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confussed and sad...
today is me and my boyfriends 3 month anversery except today i feel like shit..i have only got to see him 3 times because i live 20 miles away from here and since i am not supposed to have a boyfriend until i am 16. (i am 14).. i feel like my friends are keeping me away from him because they think i can do better then him. except my friends judge him by his looks and not his personality which gets on my nerves. i feel like just because i meet a guy that i like alot they try pushin me away from him. one of my friends doesnt like him because he black. and another everytime i ask her to go with me on the bus(she noes how to use it) will say yes for sure and then always last minute says NO..i dont know what to do.. can someone please help me out. and i want to go to the hunted hotel with him because my best friend is goin and i am supposed to go wit her except she wont take me if he shows up..any advice would be apperaited and i will rate ALL answers.
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--to answer you question about friends before boyfriends in the feedback you left me...
Yes your friends are VERY important don't ever just put them aside because of guy when they were there for you all along thats not respectful. But a friend will also support their other friends decisions(if they are smart ones--not if they are deciding to do drugs-then you shouldn't support them), so therefore your friends have to play a part in this. They have to first get to know your boyfriend and see what he is like. Obviously there are reasons he is your boyfriend or you wouldnt be going out with him--maybe right now they dont see those qualities he has but you have to open their minds up. But yes you are very right, don't ditch your friends for your boyfriend but dont throw away something that makes you happy because your friends are being close minded. i hope this helped again!!
*twizz
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First of all girl, you shouldnt worry too much about what your friends think. I mean yes it is important to be straight with your friends and all but they can't change how you feel for someone. Your situation is kind of like mine. The person i have feelings for lives STATES away from me, and we are different races. I think your friends just judging him before they even get to know him shows that they are iggnorant and rude. They may not want to let go of you because they might think that you will ONLY hang out with your boyfriend(which also isnt cool--so make sure you dont do that). Anyways about your friend not liking him because he is black is just plain out stupid, there is nothing wrong with interracial relationships if you are happy with the person, don't let people tell you different. Tell your friends that they should get to know your boyfriend first before they start to make remarks and judgements about him. Don't change because of them,they need to learn to accept your situation. I hope this helped and good luck with your friends and the guy!!!
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I have a question, why do your friends loathe this guy so much? I understand it's frustrating living far from the guy your with, but it also does help keep it romantic don't you think? As for your friends pushing you away from him, don't let them tell them it's your relationship not theirs and that you really care about this guy and you're not going to let them keep you away from him. If they are real friends they should respect that they have no part in your relationship and that all in all you get to decide what goes down. If they don't respect it don't worry about it they're not worth the frustration and anger. If this guy makes you happy then it sounds like that's just what you need. Hope I helped.
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