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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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once a liar, always a liar. spare yourself.
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Hello im 18/f and i recently got engaged! I'm so in love and happy its ridiculous. I was trying to find the perfect song to relate to my situation. Just the excitment of planning a wedding and everything. He is going to be gone for a year in afghanistan though but we plan on getting married when he comes back. Any kind of music really, country, pop, hip-hop i like anything :)
Thanks! (link)
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your love is a song by switchfoot. its pretty and about love. :)
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Im 17
and iv never had a real boyfriend i dont know why it might be because im big but i mean come on iv been kissed but never in a relationship im a good friend and thats all i can be the best friend but nothing els iv been close but it never happens all i ever get is your friend is cute hot and everything els or does she have a boyfriend im lost i just dont know what to do do i stop trying and hope it comes my way soon (link)
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i used to feel like this. i tried so hard to be in a relationship and someone finally came around. i'll tell you that we met on the internet, no more than 12 hours after 'talking' we were some kind of 'couple.' that was really the biggest mistake i could have made in my life. i finally met him a month later and found out he was some kind of trashy, center city life kind of person all after holding hands and kissing him. so my advice to you is not to worry so much. the harder you try to find love, the lower your standards will be for a partner. things will happen for you in time. they did for me. i stopped looking so hard and i met a wonderful guy.
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I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago and i have a restraining order on him. because of him it's hard to trust guys. Theirs a guy that i have known for 2 months, he broke up with his gf 5 months ago but she is best friends with his sister who is really close to him. he sees her everyday but she sees other guys and he sees other girls. He keeps telling me he wants something serious but i think he only says that to get in my pants. Before him I went 8 months with out having sex but the other day me and him did it. He sleeps over my dorm all the time and he even sleeps over when im on my period just to cuddle. I dont believe anything he says becasue i have a hard time trusting people so im not taking him seriously when he says he likes me i think hes just trying to get in my pants. I dont know what to do ive been lonely for so long and i would take him seriously if he didnt always see his ex girl friend. He loves her i know that im not sure if i should stop talking to him completely so that he will realize if he ever wants a relationship with me he has to stop talking to his ex i dont want to tell him becasue he may think im controlling. I am 18 and he is 20 im in college as well. (link)
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i would persue the relationship. just make sure he knows your morals and limits, if you let him know what they are and he avoids you after, then he probably did just want to use you. but i highly doubt thats the case. good luck.
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So there's this guy i was talking to for about a month ,on texts.We hadn't met face to face but all my friends knew him and he lived near me so it wasn't like he was random.We finally met last night and went to the movies and He held my hand and paid for my ticket and all that cute stuff and I really liked him.You could tell he wanted to kiss me,but I didn't just because it was the first date.Later that night i texted him and he kept saying how he wanted to kiss and all but I told him next time we could and that I had a good time with him and that my friends liked him too,then he said he thought i wasn't interested in him because I didn't kiss him and i told him that it was because i was shy and because I didn't think he wanted me to be all over him,which is the real reason and that i think he's really good guy and all ,then he never texted me back.I texted him a little later asking why he stopped talking.Still no response.Then I texted him the next day ,just saying "hey : )" and still got no response.It's only been like 1 day but i'm really interested in him and I don't know if he just hasn't had his phone or just doesn't wanna talk to me anymore?Our date went good so I don't think it has anything to do with that.Should I text him again and ask what's going on or what should I do? (link)
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just give him a little time. his phone might be broken or have a dead battery. it sounds like he likes you as much as you like him. try not to worry. :) x
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there is this boy i really really like at my school and he knows i like him but every time i speek to him on msn he never reply's how can i get him to like me? lots of people have said to just tell him how you feel about him but i am scared he will just laugh at me. wot should i do ? (link)
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get to know him in real life, not over the computer. talk and be friendly. when you feel comfortable, tell him how you feel.
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Okay so there is this Guy, I am in 10th grade and I have known him since 7th and we have dated off and on since then. So right now we like each other a lot and we do stuff ( sexual not sex) all the time...But he wont ask me out. I dont know what his deal is.. I mean we both love each other but he just doesnt want a relationship but he still wants everything that should come with a relationship. I know he is not using me but I really want a strong relationship...do you have any advise on what I should do??? I love him a lot!
