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Hi, I am JenniferI am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥
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15/f
last year i was "talking" to this one guy named adam,[kind of a player] off and on. and we kissed and stuff but that was it. but the whole "talking" thing started in february and was off and on until june. in october he texted me and was like so, are you talking to brett[his bestfriend that had a crush on me but i didn't know it at the time, we had just been texting] and i said no. and then he asked if i wanted to talk to him, and i said i'd think about it because he has been known to be a player and i just didn't know how i felt about him anymore. a week later, brett asked me out. and i said yes because i had had a crush on a him since september. well anyways, its been five months since i started dating brett and i have two classes with him and two classes with adam. and adam sits with me and some other people at lunch. he always tries to sit infront of me, or walk with me to the lunch line, and always asks me for gum and talk about how we had a lot of fun last year and wants to give me high fives. and to be honest i didn't think he liked me or anything until brett said he thought adam was into me. and now that i've noticed that, i've been wanting him to come on to me. its like, i like when he talks to me, and on days when he misses first block, in my head i'm thinking "well i still hope he gets here for lunch" i don't know if i still like him or if i just like the attention. because don't get me wrong, i truly care about brett, i've never liked anyone the way i like him, and i think i'm in love with him, its just we've been fighting alot lately, and adam seems to cheer me up.
i just don't know what to do, or how i feel. can you please help me figure out what i can do? sorry its so long, and thanks for reading all of it, i'm just so confused.
Keep thinking that it's the attention you want, and it's not Adam you want. That's safer, because Brett is the guy you're going out with. But in case you and Brett ever break up, be sweet to Adam as a second choice. Almost every girl gets fought over by guys at least once, so it's nothing new. You might like Adam, but players are extremely competitive for girls, so Adam might just be feeling like he sort of lost you to his best friend and feels like he was inferior so he's trying to win you back. He might have some feelings for you, but he's a player so maybe it won't really last.
Be faithful to Brett, remember that. No one likes a cheater. So I think it's safe to keep Adam as a friend "with benefits," like as a backup boyfriend. And you like Brett, so stick to him, okay?
Maybe you don't even like Adam at all, and it's for the attention. So what?? Everyone likes attention, even when some people pretend they don't want any. It's OK to like Adam for attention as long as you don't totally go back on Brett.
-JenniC
basically, four months ago my best friend kissed my boyfriend. all i know is i have been with him for a year and a half.
i've been with my boyfriend longer the i known my bestfriend. (now ex friend)
its hard after these 4 months because shes friends with all of my friends, you know? we were close.. so i thought. basically when i go to sit in class shes always near me because we have the same friends.
how do i deal with her?, i refuse to talk to her.(already did and no that didnt work well)
what should i do? =/
hmm, i have a question?
why are you mad at your ex friend yet everything seems fine with your boyfriend here?
i find that totally unfair. you're all pissed at your friend, yet you don't care that your boyfriend was part of it too.
seriously? that is so clingy && desperate, it doesn't matter if you knew your boyfriend longer
but... here is advice:
get over it.
i'm not saying it in a bitchy way.
but i think that you need to talk with this exfriend && boyfriend of yours.
i suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you.
cold hard truth, i don't want to be mean, but i'm all about honesty
you don't have to talk to them both at the same time but i don't think ignoring is the best way to help make things sweeter, you know?
-Jenni C ♥
ok soo my bf is turning 16 soon and i d k what to do for his bday!! i want to like go out to this one restaurant but its expensive and im not sure if my parents would pay or not. cause if i have to then his gift cant be that much. i dont have any income besides occasional babysitting or like dog watching etc. im moving this summer and his bday is right before i leave (end of may is his bday) so i really want to make it special. i was gonna give him 16 gifts but i dont think i can come up with that many or pay for it. can anyone give me any other cute and orginal ideas that they did or had done for their 16th bday?? this is really big cause he will be 16 and i am leaving reeeally soon after so it has to be special!
also any gift ideas would be SO appreciated. im already doing like a card and a shirt (tho hes not really into clothing) chocolate strawberries cause those are his fav ;] and a CD of love songs (hehe) but what else as like a gift. or something we could do instead of a gift. it will be almost summer so the weather will be really nice thanks soo much! :)
Boxers would be such an adorable thing to buy for your guy
here's the deal i've falling head over heals for this guy sam. Well he liked me before so we uuse to talk alot. and he found out i liked someone else so he kind of backed off. and now i relize i like him and he doesn't like me he told me he likes this girl alex, she's very pretty and perfect. but me and him don't talk anymore and well i try and he does too.. i think he likes me but what do you think?
