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ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.
should i give up or should i just wait it out? (link)
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I would wait it out for a while, don't try to break up him and his girl, of course. He might end up hating you for it. But then, if you find someone knew (on vacation or something) don't be afraid to fall for them. Try to keep your friendship close, though!
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My ex who is now single again says he is better of being single because girls parents are always racist. I don't know what to say to him but I feel bad because hes really sad and stuff. How could I tell him that I still care and wanna be with him? Because he says he only gets respect by the sports he plays but thats wrong. I rate high. (link)
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Tell him you respect him for the sports he plays, but you also respect him because of the type of guy he is. And tell him your parents aren't racist. Because that's probably a hard thing for him to deal with thinking about.
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15/f--my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time but the other day i was at his house and his mom came upstairs and saw us coming out of his room (we were looking at yearbooks) and she freaked out and thinks we're having sex even though i'm not anywhere near ready to do that, and she won't even let us watch tv without someone else in the room. she used to like me a lot, how can i get her to trust me/us again?!? (link)
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Talk to her, without your boyfriend around, probably, about why you aren't ready to have sex and you really wish she could trust you again. Confronting the problem might seem weird, but there's nothing else that could help as much.
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Ok, i found out my boyfriend may have been doing drugs. he told my friend he did but im hopeing he didnt he told me he didnt dot hings like that.im trying to figure out how to talk to him about this but im not sure how to.
(Erin if you can help me talk to him or holly please do) (link)
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I'd ask him just plainly, i'm worried about you, and then ask. It's important for you to find out.
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Ok, I have asked a question like this before, but I need some help again. I have a friend and we have gotten alot closer this year than we were last year. (not like in a relationship or anything). I really like her (as a friend) and i feel like i can talk to her about anything, but she doesn't talk to me that much at school. She talks to me online and on the phone and stuff, but in school she doesn't really talk to me that much. Sometimes it makes me think that she doesn't really like me that much. Should I talk to her about it or just let it go and live with it? (link)
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I had a situation just like that, I let it go. It worked out fine, we actually talk all the time at school now. I think it's just getting comfortable at different stages as friends.
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So, there's this gurl that im taking to prom, but she say's that it's just as friends, I don't understand why it can't be more, she is so flirty everytime we hang out, superbowl night she held my hand, and gave me a back rub, and I gave her one, but all she wants to be is friends?? I think she is going through a rough time, this guy lived with her family while he was getting sober, he lived there for 2 months and has been gone now for 2 months and I think she is having a hard time with that, Im not sure how much she liked him though, soo, just help, tell me what you think, and what I should do. thanx (link)
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If she wants to be friends, leave it at that, if you push her it won't go well. Some girls are just flirty. But if you guys have a great time at prom, she might see things differently. Leave things open (try not to make her 'jelous' or something by flirting with other girls) and things could change.
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Okay, so I have this boyfriend and just the other night I told him that I feel as if I love him, so he said he thought he loved me too. Last night at this concert had had me call his ex-girlfriend that is having his kid and had me bitch her out but not to say he was with me. Well, she told me that he had called her earlier that day and told her that he still loved her and missed her. He said he was at work from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. went home took a shower and came and picked me up. Is she lieing or is he? I'm confused. I just want to know if he is sounds like a cheater because I don't want to get heartbroken because I'm really into this boy, he's the nicest boy I've ever met. Can someone that knows about these kind of boys let me know what they think because I'm scared! (link)
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You might see him as really nice, but the problem is, why would he have you bitch out his ex? That's not a very cool thing. And he's the father of her child? I think you might want to break it off, because it seems like if history repeats itself, and if you guys do end up breaking it off, it's going to keep hurting, especially if he has his other girlfriend call and bitch you out... You shouldn't put yourself through that kind of deleberate pain.
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Ok, So I met this chick, and fell madly in love with her, but she didnt feel the same, so I had to work on her.. Finally we started going out, but it felt forced, and I told her this, so now she is acting all lovy dovy, like she actually fell in love with me.
But the problem is, with all the coldness she showed toward me.. I no longer love her, I only like as friends, IF that.. so I really dont know what to do, I don't want to hurt her, but I also dont want to be in a relationship with her.. Please Help me!
She sent me an email saying she seriously thought about breaking it off with me, and she was going to, till I finished work, and she realised how much she loved me.. but I'm not who I used to be around her, I don't miss her any more, I don't want to kiss her any more.. HELP! (link)
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Break up. If you feel so many mixed feelings tell her you can't deal with all of this everyday. And maybe you guys can be friends later on or something. But if you don't love her anymore, then you shouldn't lead her on by keeping things going.
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ok, so theres this guy at my school who has a girlfriend of ten months...long time...i know...but he ALWAYS flirts with me...ALWAYS....everyone can tell we like eachother and hes not the player/cheater type but i dont really think he wants to be with his gf anymore. shes really ugly (not to be mean) and im way prettier than her..i dont mean to sound like a bitch but its true....but our class is going on this trip to a camp next monday (v-day)...shes not going...and the trip is 2hrs away and were taking a charter bus...and he was like "oh wanna sit with me on the bus" and its the kind of trip where everyone is bringin their pillow n blanket on the bus...so i dont know whats gonna happen...and we have this assignment to do friday and he was like OH DO U WANNA BE MY PARTNER?? and he always comes over to my desk and like plays w/my hand or something..hes just flirty....does it sound like he likes me? do you think anything will happen on the bus?? (link)
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He might like you, but then again, he might still have mixed feelings just because he still has his girlfriend. I would see if he breaks up with her. And then, if he doesn't and he still flirts with you, ask him what's going on with his girlfriend. Don't want to get in a cat fight that can be stopped.
