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he just dosen't seem to get the message
im a 13 yr old female and resently a 16 yr old male added me on msn we got talking and i found out he use to go to my school but finished this year. he keeps sending me texts saying i love you but hasn't actually asked me out yet i told a friend about this an she said to just tell him you are not intrested so i did but i dont think he got the message wot shall i do please help me on wot to say thanks :)
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You need to tell your parents right away, I'm pretty sure they'd care about their daughter being harassed by an older guy.
You know that he could be over 16, right? Have you actually seen him? If you haven't, he could be lying about his age. there are some digusting 30 year old men out there who talk to 13 yr olds like you, say "oh wow, I totally agree, come over to my place cuz I love you" and then you end up in the scariest place you would ever imagine, trust me.
Please, do yourself a favor and cut off ALL interaction with this guy. You don't need to be talking to him, and if you don't have feelings towards him it will make thing SO much easier.
Oh yeah and try not to fall for him unless you KNOW he's the age he says. this goes for anyone you meet online or by txt. I wish I didn't have to say that, but I'm afraid that upon the human race, naturally liars, that is what I have to say to keep one less girl from being deceived by a disgusting old man who likes young girls.
I really hope I helped, and please do not say I'm too late. Sorry if I sounded pushy, but this is a serious issue.
It was a good idea to ask what to do one this website, but next time remember to tell your mom or grandma or something first. :)
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I agree with the others that you should block him.
As far as what you should say to him, say nothing.
Just block him and forget him.
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You need to tell him straight up you don't see him like that. This time, say it a little bit more aggressively so that he'll understand.
If he still doesn't get the picture, tell him you're not interested in being his friend anymore and change your MSN & phone number. Or just block his number.
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There is no reason he should be saying I love you. You need to tell him straight that you dont like him as more than just friends, and that you dont think it is appropriate that he is saying he loves you. If this persists, you need to block him and tell you parents, that would be harrassment.
Good luck!!!
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