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please help me !!
there is this boy i really really like at my school and he knows i like him but every time i speek to him on msn he never reply's how can i get him to like me? lots of people have said to just tell him how you feel about him but i am scared he will just laugh at me. wot should i do ?
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If you have talked to him and didn't get an answer, forget him. At least for now. Spilling your guts to him won't help anything and could just embarrass you. He isn't interested or he would have responded when you talked to him.
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the only problem is an i forgot to say this b4 is he already has a girl friend i think but im not sure if he is still with her and i dont wont to ask cause i might sound desprate
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Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
-Laura (17-f)
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to be honest hun, you should stop IMin him on msn. if he doesnt answer, thats a sign. just try to talk to him AT school because cyber stalkin is a little creepy. dont tell him how you feel if you dont talk to him often because that will creep him out as well. just take it slow and be his friend face to face.
x sweeethoney
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you should talk to him and get to know him more, when you arent at school talk to him on msn, but when you are at school talk to him in person. If he is into you and you are into him then he will let you know, just give it time :-)
Good Luck!!!!
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get to know him in real life, not over the computer. talk and be friendly. when you feel comfortable, tell him how you feel.
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