~Kayla (link)
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maybe he has commitment issues? theres nothing you can do with that. just stay good friends and maybe he will come around.
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hellooooo, so i have a bf and we hang out togetha alllll the time, but i want more of a physical reklationship and he wont. wut do i dooooo? (link)
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let your relationship develope more. give it some time and maybe he'll feel a bit more open.
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Hello, I am a 16 year old Female and I like someone at my school, but I am dating someone and I dont know what to do. Could you please help? (link)
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do you have equal feeling for both people? more for one over the other? think about who you like more/ have more in common with. hope i helped you, theres no real answer to this. :) do what you think is right.
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I'm 21 and my fiance is 28. I am 7 months pregnant. We have been together for almost 2 years. Our relationship to me has hit rock bottom but only for one reason....his ex wife and other son. Ever since the day me and my fiance have started dating i have had to deal with endless amounts of bullshit from his ex. Phone calls 2-3 o clock am calling saying what a crackhead I am how I'm such a whore. This went on for basically the first full year. Sometimes she would call pretending to be other women (she was never smart enough to block her number or atleast call from another number). Anywho I'm at the point where I don't feel like i should have to put up with this woman for the rest of my life honestly after 2 years she still hasn't let up when will she? he doesn't help the situation either. When they have to talk on the phone whether it be about custody or whatever he flirts! I told him....she's trying to get more and more money and hasn't let you see your son in 6 months plus she's been trying to sabatoge us since the day we met WHY THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU SHOULD BE NICE????????? He says he aggrees but ends up doing it anyways. Basically I'm scared to leave his side cause I feel like he'll call her. I'm scared to go anywhere cause I feel like he'll drive and see her of course to see his son(but she's sneaky and a slut) When he's not with me I wonder if he calls her and what they talk about. Maybe its just me but thats how I feel. I Love him so much and we're having a child but I can't deal with this torture and hurt everyday. I want to leave him but i'm scared. (link)
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if shes still making those phone calls you could have her number blocked or call the police and file harassment. do what you think is right for you and your child. good luck
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Okay so whenever either I finger myself, if I put my finger in a little deeper, I feel like this hard ball thing ? Once when my boyfriend was doing the same, he actually said something about it. He was like "babe, what is that?" I was just wondering, this is normal right ? & what is it ? & you're suposed to be able to feel it. (link)
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if its all the way in the back, centered its normal. if not get it checked.
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Ok...so me and my boyfriend broke up (again) and i usually dont go through what im going through right now. For 5 days now i have cried every night for no reason, and i have got talor swift stuck in my head!! The song white horse, its not the best song to have inyour head during a breakup! it feels like i have been punched in the gut and my guts were ripped out.
please tell me how to get over this.
olie D=
14/f (link)
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youre only 14. theres more fish in the sea. you have plently of time to catch them.
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DO you think its ok for your boyfriend to have a girl "friend", where he went to her house ONCE,without your permission,and you never meet her before? (link)
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why not? she's a friend.
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I haven’t talked to this girl in 6 weeks and I want to say that I miss her.
The complication is that we dated for over 10 months and it's been almost 5 months since she left and I still care deeply about her.
There is a long story story behind all of this but it isn't entirely relevant. Basically we both had some personal problems and she decided to break things off. I didn’t take the break-up especially well either and did some things to push her away. (Small things like insisting that we talk about it right away)
As another note, saying to just move on is not helpful. I hear that enough from my family and friends. While it may be the easy thing to do from an outside perspective, I just cannot say goodbye to this girl completely. I believe very strongly that the two of us can work together, and quite frankly I still love her so there is nowhere to move on to for the time being. I can't search for something I have already found.
I was going to text or call her on the 4th of July but then I thought I should ask here first. Well, it's a few days after the 4th of July so I'm a little late in asking for advice, but everything is still relevant.
I don't want to upset her by any means and patience is always an option. If she is happy and I'm upset that is an acceptable circumstance at least for the time being. I really just want to let her know that I'm thinking about her and that my heart still longs for her without coming off as pushy.
