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I would like to have a boyfriend...
Hi!! 13 1/2f
I just CAN'T find one!! My ex boy friend..is very confusing. See.. I still had feelings for him so I told him that I still liked him,( at that time he liked this other girl Reagon) he told me that he liked me to. I asked him..if he REALLY liked me and he told me he was dating Reagon, and he likes me as a friend.So..I asked him the other day what was up with him, and he said " yo whats up with you?? YOU GONE CRAZY. He's the one who's crazy..he takes me to the movies..so I thought he liked me..than he takes her. Whats up with that?? So, now I'm just trying to find the right guy..and im on summer break..and I'm not doing anything really.. my parents are always working.. the thing I mostly do is go to the park with my friend..and when I do guys check me out..lol..like it happens all the time, but I don't have the courage to go up and meet those guys.. I'm a shy . Ug..my friend says "Why are you acting like it's a BAD thing that you are single? The right guy will find you when the time is right." I think she's right but..it still makes me feel like there's something wrong with me if I don't have a boyfriend..I just feel left out. :/
Thanks for listening!!
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Hey there =)
okay first off forget about the ex, honestly he will do you no good messing you about like that Espicially since he has a gf,hes just loving the attention dont give him it.
next to the issue of a boyfriend,
every girl feels like this from time to time so your not alone =)
i alwayss feel like it too so i can relate trust me, but your friend IS right,and after all you are only 13 you have so much time to find a guy and you shouldnt feel like you need one or must have one to be happy.
when talking to guys just be yourself and act as normal as you would around any other girl friend relax and just talk to them,flirt compliment them etc make convirsation =)
Make sure you don't come off as desperate to have a boyfriend honestly its not a good way to percieve yourself,definately dont feel like you have to have boyfriend because friends have one too.
get one when your ready,and for the right reasons and because YOU want to.
all of us get shy and nervous around guys just take a deep breath count to 3 and go right im going to talk to him if you see a guy you like =)
keep busy with your girlfriends go shopping keep going to the park do fun things go to the movies places where you might potentionally run into guys,dont go out set on finding one thats when one always seems to find you =)
Good luck,hope I helped
Much <3
Jess [15/f]
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youre 13. im 15 and never held a boys hand. chill out, you have plenty of time to find someone, you wont be alone forever.
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