well first he always starts the conversation in school, on the phone, and on msn. he always so shy when he says hi to me in person he smiles and blushes soo cute :)
anyway he avoids well not avoids me but we hardly talk and he's saying its because i am around alot of guys but seriously when i'm not he doesn't take the chaance. he stares at me alot and sometimes i stare back and he smiles at me. he loves teasing me.. and he compliments me alot too ..
he tries real hard for us to hang after school.
and even when he does things tha don't get me mad at all he always apologizes. does he like me? should i tell him i like him ?
what should i do?
I think the best for you to do is just flirt for now, get me? Like, it depends on what you think. Do you want to tell him? Because, really, there's no point in telling him if you don't want to . That choice is 100% up to you. But if you want to tell, and you're too un-comfy to tell him to his face use the cliche "you to BFF to him" trick, which is telling your friend to tell him. I also think he totally has the hots for you, no doubt!! Totally cute!
-Jenni C ♥
my bf used to call me just because. he used to text me or message me online just cause.
noww he never does.
and also it seems he never wants to chill with me.
what do i do??? i have a bad feeling in my heart (literally......it feels weird when i think about him) :(
i think he still likes me and i still like him...but idk.
help
16/f
Sorry, but I don't really go with triquetra on this one. If you ask like, straight off: Why aren't you calling/texting me anymore?? It'll make you seem clingy and that'll sort of annoy him. I don't know what kind of guy he is, but to be on the safe side, don't ask him.
Maybe you should try calling or whatever first? Just like casually, like "what's up? want to chill?" And if he has a long conversation or he says yes to hanging out with you, you can see that nothing's going wrong. but if he cuts the convo short or something like that, maybe something is wrong?
Has he cheated before? If he did, it could be an option that he's thinking of other girls.
I think the best you can do to find out 100% is get your friend to go up to him and go, "Hey, are you still going out with her?"
He'd say, "yea." (if he says no, it should explain itself.)
and then your friend would go, "Oh? Really? I thought you weren't because whenever I try to call or want to hang out with her, she's busy with you. Now she's like always free, so is there something wrong?"
Or something like that.
But if you think it's okay to talk to him about it face to face, that's cool. Just don't go, "Why haven't you been calling me?!" or something like that. Go, "I've noticed my cell never rings with your number anymore. Anything you want to say?" or whatever.
-Jenni C ♥
Well me and my girl have been togather for 4 years, theres been good times and bad... but last year cheated on me.. hardcore cheated and ever since i havnt been able to trust her. I conpletely understand that trust is a big factor in a relationship but its just not there. we've been togather since then broken up... got back... and no we are kinda normal. where the problem lies is i sumtime ( not always) cant look at her with out going back to BS memories...i sumtimes feel that i have PTSD but i cant be sure but i guess my question is how can be with soneone how Fucked me over so bad (like cold heartless i dont care anymore bad). i love her but if she does it again i know i cant be with her anymore. And if she has conciously has done it more than 5 time wat r the chance's she will do it again WHAT CAN I DO I'M JUST TIRED...
If you think she's right for you, stay with her. If you don't, drop her. It's as simple as that. If the relationship is going smoothly, don't dump her. Just talk to her about it. Tell her you don't want to be clingy but you want to trust her and you find it really hard to. She should be on your side with this.. and if she cheats again, her loss, dump her! A sweet guy like you, no one should cheat on! She won't know what she's going to miss until you're gone, so say bye to her! There are so much girls who are more serious about relationships than the girl you have now!
-Jeni C ♥
f/14 m/17
okay, so i like this one kid.. i met him a few months ago face to face and i talk to him almost everyday. we go to different schools like 10 minutes apart so its not bad..the thing is though, he's my best friend's brother. he is a senior this year so he's young for his grade. i like him a lot but i don't know if i should tell him or not. i'm not real open about these things and keep to myself a lot... i just don't know what to do..he's really nice to me and makes me laugh, but then when i talk to him face to face i don't know what to say! i just get real red and avoid eye contact even though i don't mean too...any ideas? sorry i couldn't be more specific =/
Aww, that's sweet!
I don't think you really have to confess your feelings.. do you really want to? Only if you're really sure and confident about it, you should do it... because, seriously? there's no reason for you to admit your feelings to him if there's no point.
