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Im 28 yrs old female. Everytime my bf leaves (we dont live together he lives outta town) he gives me a big hug and a kiss on my forehead on my lips only once in a while. I want to know if this is a good thing, or if this is a bad thing. Hes not one to show his feelings, he loves to cuddle in bed and when we go dancing he'll hold me in front of him and dance with me. I dont know how to read him sometimes!!!!!
sincerely
confused (link)
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I don't see a kiss on the forehead as a bad thing...my boyfriend always does that to me...its like a comforting thing in a way. I don't know how to explain it...if that is the only way your b/f kisses you then maybe you should talk to him about it...otherwise it should be fine! :)
good luck
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How do you know whether a boy actually really likes you or just wants to have sex with you? (link)
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Ok I think that if he is willing to wait for sex because you aren't comfortable with doing that currently then most likely he is a good boyfriend. He should still stick around even if you said...well i'd like to wait til marriage or til im this old or whenever YOU are ready.
Its just that understanding that should be in between you too.
hope i helped
*twizz
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okay , so my boyfriend && i have been together for almost 4 months . i love him , really , i do . the only thing i don`t like about him is that he does pot . he says he hasn`t done it for like 2 months. but my friends keep telling me "i wouldn`t go out with someone that does drugs , but thats just me" idk what to do because i really like him , but not sure if i wan`t to keep seeing someone that does pot . and btw : he knows i know that he does pot . what should i do ? should i let it all go to waste & break up with be because of pot ?
uhg , (link)
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Personally, I dont think dating someone who does drugs or pot would be the type to date, especially if you're someone who wants to stay away from it.I know that just because he does pot it doesnt make him a bad b/f or anything but it could change/influence you & i dont think ur friends or family would want that(b/c its not a good change). Therefore,you should consider talking to him about it & tryna help him stop. Let him know you care & you'll be there to help him. If he ever tries to force you to do pot or doesnt care about ur concern for him, i dont think he's that valuable of a b/f(even if you do love him & im sorry the truth hurts)...but thats just what i personally think...if i was in your situation ya know?
Well best of luck--Hope I helped
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I'm 15/female.
I am not an experienced kisser.
I am dating someone who is.
Is kissing/making out something that just comes naturally and I'll get used to it right away?
Or is there a lot more to it? (link)
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Over the summer i experienced the same problem & i was soooooo nervous so i know how you feel.
I was worried it wouldn't kiss right or it wouldn't be good and I would just look stupid.
But in the end I just stayed calm & like it does for most people...it came naturally.
Just don't be nervous because that causes you to tense and flip out about the situation.
Good Luck!
hope I helped!
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hey iam sally well i have a bf and i love him more than myself and iam the kind of person if ihave a bf i make him all my life anyway i have a problem i think of him very day every hour every minute every second.when iam eating when iam out when iam sleeping i just cant get him out of my mind how can i just keep going with him but not think of him that much. and is it normal??? thanks and ill love to hear from all of you!! (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. Because I am experiencing those feelings too. You feel as if you'd do just about anything for this person, just to see them happy. Anyways this is what i always say: it is better to love than to not love. Sure loving someone this much may seem obsessive(trust me, i've thought i was obsessive many times). Just try to keep yourself busy if you wanna keep the thinking about him to a minimum. You know do things that involve a lot of concentration. Also, be sure to stay on your toes. Hopefully this guy loves you back & all that because you don't want to be stuck in the situation i'm at. But yea good luck, if you got any questions you can message me & ill try my best.
hope i helped
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Hey. I'm 13/m and I accept none of that "teenagers don't know love" crap. Maybe most teenagers don't, but I'm not most teenagers. I had a friend from science class. Long story short, over the summer, I realized that I loved her, I told her, she didn't love me back, I experienced The Void, and pretty much every new true emotion, I couldn't get her out of my head, and then when school started, things were awkward. I can't think of any other way to describe it. It just felt awkward. Anyway, I talked to her about that yesterday, and she agreed. So now we just forgot anything ever happened and we're back as regular friends now. I had felt like crap for a really long time, and I seemed to screw absolutely everything up. Well, now that all this pressure is off of me, I feel a lot better and I'm back to my regular happy goofy self again. Which is good. Except I feel strangely empty inside. Just a tiny pit of blackness in my happy heart. It feels nothing like The Void at all. Just... emptiness. Why? What is it? What's all this about? Thanks in advance...