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hey well me and my g/f have been goin out for like 5 months and i dont kno wat to get her for valentines day..i got herr a bear and a heart necklace already for x-mas ...plz help..
i rate high... (link)
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Maybe a rose and a cute heart shaped chocolate? Or a bracelete.
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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall! (link)
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You can date, but if you guys have sex and your parents or something find out and they aren't happy about it, or later you regret it: it could hold up in court as rape. So just be careful, and don't push him, because he's the one that could get in trouble for it.
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there's this guy i like but all my friends sort of think he's ugly. i really don't know what to think about how good he looks. anyways he like gives me mixed signals and sometimes acts like a jerk. i am way too scared to tell him i like him cause i know he doesn't like me. what should i do? i really am desperate. i have to say i'm in junior high and haven't dated once. (link)
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Don't go for a guy that treats you sorta mean some times because you're desperate. You'll do better. If your friends think he's ugly but you don't think so, it's not a big deal. They don't have to date him if they don't like his looks. But if he cuts the cruel act, go for it.
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ok i have a girlfriend and i think she's cheating on me with my best friend but she said she has no idea what i'm talking about!!!! and her best friend said she's dumping me on valentines day,and he best friend she is really cute.but i'm dumping my girlfriend.SHould i ask the really cute girl out and should i give her the valentines day present i rate high so help (link)
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If you don't trust her: dump her. It's not worth it! But don't go for her friend, adding insult to injury until you're sure the friend isn't talking trash about her 'friend' to try to get you. Once your sure (if that happens tomorrow or something) don't rush to her. Give it a bit of time.
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my boyfriend is so attached to me. he walks me to every class he sits with me everyday at lunch andtalks to me on tehphone every night. How am i supposed to miss him if hes always there with me.What can i do to make him not so attached to me? I want to be happy and excited when i see him. (link)
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Tell him exactly what you just typed: how are you supposed to miss him if he's always there? You really like him, but a tiny bit of space is cool too!
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Alright, theres this guy and we were talking and i was like what are you doing this weekend? and he was like nothing.. then he was like you? i was like nothing.. then i was like do you wanna do something this weekend? he was like yeah sure! so we are going to the movies and we are inviting friends and all but.. he seems like his is into me and stuff but on his profile it says "looking for a valentine" i mean hes always like i cant wait to go to the movies so i can hold your hand or i cant wait to go to the movies so i can kiss you and stuff.. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!??! (link)
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He could have forgotten to change it so it doesn't read Looking for a valentine. But if you feel uncomfortable: ask him.
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I think I'm in love with my guy friend. He's really shy though, so it's hard to know if he likes me back, but I'm pretty sure he does, because of the way he acts sometimes. Anyway, I asked him today if he still liked his ex from a while back (just to see because they're still friends) and he gave me a deffinate "no" and after that kind of hung around wherever I was. I'm thinking about asking him tomorrow if he wants to exchange gifts or something on Valentine's day? Should I? and if so, what should I get him, and how do I let him know that I REALLY like him? (sry this is long, but I am SO lost!) (link)
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If you think he likes you, go for it. Don't push the Valentines thing with him, because in all honesty: it might be better to start things off an a day without all the pressure of Vday. Giving someone something doesn't express how much you love them (unless it's an engagement ring) so write him a poem or a card or something and try a box of whatever candy he likes.
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13-M----OK my problem is that im not gonna have
n e 1 for valentines day! this may not seem so big to everyone else but my new years resolution was to get a real g/f by then. Im not extremly unpopular, its just everyone thinks im wierd. so someone halp me find a resolution for this! (link)
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If it's your resolution: you still have 10 months! I woudlnt' stress about it. When you find someone (single) that you really like, ask them when you want to. Not just because it's Valentines day.
Hm, too much of a wuss? I'm sorry. Start off being friends, then it might be easier to talk to her. It's not very cool when you get asked out by someone for someone else.
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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow? (link)
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Nope, but if you want to kiss him: you start it.
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ook well i'm a 14/f and i've been really confused about this guy .. i used to like him for a LONG time but i finally got over him cuz he never wanted to go out with me and anywayss .. lately hes been sittin on the bus with me and like lying on my lap .. lol & the other day he started tickling me and held my hand the rest of the bus ride home .. soo the next day he acted like nuthin happend and today he sat with this girl that likes him .. so i'm not sure if hes just being a flirt or what ??? can someone give me some suggestion .. thanx ! (link)
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See how he acts tomorrow: flirting, or just acting like nothing happened. If he acts like nothing happened again, he may have just been flirting. If sitting with the girl that liked him was a one time event: he may just see her as a friend.
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i feel so bad because i never had a boyfriend before. im 15 and ive never had my first kiss, my first time or a boyfriend. nothings wrong with me, some guys have asked me out but i think im just scared of them. i like to flirt a lot, but just flirting is cool with me. there was this one guy that liked me and i liked him and he asked me out and i turned him down but i feel like a jerk for doing that. and everytime i like somebody theyll start to like somebody else and i would try to be friends with there girlfriend so i could feel closer to them. and i just feel like crying on every valentines day because i have no one specail to share it with. and i never told anyone, not even my friends. they don't know. and i never tell my mom anything like this. im afraid theyll laugh at me. and i dont know what to do. (link)
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I think you're be scared of commitment. Which isn't really a bad thing, just something hard to work through. Flirting's easy. I'd say find someone that you like, not just someone who likes you, and try being friends first. If they have a girlfriend, I'd keep looking, though. Don't worry about not having someone to share Vday with, go to a party with your friends from a different school, you might meet someone there.
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