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best friend kissed boyfriend


Question Posted Wednesday March 12 2008, 5:40 pm

basically, four months ago my best friend kissed my boyfriend. all i know is i have been with him for a year and a half.
i've been with my boyfriend longer the i known my bestfriend. (now ex friend)
its hard after these 4 months because shes friends with all of my friends, you know? we were close.. so i thought. basically when i go to sit in class shes always near me because we have the same friends.
how do i deal with her?, i refuse to talk to her.(already did and no that didnt work well)
what should i do? =/


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the_sweeter_heart answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 8:33 pm:
hmm, i have a question?
why are you mad at your ex friend yet everything seems fine with your boyfriend here?
i find that totally unfair. you're all pissed at your friend, yet you don't care that your boyfriend was part of it too.
seriously? that is so clingy && desperate, it doesn't matter if you knew your boyfriend longer
but... here is advice:
get over it.
i'm not saying it in a bitchy way.
but i think that you need to talk with this exfriend && boyfriend of yours.
i suspect that your boyfriend is cheating on you.
cold hard truth, i don't want to be mean, but i'm all about honesty
you don't have to talk to them both at the same time but i don't think ignoring is the best way to help make things sweeter, you know?
-Jenni C ♥

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varistygirl12 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 8:01 pm:
I see your in a horrible and hard situation. Im sorry you had to go through that " happens to the best of us ". Remember it takes ( two ) to kiss. I know you and your boyfriend might have gotten through it but as far as your friend , ofcourse its going to take time to even WANT to talk to her and im pretty sure you wont want to for a while . You just cant let it get to you , just think of it as a lesson learned , you cant trust EVERY0NE you think you can. It will just make you more protective next time you get so close to someone. And i understand yall have the same friends but she shouldnt have an effect on you and your [ other ] friend's relationship. Continue your daily rutiens with your friends and eventually you will find it easier to face her , good luck.

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