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ive liked this one guy FOR FOREVER. like for about 6 months... or maybe more now. and weve been good friends for a while but now he has a gf and its like really not the same at all. and i dont know how i should act around him b/c i like still totally like him but like i cant act like it because his gf is one of my good friends... should i act the same or try to avoid him more??
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def. dont avoid him, because you like him so it wouldnt do you any good..so i recommend acting the same. if the same is miss flirty then i would stay away from that since you mentioned his gf was one of your good friends. this might seem hard, but just wait awhile until theyre not going out any more. when that comes feel free to flirt and drop hints.. i mean he is free!!

good luck hun
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hey, im a guy and im fourteen and ive never made out with anyone. I've kissed plenty of girls but with no tongue. Is it wierd to be a guy and this age and have not made out with anyone?

no not at all. even though people have done so much at 14..and even younger.., that doesnt mean you have to too. different things happen to people at different ages so just chill. it'll happen to you..;-)

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im having a bit of a dryspell when it comes to relationships. i really want a commited girlfriend but girls arent as interested in me anymore. what can i do to get back on track?

aww! you cant really say theyre not interested..because there is no way of knowing. they could be totally into you & not tell you, but for your question just dont really worry about it. having a girlfriend is not the most important thing even though it might seem like it. just be yourself and the you will def. attract the right girl for you. but it might help a little if you liked someone that you flirt with them and give them hints to break the "dry spell"

good luck

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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

there isnt really a difference..theyre pretty much the same. the only thing that pops out thats different to me is just that dating sounds more like a commited thing but really they are the same!

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yea i just read the question on the person that has never kissed somebody and i really need to. but ive never been one of those movies / dates kind of person. i need to kiss someone though because i am 14 and everybody has. theres this guy i like, but i dont really want to kiss him, but i do just to be able to

nooo dont rush! if youre just gonna kiss him for the sake of kissing him--thats not really romantic. wait for the right guy and it will be all perfect! i mean be my guest, go on and kiss some random person just because everyone else is kissing people...go ahead. but if you want a kiss that really means something, wait for someone you like a whole lot. haha =) good luck

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I was searching through some xangas and I came across this girl that I'm not too fond of. I stopped to look at all the pictures she had thinking it might be pretty funny. I found multiple pictures of this girl, with my boyfriend on his bed. Nothing sexual, I think, but the fact I'M not even allowed in his room let alone his BED kinda ticked me off. Am I wrong to be upset that he had a girl that EVERYONE knows is basically a slut on his bed with him?

no you are toteli not wrong! i would go up to your bf and just ask him what that was all about. dont make it too big of a scene because you know nothing wasgoing on (or atleast ask). BOTTOM LINE: you have every right to be mad...but i would just ask whats up!

good luck..
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this may sound sad beecuz im in 9th grade
i try really hard to get guys to like me...they never do...they sometimes tell me i'm weird...because im not really good at flirting...please help

You cant make guys like you, they just have to like you on their own. It may help though if you are really nice to them and just be yourself. If you like a guy, just make sure youre not all shy about it, flirt with him and just make jokes, be nice, whatever. if he sees that you are interested in being his friend or more he will definitely respond positively!

hope i helped..good luck hun
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There is this guy i really, really like. i slow danced with him at the school dance. i asked him out about a week later b/c he was to shy. he said maybe. some of my friends are saying he says he is going to say yes and some of my friends are saying ohh no he doesn't like u. How can i get him to say yes? and What should i do about the other girls that like him?

you cant really make him say yes...sorryi know it sucks. just be yourself and be nice and all that. he probably likes you, even if its a little bit because if i liked someone i wouldnt slow dance with them! but idk...just be especially nice to him. about the other girls that like him, theres nothing you can really do about it. they cant really control who they like, just ignore them if they talk about it to or around you.

hope i helped...
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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

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youre doing the right thing! =) just do anything...hang out with your friends and dish on gossip , learn something new like a new hobby, or just ANYTHING keeping you busy to get your mind off him!

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have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?

no nothing is wrong! everyone has their firsts at a different age...so nothing is wrong with you. dont rush or anything, just wait until the right guy with the right kiss comes to you! dont worry hun!

