and ask him if it meant anything to him. I hope it works out =) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox if you'd like.
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Okay my friend (well call him -IB-) asked me out in May and i told our friend (well call her -AN-) and she didnt believe me so she asked him if we were and I had forgotten about it until yesterday and i asked her what he said and she said that -IB- said that he did not know that we were and shes like "but he said also that he was messed up today so maybe u r" he is grounded and he has been so whenever he calls me he has to sneak it like when his parents are gone...I start school tomorrow and I dont know how i am going to find out before school starts but i can live with that part i just want to know how i can find out if we are going out or not and i dont know how or what i am going to say to him to find out what or if i should have someone else do it or what i really need help so please help me
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PLEASE HELP ASAP
-Moderators do not delete this i really need help
Hello =) In my opinion - I think you should just go up to IB and ask him if you are going out. Tell him it's been a long time, so you werent sure. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox.
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well im 13 and my boyfriends 16 going on 17 and his aunt that lives upstairs from came down and tolled me that he had a girlfriend and his juss playing with me.. and then earlier i let him go up my shirt because i trusted him ALOT and everything so when i found out i was a surprise because he tolled he dint have a girlfriend but his not the kind of person that would seem to bee doing sumtting like that because his really nice and den just about everywun sayed he had another girl friend and everything and i really wanna hear it from him and crap because i really really like him and shyt so i dunno what to really do.. to belive everywun else or wait till he comes next week to see me and ask him and i juss dont no anymore if im going to dumo him or not because everywun wants him and shyt and i have him AND I guess some other bitch does too..
what should i doo
p.s he comes every week to see me bacuse his in job tec. and its very very far so he stays thier overnite.. till friday and his like in highschool he sould be a senior but he satyed back 2 times
Hello =) I would talk to your boyfriend about it. If he did cheat on you, then tell him that you are really dissapointed and you trusted him. And if he didn't, then ask him why there are rumors. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox!
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ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks
Hello =) I think you should get to know a guy really well before you ask him out. Then, when you get a good relationship - ask him if you could start dating and getting into a serious relationship. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox!
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ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx
Hello =) Go for it! I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox!
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I'm a girl, and 13 years old, and I just want 2 kno, is it wrong 2 like your brother's best friend??? Becuz...I do. My friends say it's fine, but the thing is, there's no way he likes me back, he's 3 years older than me, and there's no way I can ever tell him, cuz he'll just be freaked out. I didn't mean 2 fall 4 him. It was beyond my control. What am I gonna do??? I really like this guy, but he doesn't like me back. My bud, Christy, she knows him really well, and used 2 be his girlfriend, and she says there might be something there, but I think she's just saying that to make me feel better. Is she lying??? Or has he dropped a hint 2 her that he likes me back??? Me and him just recently became really good friends, but he's still my brother's best friend. So is it wrong??? Pleez somebody help. I need answers. Should I tell him?? Or wait until I'm over this??? I don't kno if I can take it n e more. It makes me really sad knowing that he doesn't like me. If I ever told him, he'd probly just freek out and never talk 2 me again. Or at least, that's what I'm afraid of. Pleez somebody help. It's tearing me up inside! Thanx SO MUCH!!
Hey =) Just talk to your brother about it, and ask him if your srush has said anything to him about you. Also, ask him if he would feel weird IF you did start a relationship with him. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox!
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Okay this guy i like likes another girl but she is isn't interested in him!! he says he might not go 2 the prom ...and i want 2 go but i don't have a date!! and the guy i like did my hair, he says he loves my hair ...does he love me?? he laughs at a lot of my jokes is that a sign that he likes me??
Hey =) He's giving you hints that he likes you. I hope it works out :) If you need anything ... drop one in the inbox!
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Ok well i was thinkin bout u kno havin sex widd my bf of ova 9 months but im only 13 almost 14 so i think have decided to wait for that big step u kno!! but ne wayz i wanna be able to do otha stuff wid him like give him a bj and like have him do stuff to me so should i??? and like wat kinda stuff???? thanx
* a curious george *
Hello =) If you feel confortable ... go right ahead! I hope I helped ... drop one in the inbox if you'd like!
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I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?
Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.
Hey hun, go for it =) It seems to me that you guys are good for eachother :) I hope I helped... drop one into the inbox if you'd like
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okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??
Go for it girl =) I hope I helped... drop one into the inbox if you'd like
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