By the way, here are my standards on your answers: I will NOT always rate a 5, I will rate whatever I find appropriate. I will not always rate anyway, but I will try. I will not hesitate to give you a 1 or report you, I have been responsible for a number of permanent bans. So no smartass answers. And just a matter of personal interest, try to use proper grammar. Please. (link)
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Sorry if i dont use proper grammar, because when I type a lot and i type fast and it is not a "formal document" i don't do it, hope it doesn't bother you but I will try to avoid it.
Anyways - I think I understand the feeling you have because in a way i felt it for a bit. Like you are missing something, this something is probably that love you had for your friend, even though you said you were back to just being friends and stuff. You may just still have a little bit of that feeling in your heart for her to answer that part, even if you think its gone. Sometimes telling yourself that "that feeling" is gone isnt right, because your heart still feels "that feeling", if that makes sense. Basically what I am saying is you can't tell your heart to feel a certain way, it just feels it anyways. You just have to give your heart time to move on and accept things, its difficult but if your friend doesnt like you like that...then you gotta try to move on. good luck and hope i helped!
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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am. (link)
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As long as you are mature enough and you are POSTIVE what you are feeling is real, then you are in love. If your heart feels so strongly about the person you are in love with and you can only think about them, then you are in love especially after 4 years. Great job with that!! Right now i am experiencing that feeling(i am almost 16) and i kept TELLING myself "i cant be in love or have these feelings yet" but you can't TELL yourself that--your heart just automatically does it. i hope this helped. and Good luck with the rest of your love life!
*twizz
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today is me and my boyfriends 3 month anversery except today i feel like shit..i have only got to see him 3 times because i live 20 miles away from here and since i am not supposed to have a boyfriend until i am 16. (i am 14).. i feel like my friends are keeping me away from him because they think i can do better then him. except my friends judge him by his looks and not his personality which gets on my nerves. i feel like just because i meet a guy that i like alot they try pushin me away from him. one of my friends doesnt like him because he black. and another everytime i ask her to go with me on the bus(she noes how to use it) will say yes for sure and then always last minute says NO..i dont know what to do.. can someone please help me out. and i want to go to the hunted hotel with him because my best friend is goin and i am supposed to go wit her except she wont take me if he shows up..any advice would be apperaited and i will rate ALL answers. (link)
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--to answer you question about friends before boyfriends in the feedback you left me...
Yes your friends are VERY important don't ever just put them aside because of guy when they were there for you all along thats not respectful. But a friend will also support their other friends decisions(if they are smart ones--not if they are deciding to do drugs-then you shouldn't support them), so therefore your friends have to play a part in this. They have to first get to know your boyfriend and see what he is like. Obviously there are reasons he is your boyfriend or you wouldnt be going out with him--maybe right now they dont see those qualities he has but you have to open their minds up. But yes you are very right, don't ditch your friends for your boyfriend but dont throw away something that makes you happy because your friends are being close minded. i hope this helped again!!
*twizz
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First of all girl, you shouldnt worry too much about what your friends think. I mean yes it is important to be straight with your friends and all but they can't change how you feel for someone. Your situation is kind of like mine. The person i have feelings for lives STATES away from me, and we are different races. I think your friends just judging him before they even get to know him shows that they are iggnorant and rude. They may not want to let go of you because they might think that you will ONLY hang out with your boyfriend(which also isnt cool--so make sure you dont do that). Anyways about your friend not liking him because he is black is just plain out stupid, there is nothing wrong with interracial relationships if you are happy with the person, don't let people tell you different. Tell your friends that they should get to know your boyfriend first before they start to make remarks and judgements about him. Don't change because of them,they need to learn to accept your situation. I hope this helped and good luck with your friends and the guy!!!
*twizz
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I realllllly like this guy named Ryan.. I've liked him since last year.. but anyway I cant stop thinking about him i keep dreaming about him and i always shake when im around him and it hurts to the point where i don't wanna live without him and I know he doesnt like me but I can't help it... what should i do? (link)
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ok in middle school i was almost the same way...just not as dramatic. I liked this one guy for like a little over a year and now i totally regret it because back then i was just HOPING he would like me and not making a move about it. so i would always be sad to kno he didnt like me. i say there are pretty much two ways to basically go with it....