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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!

number one rule...just relax! dont worry about other people looking at you just listen to the music and let your body just move to the music. i do admit, if youre not comfortable its kind of hard to just dance thinking everyone is looking at you. but if you just imagine youre in your own little world it doesnt matter. just have fun.

p.s. people will probably not even be looking...they'll be too obsessed on how theyre dancing!!

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ok do u think it is ok 2 liek a guy from camp, even though camp was over like 4 months ago?

yah its toteli fine, i just dont think anything is really going to happen between you two. unless you guys are so close that you get together sometimes or if you know that he is coming to the same camp next year, nothing is really going to happen. its kind of hard to form a relationship with someone that you can barely see. if you think youre still going to like him, just keep in touch and be nice to him! or even tell him, he went to your camp so no possible embarassment!

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ok so there is this really cute guy and i like him but i don't have any classes with him, i just know his name, because my friend told me, and i know where his locker is, because its like down the hall. And there is no time for me to know him cuz i have no classes with him, and he doesn't even know who i am! Please help me, how can he notice me? like im a shy person and im not the kinda girl who will go up and talk to a random peron, maybe to one iknow, but still he is really cute and i just wish i knew him.

-by the way-i love ur colum! it's soo cute!

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thanks hun! before i tell you how to get to knwo him heres NOT waht to do to get him to notice you : dont dress up just to impress him and dont attract soo much attetion to you! okay besides that i would just start with smiling with him in the hallway. or even waving. just show him that youre nice. if youre friends with any of his friends or if one of youre friends are then try to get everyone together at the movies or at someones house. that way, you can get to know eachother but not the 2 of you cuz that would be really weird. just be nice and slowly get to know him!

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Okay, I need help. I like this guy, lets call him Mike. Well we grinded a couple times and he's always hugging me when he sees me. I heard he was going to ask me out. Well the problem is my ex, lets call him Devon, wants to go out with me again. I kinda still like him and he asked me out but I said I don't know. I know he's gonna ask me again in school and I don't know what to do.

Please Help
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xxx Bianca xxx

i think you should decide which one you like better. dont listen to all the gossip and stuff about whos gonna ask you out, just really think--who do you like better "Mike" or "Devon". I think that whoever you like more and want to go out with should be the person you should wait for. dont just go out with the person because they ask you first.

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Ok I still have feelings for my Ex Boyfriend but I dont know if this means he likes me:

1. He comes and stands beside/or around me when we have a break at school
2.He Takes Up For Me
3.He play fights with me
4.He Walks Me to my bus EVERYDAY
5.When I come in late he always seems happy to see me!
So....umnmm what?

he probably likes you or either wants to still be friends after the break up. either one is good if you still like him. just flirt back with him and when the time is right, tell him how you feel

good luck chica

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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true?

sorta true. it depends on the type of gum. ex: if you got mint gum it would obviously make your breath smell better...but if you got poop flavored gum =) it would make it smell bad. B0TT0M LINE :just depends on the brand and scent.

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ok i totally like this guy and no i no for a fact that he doesnt like me the way i like him but i can NOT stop thinking about him what do i do because it's driving me crazy!! please help me thanks

just talk to him or talk to somebody. i would recommend though to talk to him and to just get closer so if he ever did like you, you'd be right there. good luck

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Alright. Any one know any songs/quotes..

That is like. He stole the most important thing.

Like your heart/virginity.

If that makes anysense.

ASAP_please.

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_Just_Quotes_x has really good quotes and they probably have some like that!!

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today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s

thanks for helping
kriddle06 :)

hmm thats really tough. if youre allowed to use the phone, IM, email, any of that just try to contact him. (send him a card greeting for email thats cute too). i just dont think you should sneak out unless you have everything planned out because you might just get into more trouble. if you contact him in any way, tell him that your anniversery surprise will be postponed in a cute way. on the day it comes just be really romantic and make it up to him. thats basically what i would do, but then again its toteli up to you!

good luck hun!

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On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

#1... just be yourself. his parents will see why he likes you and its better to be yourself than to just be too nice and too perfect. im not saying dont be nice and all, be yourself but make sure you are polite, use good manners, smile, and just be toteli interested into whatever theyre saying. dont worry... you'll do fine!

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