All you can do is flirt and SHOW him you like him, instead of TELLING him. You know what I mean? I don't think it's a bad thing you can't make eye contact and you get red, it's another way of showing you like him, it's cute! Maybe you should tell his brother instead of him, so his brother can pass the message?
=) I think that could work!
-Jenni C ♥
What is that feeling called when you see the person you like and you get that feeling like rushes of energy shooting through your chest? my friend was curious and now I am too
Love, my love
So last year when i was an 8th grader i went to a new school.there was this guy there named kenny and I never really didnt noticed him beside the point that i used to like one of his friends... anyway I started to talk to another one of kenny's friends named charles well charles isnt my type so when he told me that he like me I ignored it. as for as I can tell charles lies alot so I figured that charles was telling his friends( including kenny) lies about me out of jealousy! I ignored it well at the end of the school year i was on the phone with one of my friends while he was at the movies he said that he saw kenny so I asked him if I could talk to him- so i told kenny that I liked him and he said I like you too then I said i think he's hot and he said I think your hot too. Then the whole summer went buy and then I saw him at open house and feel in love with him (since i started to like him during summer)I told my best friend that i was going to get with kenny no matter what well me and kenny were cool and we talked then oneday I let it be known to everyone that I like kenny this went on for like 2 months then charles wanted us to get together but kenny didnt want to ask me he wanted me to ask him well anyways charles yelled out if kenny wanted to get with me and he said yes then we were together...the same day we got together he went home cause he wasnt feeling well then the next day he came to school but we werent talking much I know that he was trying to be a good boyfrind it just wasnt there so i asked him that day after school if he even wanted to be with me and he said that he likes me but that it just wansnt there(we broke up)...we still hugged in the hall constantly and talked very few...he ended up getting into a fight with his friends and no longers hangs out with them he more of a loner now and not so socialble...for a while I would call his name and he would ignore me and most other people... now I feel like he is ignoring me only and dosent like me anymore-he told my friend that he does still a little- but everytime I come around he leaves-from the clues whats going on with kenny help help help(ps he dosent leave when my friend lisa comes around just other people..could he like her and how do i start talking to him again)????
OMG you are wayy too sweet! && that's a good thing!
you care even after he's a loner & everything! most girls would drop guys with low stats!
get a friend to ask him what's up between you two, it seems like he's ignoring you?
you know maybe he's just not interested, he has a whole new life and he's not comfortable with his old life, so he's just pushing everyone away. if he likes lisa, he likes lisa. ask if you can still be his friend and work your way up from there, i think it's so cute of you to want to get back with him, but if he likes someone else you shouldn't get all desperate and try to yank him back.
but he might like you again. you can get a friend to tell him you want to still be friends with im but you seem to be ignoring him and you want to know what's going on? or just go after him, don't let him avoid you, and face him and ask him directly, "did i do something wrong? i want for us to be friends, i think you're really cool," or something. don't let it show you still like him that way, and little by little (and im not talking day by day, maybe a week by week?) flirt a little, or whatever you did to get him to go out with you, whatever you want to do.
If he never asks you out, there's still charles, other guys out there for you.
hi 14/f
ok i have been on and off with this guy and im over him well thats what i thought...he isnt over me he takes my pic that is on my best friends binder ok and he stole all of them and i was like freak and hes like why are you mad at me and he over reacts ok me and him have never kissed ok!and well he said he wanted to go to the movies with me and my best friend and her bf but her and her bf broke up!ok so he said well thats ok they didn't need to come i mean me and you would just makein out and what not so i laughed i thought he was joking so he asked if i wanted to go this Friday... but i have a date!kinda im meeting this guy i met on myspace!(don't say that i should meet this guy bc im not asking you that ok!!)well i told him i couldnt but what if hes at the movies when i go to meet this guy!i will feel really bad bc hes my best friend and i dont see him as a boy friend any more bc hes a player!like hes a realy big player!so im not in to him at all and i just can't say taht to him bc it will crush him ahh hes my bestie and i feelso bad about it!
Whoa, stalker much!
If you guys run into each other at the movies, who cares? Just smile sweetly and walk the other way. Or warn the guy from MySpace about the awkward situation that might happen. If he follows you, tell him that you and your boyfriend want privacy and maybe you could hang out some other time.