1.)somehow tell him how you feel bout him, get one of your friends to help you,write a note---just dont be cheesy. Personally I wouldnt be able to do that unless i had more confidence, depends on how brave you are towards this situation
2.)Just move on--really liking someone that long and thinking they won't like you back is a WASTE OF TIME!! trust me!! i feel so stupid for ever even liking the kid i did in middle school. There are plenty of people out there and you could find one just the same as him except this person could like you back even if you don't think they'll be like him...i don't think its worth it to just "wait around" hoping he is going to like you, unless you make a move to show him you like him and see his reaction.
i hope i helped and good luck!!
*twizz
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I'm 14, and a sophmore. I will be 15 soon, I just have a late birthday. I've done stuff with guys like making out and all because all my boyfriends are always older than me. Like almost everyone in my grade has had sex, done drugs, drinks, stuff like that. Well I just got drunk for the first time the other night, and im still a virgin. Everyone is telling me I shouldnt still be a virgin. Like my sisters friend is 19 and he told me that its normal to lose it when your in highschool. I'm so scared to have sex though because what if it hurts, or I get pregnant, stuff like that ya know? I dont know anything about it either, well I do but I dont know any movements and stuff. Theres this guy whose 18 and I have dated him 2 times, we went to prom and everything and he is a really good friend, when I got drunk everyone told me I was saying that I think I love him. I didnt even know I did. We might get back together because he keeps telling everyone he likes me alot. He calls me and everything so yea. If we did go back out and dated for a long time, would it be alright to have sex? And no im not a geek or ugly or anything lol. Just scared of what's going to happen!
Thanx (link)
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You are still young, don't rush into LIFETIME expereiences that may affect the rest of your life. I am 15 and i have already promised my self to wait till marriage. A lot of guys(even though this sounds weird) will respect you for that fact that you remained to stay a virgin until marriage. It shows you have a lot of self control,respect for yourself, and that you are smart. WHO CARES IF EVERYONE in your school is having sex,drugs,alchol. They are going to regret it. As for you, don't start to mess up your future by drinking and getting drunk. As you said "I was saying I think I love him. I didn't even know I did", what if you did something you wouldn't do while you were sober. You would really regret it. And if your boyfriend or this guy that is 18 is wanting to have sex with you, that's stupid. Soon you'll he won't be a minor anymore and it'll be illegal. Trust me just wait...it's worth it.
Good Luck--hope i helped
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Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????
Thanx (link)
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If you are comfortable asking a guy out--go for it. But if you think you'll freak out and make a fool of yourself-dont do it. Just make sure whatever choice you pick-it's the correct one. If you don't want to ask him out, try giving him signs that you like him. i hope i helped
*good luck *twizz
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ok well i liked this kid, we'll call him fred, :P well, anyway my friend, we'll call her megan, was always up on him when i liked him. well i stopped liking him and she laid off. and the other day she told me she likes him, so i went up and told him cuz she asked me to, and hes like, yeh thats cool, but i like you again. and i was like woh ok? so i was hanging around him alot and stuff, and then today "megan" was like, i cant believe ur nosing around my guy. and i was like, WOAH OK FIRST OF ALL, and i told her what she'd been doing, and she was like, well atleast he liked me! and i was like, ok no he didnt, and he likes me. and she was like, yeah right i doubt it, so i went up to him and askedh im and he said yeh and now shes all pissed at me, and its not my fault. (link)
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Friends always do this-no matter what theres always that jealousy deep down inside, its a natural feeling. You shouldn't let something like this get in between you and your friend. Just let things happen, if he asks you out then there is your answer if he asks your friend out there is also your answer(if that makes sense). If he does like one of you more im sure he'll tell you or ask you out. For your friend---just give her time, and if this "fred" does like you instead of your friend, then make sure your friend knows that you still appreciate her. i hope i helped. Good luck *Loretta
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...a LOT. He says he likes me too, but he hasn't asked me out yet. I don't know if I should bring it up again, or ask him out, or what. I don't know if he would go out with me if I asked. What should I do? (link)
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if u know definately he lyks u...then bring it up or heck yeah ask him out. sometimes its hard to ask someone out wen u dont know if they will lyk u or not..but if u know this guy likes you-then u shudnt b worried..maybe he's just nervous..hope i helped
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ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot
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whenever he says something lyk "boo-boo" or babygirl say this" i dont have a problem with u say that but i do have a question..y do u call me that...??" then if that doesnt answer ur question just b lyk after he says babygirl or whatever..then ask him "are we going out" he probably will say ya i guess or something lyk that.. he shudn't really be shy about it if he calls u those names..if ya get me! hope this helps a bit..
