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f 17
my boyfriend and i went to a local concert and had a lot of fun, it was a really wonderful night.
he got a ride home with his friend and i drove myself home.
a few minutes after i got home he called me to tell me that his friend thought it would be funny to punch the gas while he was getting out of the car, so basically he fell and got his leg run over by one of the wheels and he says he has a purple gash on his leg now.
naturally i started freaking out, i mean he called me to tell me this and it sounds really serious. he said he could walk on it fine so i know it isn't broken. i started looking up how to treat leg wounds and asking him questions about it with legitimate genuine concern, and he keeps being like "relax chill it's ok it's not a big deal i'm fine it's gonna fine"
after a good 15 minutes of this back and fourth kind of talk i got really frustrated and upset so i was like "ugh. i have to go. bye." and he was like "oh, ok, bye"
but i'm still genuinely perturbed, this whole him not worrying thing happens all too frequently, but only with his own well-being. he worries about me a lot, but he never puts enough logical consideration into himself.
...am i just being a typical woman at this point? am i nagging? am i overreacting?
this specific incident aside, how can i influence him to take better care of himself, or at least take my worrying somewhat seriously? he doesn't eat much and when he does it isn't healthy, he's 17 and still hasn't gotten his driving permit, and he's been wearing just a thin sweatshirt jacket when it's genuinely freezing outside.
....am i just acting like his mom? how can i get him to take my concerns seriously and actually do something about them? (link)
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I think your actinf like a caring girlfriend. Talk to him and really let him know that you are worried about him and that the only reason why you are nagging at him is because you really care about him.. Good luck and much love!
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Thanku for your kind response..its has showed me that there are those who understand. Everytime I hear her voice my heart leaps for joy. The memories of her voice make me believe I`m the king of the world, but the harsh reality is that what matters is what she says. There has never been any indication that she truly loves me. If I believed that I may have let go, but I can`t believe that, as I knowin my heart she does not love me. The thought that there may be someone else destroys me. I can`t think or focus on anything. Death is a dream, a beautiful dream and it`s appeal has become like a lure into world without this pain. The pain just strikes and the memories come flooding back. I can no longer remember what she looks like. When I see her in my dreams and I wake up, it feels like my world has ended. These memories will kill me. How can you erase someone`s memory from your heart? You can`t, but you can erase the heart can`t you and the way to do that is killing yourself. I am scared to die, I am religious and know eternal damnation awaits me if i commit suicide, but ending the pain at this time outweighs that. My heart can`t take any more. I just an ordinary, bloke who for a few moments experienced the greatest of bliss, and know I can`t return to my ordinary life. I`m torn (link)
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Im kind of going threw the same thing right now. But just know that you can make it.. I know you can. Please do not end your life. You have more to live for. Everything happens for a reason. You are going to meet a girl that is going to blow your mind. There are more girls in the world. I really hope this has brought you some hope.
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What is the most painless way to commit suicide?....The only thought that provides any degree of solace to me is death. I do not want to live anymore, there is no other way to end the pain. I tried paracetamol in my 20`s (am in 30`s now) and they just pumped my stomach. I fell in love with a married woman (yes I know there was no future) but I just don`t wanna live as the memories are killing me. The memories and love wont go away, despite the fact that she cheated on me. So anyway I have high BP and am being monitored for my heart rate regularly by my Dcotor. I have not taken my prescrption for some time and thank goodness my BP level has risen again but this is not working. I have taken to smoking a shisha pipe as well, so my health is pretty bad right now but it`s taking too long. The thought of death is the only comfort available to me, dpoes anyone understand this? Please just recommend an easy an painless way to die as I am a complete an utter coward, have no career prospects and have no ambition. I am not mentally ill but just want to die. I pray to God every night to take me but thts not working either, so anyone got any advice on the most painless way to commit to kill myself? (link)
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Please do not kill yourself. I know what you going threw.. I know how it is to want to die and to just end all the pain. I know when you want to STOP all the pain death is a dream. But trust me you can make it threw this.. If I did, you can too. Please get help for your problems.. Im here for you whenever you need me. Good luck and much love!
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Okay so im 15/f, my boyfriend is 16/m. We just started dating and well he hasn't done anything besdies makeout. Ive been fingered and gave hj/bj. He knows that too and wants to do more with me. I think its going to be weird like we makeout alot but do i like have to tell him what to do, im pretty shure he has no idea what hes doing. any way to make this less akward? or shouold i tell him what to do?
Please help! (link)
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Maybe you can tell him what to do, but in a playin matter?
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alrightie.
so me and this kid like each other and everything is good until his best friend always seems to get in the way.
He always tells his best friend our personal buisness and then his best friend always gives me shit for it.
and the part that pisses me off the most is that when i confront either one of them about it theyre always like well we were just kidding you always get mad over little things. his best friend is always making fun of me and telling him not to like me im getting fed up with it.
his best friend is going to ruin things between us but i really like this kid! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. (link)
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You need to really sit down and tell your boyfriend that he need to stop telling you guys buisness. And that you feel that his bestfriend is coming between the two of you and you don't want that to happen. Tell him how much he mean to you and stuff. When he realizes that you really hate it when he does stufff like that he will stop. And if he doesnt that mean that he is not the right person for you if he doesnt care about your feelings in this matter. Good luck :)
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Okay, I'm a 20 yrs old and I adore a guy who is 30. ALSO, when I first met him I couldnt stand him to save his life. Well I've know him now for about 9 months now and CLEARLY these feelings came out of nowwhere for him. From what our co-workers say they all know that he likes me and I like him. (But I dont work there anymore) He dosen't act 30 (cause he still acts young, but is extremely responsible and truly push people to be the best that they can be) and I am 20, a college student who dosen't accept failure AT ALL but I am extremely mature. ANYHOW, I've noticed that when there was a full crew at work, he's quiet, reserved and keeps to himself, but when it's just me and him there at night, he talks to me and flirts with me and acts completely goofy. I was the manager of where we work and I used to get off of work late so just to ensure my safety he wouldn't leave until I am driving out the parking lot. But the thing is, it's like we look into eachothers eyes and there's both something we need to say but we dont know how. We've both been hurt really bad and we both are very try when it comes to this dating stuff. We had awesome chemistry and we are taking things very slow (which is good)... I'm already falling for him but I can't help it... I mean, when we're together, he always finds his way to stand close to me, and he touches me in non-provcative ways (like pokes my waists, and massages my shoulders), anything I ask him to do he does for me, he's a gentleman but isn't afraid to be himself around me... and I just truly appreciate him. He listens to me and asks me how I'm doin and always tells me to have a good night. What should I do? I mean what's holding us both back? The age difference? The race differences (cause I'm black and he's white)If I go for him, how do I get him to open up... like I text him to let him know I am thinking about him but he dosen't reply... I'm thinkin cause he's sooo shy. So please any advice, thoughts, feelings and emotions would be helpful to see whether I should pursue this him... (link)
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I think you should go for it girl! Life iz WAY to short to always wonder "Wow, I wonder what would have happen if me and him dated?" Take a chance and see where you guys end up. Remeber, everything happens for a reason. If it doesn't work out then atleast you know you tried it out. Good luck! :)
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