Maybe the next time your friend asks you out just tell him you already have a boyfriend, maybe. (True or not, this is the easiest way out.) If you want to tell him the truth about not liking him in that way anymore, I guess that's okay, but I think it'll get a little too awkward.
=) Good luck!
-Jenni Choi ♥
Okay well my ex boyfriend and I broke up about a year ago but lately we have been flirting alot and I have told him I like him but he keeps telling me that he wants to be my..."best friend" (men) anyways so at a party he asked me to dance but I said no because he likes my best friend Taylor and I know she kind of likes him but she is in LOVE with another guy. So anyways I told him that I was over him and that I wanted to be his BFF, well lately we have been flirting even more but so are me and his best friend who is also hot. But I kinda like another guy. Well today he totally put his arm around me and I really liked it so I didn't tell him to stop but I don't know whether to take that as hey best bud or I want you back? Plus there's the problem with his best friend whi I am totally flirting with all the time, and the other other guy who is super hot, tall, but he is sum times really boring to talk to. So anyone who understood a word of that please help because I'm sooooo tired of getting hurt by boys.
I think you should flirt with his best friend. If your ex shows any sign of jealousy, maybe he does want you back. But he's a guy, putting an arm around you is maybe just a friendly gesture. Also, if he liked you that way, wouldn't he have asked you out already? Get a friend to ask him or something.
Meanwhile, just hang out with his friend, I think you have a better chance with him than anyone else, and plus, it also might make your ex jealous and ask you out. You can have two guys hungry for you! Joking, don't be like that!
Anyway, do whatever you want with the other guy. I don't see how he's part of the picture!
-Jenni C ♥
ok so my friend is like 17 and she has this cousin who's 30 and he keeps tapping her on the butt and hip and kissing her on the cheek every so often and saying he loves her. Problem is, she feels the same way. Now he's never done anything more than that and they've always been close but my friend is confused. She doesn't love him like family but like, well, u know, she's in love with him. She told me about it a few weeks ago and she doesn't know what to do. problem is, neither do I. Any answer would b helpful. She knows loving her cousin that way is wrong but isn't sure what 2 do.
That's really wrong, but emotions never discriminate. I think the best thing to do is just not do anything. She's young, it's not going to last, tell her that. Also tell her, it's not a big deal to fall in love with a cousin, I know someone who loved their married uncle and one time, their own dad! But maybe it's because she is just a little desperate? Maybe it's because this cousin is one of the only guys who touched her that way, so she's confused. I don't think it's a big problem. She should take it easy and don't do anything to complicate things.
-Jenni Choi ♥
Ok My name is Meghan and in 14 years old and i like this boy that goes to my school and his name is Sean and we were like bff's and then i started to like him and he started to like me but we did'nt go out because he had a gf.Well then after we told each other that we liked each other we stopped talking and now him and his gf broke up and were talking again but i don't know if he still has feelings and im afraid to tell him how i feel.
Think about it in his point-of-view:
What if he is thinking the exact same thing you are? What if he's wondering, "Does Meghan still like me?"? Maybe he's too afraid to tell you his own feelings about you.
Maybe he started not talking to you after you admited your feelings to each other because the guy felt guilty to have a girlfriend and have feelings for another girl, so he put distance between you and him. Now that they broke up, he came back to you.
Of course, it would all be totally screwed up if you admited you feelings and... it turned out he doen't like you anymore. So this is what you do then: flirt! Give him hints (small but slightly noticeable) that tell him, "I'm still crazy over you." Like give him the head-to-toe look. Stare at him until he catches you, then quickly look down. If he responds to them positively, like he makes a move on you, then he still has the hots for you!! If he responds negatively, like he gives you a confused look, then befriend him, but try to get over him. If you dwell too long on it, it'll be hard to let go, so you have to move on! =)
xoxo
Have a belated Valentine's Day!
-Jenny C &Hearts;
20/f
Finally, I dare to make a move by giving hints to the guy whom I love few months back. And when he realised it, he asked me whether is it true that I actually love him. Obviously, I said "yes" to him and in another way round I wanted to know his answer too whether he loves me anot by being so caring towards me. The thing is he loves me but he told me that he will not be a good boyfriend for me. He told me that I can find a better guy than him to be my boyfriend. I felt so sad and hurt at the moment he said that even though he loves me. What does he meant by he loves me but he will not be a good boyfriend for me? Is he rejecting my love towards him? Few days later, he started to avoid me as though I am invisible in front of him. What should I do now? Does he have a very low confidence about himself?