Twizzler
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Omg,there is this gurl in class n shes n Indian n I really really like her.Can anyone tell me how Indian chicks are?I havent spoken to her in 4 years? (link)
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y does it matter if she is Indian...she is prolly just lyk anyone else..just a different culture!! u shud just go talk to her and ask how things are doing and stuff. She is a normal person!!!
hope this helps
Twizzler
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Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do? (link)
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just tell ur parents that u will take the other person to skool but u dont want to get into a relationship with him and if they cud respect that fact..that u wud respect them more...just act all nice to ur parents..they love it wen u do!! so just kinda make a Deal!!! hope it helps
Twizzler
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I can't stop crying... 2 more hours until my baby leaves for the Navy... I just want to get strong again and STOP crying. I have cried so much that its starting to hurt the rest of my body. I have heard the figurative phrase saying 'her heart hurts.' But I never knew that this would literally hurt my heart... If anyone has any advice or anything... I just don't know how to pull myself together... (link)
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ok well think of how good of a thing ur boyfriend is doing for ur other people!! Now u can be proud and say "my boyfriend is in the Navy-helping others" You shud b proud i know its sad..but keep in touch with him with letters and stuff!!Think positive even if its hard!! hope i helped
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Ok well my boyfriend thinks that I dont have enough time to spend with him because I play so many sports. I am on a softball traveling team. Varsity cheerleading. Varsity vollyball. Dance. Gymnastics. Basketball. Swim team and tennis. I dont want to give any of them up with it being my senior year but i am always at practice and i do come see him in between practices and when im not doing anything. I pretty much see him when i need to be sleeping. and he told me today that he thinks that we might break up if i dont give up something. I dont think that is right...We have been together for 6 years...since the seventh grade. And now we are seniors. What should I do???
Thanks...Hotblonde123 (link)
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tell him that he should come to ur games and practices. That way u can enjoy both. It seems lyk a serious relationship u have with him...6 years! Maybe on the weekends u 2 cud get together..whenever u have free time and ur not busy. Tell him that those sports mean a lot to u and that he means a lot to u too. So just try to get him to go along with it. But it looks lyk u got ur hands full-u do wat u think is right. I dont think all those sports last year long..so ya!! i hope i helped!!
Twizzler
oo that is great u guys are going to dinner tonite!! i hpe everything works out.
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im not sure what to do i dumped my boyfriend for some1 who liked me alot and asked me out so im going out with the person i dumped my ex for and now im starting to like my ex boyfriend more then my boyfriend now im so confused idk what to do i dont want to dump my boyfriend for my exboyfriend that i dumped i'de feel wicket bad for my boyfriend now IDK what to do please help me!
signed...confused (link)
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if your really like ur ex then u shud break up with the person who you are currently dating. And for your ex to take you back tell him that you really think it was a mistake that u dumped him and that u understand if he doesnt take you back. But tell him u really like him still. hope i helped
Twizzler
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ok my and this guy are in love .... we both have told each other and everything but he hasnt asked me out .... i think its becuase hes afraid to get hurt like he did with his last g/f but i dunno .... i love him so much .... its pathetic we fight over who loves the other and everything ... i met him online and have not met him in person .... but we are planning to meet when we get older .... we are 15 .... and dont say thats to young to love becuase if you have ever loved you would know you can love at any age technically (sp?) can someone help me with him .... and i aint askin him out (i rate) (link)
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ok-first of all u wanna make sure this isnt some sicko online who meets up with girls and kills or abuses them..hopefully this guy isnt. But since he probably isnt then u shud tell him that you wont hurt him and if u ever do leave him that you wouldnt break his heart. And that you will always love him even if u did split up(after u went out). You should tell him that it seems it was destined that u 2 met online-make him think u really wanna go out with him..i wud say the other choice is ask out..but u dont wanna. but if after a month or so...u mite wanna. hope i helped-good luck
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