She has asked for space, and even though it was a while ago I'd like to respect that so, just outright saying I miss you may not be the best option...
Any help is appreciated, Thanks. (link)
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if i were you, i'd flat out tell her. be honest. i think its cute when people are like that, maybe she's like that too.
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So to start I told my guy friend who I liked that I liked him, long story, it was awkward, but we're still friends, and we've barely, barely talked about the whole thing. And though we are friend we don't talk as much as I wish because I never know what to say and he's not a big conversation starter. But this past Friday I actually worked up the nerve to bbm (blackberry message for those of you who don't know) him for no reason just to talk, which is a big step up for me because I always feel like I need to have a reason to talk to guys I like because I'm paranoid and don't always know what to say I don't want to feel like I'm bothering them. The good thing is the conversation was way better than I expected, it wasn't the awkward convcersation I thought it would be and I could be wrong but it seemed like he was flirting a little. But anyway right now he's on a 2 week trip at a college and I'm planning on texting him again tomorrow after camp to ask how his trip is. But the problem is, I want to talk to him more and more, and get to the point where we talk daily or close to daily. And the conversation we had Friday wasn't too short, but it wasn't too long either, so I hope to have longer conversations. But me being paranoid isn't an easy thing to avoid. I don't want to feel like I'm bothering him or something but still want to start talking to him more and more, whether it's as friends or more than that. It's very possible that we may have classes together next year based on the schedules we chose but for all I know we can have none, and if that's to happen, I want to be able to talk to him a lot still. How often should I talk to him at first? What are some things I can say to ensure that I can keep the conversation going? How can I tell if he's getting annoyed by me (which he probably won't based on what his friends have said but I'm paranoid enough to think I'm an annoyance haha)? I just want to get to a point where we're talking more and more and I know I can't do it by sitting here hoping for it. I know I need to be more confident, but I just need some assurance about things. (link)
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hi! well im just like you. no matter who i'm texting i feel like im annoying them and all kinds of stuff, so generally i text my friends maybe 3 times a week. maybe you could start by texting your guy friend maybe every other day and talk about things that you know interest him, but dont be random about it. if he's annoyed with you he might take a really long time to reply and when he does reply its just a 'yeah', 'ok', 'whatever' kind of thing. Since i dont know your friend that might not be the case and he might not ever be annoyed with you. just ask him if you feel you need to. Honestly, dont be so paranoid. if he's really a good friend he wont care if you bother him a little bit and if he does he'll get over it. hope i helped a little? :)x
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Hi!! 13 1/2f
I just CAN'T find one!! My ex boy friend..is very confusing. See.. I still had feelings for him so I told him that I still liked him,( at that time he liked this other girl Reagon) he told me that he liked me to. I asked him..if he REALLY liked me and he told me he was dating Reagon, and he likes me as a friend.So..I asked him the other day what was up with him, and he said " yo whats up with you?? YOU GONE CRAZY. He's the one who's crazy..he takes me to the movies..so I thought he liked me..than he takes her. Whats up with that?? So, now I'm just trying to find the right guy..and im on summer break..and I'm not doing anything really.. my parents are always working.. the thing I mostly do is go to the park with my friend..and when I do guys check me out..lol..like it happens all the time, but I don't have the courage to go up and meet those guys.. I'm a shy . Ug..my friend says "Why are you acting like it's a BAD thing that you are single? The right guy will find you when the time is right." I think she's right but..it still makes me feel like there's something wrong with me if I don't have a boyfriend..I just feel left out. :/
Thanks for listening!!
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youre 13. im 15 and never held a boys hand. chill out, you have plenty of time to find someone, you wont be alone forever.
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my wife pressured me into a big mortage and many other fininical areas.I know it was my fault for saying yes, but i could not handle the rentless pressure.Now i have lost almost evreything i had even my will to succede.I love her but not in love.i feel she has taken advantage of my heart.now she is trying to fix it but i dont want her to. I am lost in life what should i do (link)
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yeah, you two should sit down. try and work things out with the mortage company and all other areas you're having problems with. ask your wife to help out! you live together, she should help support the household if youre in trouble.
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