I'm not sure, but it could either mean two things:
He's not interested in you. I'm sorry, but that's just it. The only reason he probably said he'll make a bad boyfriend is to have a reason to not go out with you without being hurtful. Remember though, he's the one who's going to bhe missing out on something good! There are a lot more single guys out there, go for them!
The second thing is, maybe he's actually telling the truth. What does he mean? This guy probably had a bad past with other girls, and probably hurt some of them real bad. You know, he knows himself better than you know him, so he's probably a bad boyfriend. So I suggest you tell him it's alright that he's a bad boyfriend, we could still be friends, it doesn't matter.
Though... love is pretty hard top rid of... if you are really crazy over him (which is not a bad thing) then I guess you have to talk to him. Ask him why he is avoiding you. Tell him that you want the truth: is it rejection, or is it true low self-esteem?? And, depending on the answer, take him or leave him. If it's low self-esteem, tell him here's your chance to be a good boyfriend. If it's rejection... well, I'm sorry. Take a few days to heal. Back off from him a little. Maybe then he'll realize what a loss you are, and actually get interests for you. But he might not, so just get over it slowly. It's hard, I know, but it's possible.
Hopefully you'll have a happy Valentine's Day!
xoxo
-Jenny C ♥
helloo :]]
bear with me, i know everyone's
question on here is like this but eh.
well, me and my boyfriend have been
going out for about 10 months but our
relationship slowly started going
downhill about 2 months ago. we rarely
see eachother or talk to eachother. i
always have to txt him or call him. he
never calls me or txts me anymore and it
just doesnt seem like he's putting effort
into this relationship. i wanna start over
with him but he's put me through so confusion and hurt. im just wondering what your
opinion is on all of thiss. thanks :]
You never know what's going on with the part of his life that you don't know about. Maybe he's having troubles... or, even worse, maybe he's just not wanting to be in a relationship with you anymore.
Ask him about it. Maybe he won't answer you directly, like he'll say "I don't know." Then that usually means, "I don't want to hurt you but I just don't want you anymore in that way." Or maybe he won't pick up the phone or text you. Either way, you have to do the same thing to deal with it: slowly drift away. What's the point? He's not going to try to bring passion back. It's just not there anymore.
Don't call him anymore. Just lose connection with him . Maybe then he'll realize what it's like without you and come back to you with an apology. Maybe... he's taking you for granted. Then you have to show him what a loss you'd be for him. If he doesn't bother getting you to come back, I'm sorry but that's just the end of it. If this happens: There are more single guys out there! Go for them!
xoxo
-Jenny C ♥
well you guys might know me. im acctaully one of the people who gives advice on this site. but i dont know what to do. so please answer.
so theres this boy, it will be a month of dating next wendsday. but we were friends with like love before. and since we have been going out, things have been going really fast. i know its going toooooo fast. but today we were spose to hang out for valentines day, cause tommorow i cant hang out. and i couldent hang out last minute, and now hes like kinda mad at me, and is being weird. and is like i dont care. and im like about what, and hes like whatever or whatever he says. and then on i just kinda was like if your going act like this im going go so bye. and hes like whatever. i feel like a wreck and i dont want this to end.
i dont know what to do. and i dont know what to say to him. and i dont know what im asking you guys to answer about or whatever. and i dont know what im doing. i have never felt like this before.
please just talk to me.
im sorry this is so long.
What an inconsiderate guy! There might be good qualities in your boyfriend, but he's not showing them right now. Who does he think he is? It's not like you chose to be unable to hang out at the last minute.
Obviously, he is mad that you dropped out, but why is he mad that you dropped out? Because he really wanted to hang out with you, but couldn't. Well, if he keeps acting like this, he'll NEVER get to be with you, because of how he's acting. Tell him that.
Tell him there will be many other Valentine's Days to come for you two if the relationship doesn't end. It's just that you couldn't. What's wrong with that? It wasn't your choice. It was the way it was. Tell him stop acting as if it was your choice.
Apologize (even though it wasn't your fault) for being unable to hang out, but point out that you don't understand why he is being like this. You have to talk to him calmly and don't be harsh. Tell him exactly how you feel about this situation.
xoxo
hopefully you'll have a happy valentine's dayy
and i don't know if he likes me or not( i doubt he does..) and the thing is that i dont know if he would like me. He's really close with these other 2 girls..and i get really jealous of them...because idk...he might like them. So how can i get him to like me? I mean i know you can't make someone like you, but can anyone give me tips on how to get a guy to notice you, or like you more?
There's the number one thing that every girl would know by instinct to get a guy to notice her: flirt! Hello?? Not a foreign thing!
If you want to flirt with him, but not be too obvious about it, just smile at him. That's a good thing to start with. Then, as he's passing by, maybe give him a sneaky head-to-toe look that'll tell him you think he's adorable! But you have to make sure he sees.
Is he in your school? If so, giggle at every joke he says in your classes. Don't overdo this or you'll look like an idiot.
If he plays a sport in school, cheer for him at games. Cheer for him specifically. If he glances at you, wave at him! If he returns it, you're going in a good direction! If you're gutsy, you can buy a cold drink for him at the end of his games and give it to him, and just chat with him. That'll be sweet!
Start by being friendly with him and getting close enough with him to be a friend. Go from there! Valentine's Day is just a few days away! Go for it!
xoxo
Jenny C ♥
recently i've been falling for this guy i've known a while. we began talking over myspace ALOT and sometimes i thought he seemed to be really into me. he gave me his phone # and I did too..
Well now last night it seems like him and his ex got realy close and something "happened" between them by the joyful looks and
Well, it's really best to not dwell on your feelings for this guy, because if you hang on to emotions for so long, you can't get over it easily. He and his ex seems like they're going to get closer. I'm not going to sugarcoat things for you. But I'm sorry. Hang out with friends. Watch movies. Listen to music. Find other guys. Do a lot of activities to get your mind off of him. It's not that hard if you don't hang on to him that hard. Let it go.
If this guy does really like you, he'll ask you out and just have the ex around as a friend. And that's great! Hope you have a happy love life then!
xoxo
-Jenny C ♥
So I have a boyfriend been together for 7 months. I have a cousin and shes been my best friend my whole life. My boyfriend is 3 years older than me and my cousin is 2 years older than me.
Lately I feel like my boyfriend doesnt want to talk to me. Like me and him are always talking about sex and we attempted it and it didn't work. So now he wont do it. He has said from the begining it was my choice and now i have decided i want to. And he was telling my cousin how sometimes he feel like im pressuring him into it. Because now he refuses to even try a second time. He said how i think anything not sexual is boring. But thats not true. Me and him never go anywhere. Everytime we see eachother which is like almost everyday he comes to my house or i go 2 his. We have never tried to go anywhere but our houses. I would LOVE to go somewhere. But am afraid to ask. And so now he just ASSUMES i dont want to go anywhere and that if we arent doing anything sexual im bored or pissed off. Now keep in mind he said this to my cousin not me. He told her over myspace messages and i went onto hers and now im always reading their messages to see what hes feeling and same with her. I feel like they turned their backs on me and decided to keep everything a secret from me and now tell eachother everything. Im getting really angry and jealous and im planning on not talking to him for a few days.
Now my questions are:
Am I over reacting?
Should I confront him about this?
If you were me would you be acting like this?
Am I being immature and over dramatic?
Anthing Helps
Sorry it was so long but i need some advice pleasee
It's a normal reaction. I mean, seriously, how could your boyfriend say that about you? More importantly, how could he say that behind your back? And even worse, he told your cousin, and she's not telling you. Why?
Well, why do you think? Maybe he doesn't want to hurt your feelings about it. Start with acting more affectionate with him and hanging out with him in other places. Don't be afraid to ask. If he thinks that all you want is sex, but then you want to go for pizza or something, you can show him that's not what you're all about.
Don't give him the silent treatment, or his opinion of you might go lower. Think in his point of view. You might have realized it, but what if he was actually right? What if you do, in fact, act like that? So don't get bitter over it. It's okay to get mad at, however, your cousin. Because keeping stuff like that away from your own flesh and blood is just... wrong!
Treat your boyfriend friendly and sweet. Go on your cousin's myspace constantly to see if he wrote anything more about you. Positive comments about you? Then, yay! Negative comments? You have to talk to him about it. Ask him: what am I doing wrong? What do you want me to do? And youi can go from there. I don't think I need to write you a script.
Hope all goes well!
xoxo
-Jenny C ♥
why did justin and britney break up?
I quote Justin Timberlake, "We broke up because she was wanting to get married and I didn't."
That's all I know about it, but that's his exact words.
xoxo
-Jenny C