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my boyfriend and i broke up on monday. and i knew it was gonna hppen since a week and a half ago. but. i still like him. and i need to get overhim, hes a very bad person. i need to stop thinking about all the good feelings and times we had together. because i start crying again. i want to be over him. i wake up every morning with a heavy heart and i dont think he even cares. thats what gets me too. any advice on how to forget? (link)
This exact thing happened 2 me and my boyfriend of 3 months i know it may not seem like a long time but let me tell you he was an amazing boyfriend and I still miss him. All you can do is try not to think of him and try to look at other guys thats all I can say but eventually the feeling will go away.

I hope I helped xoxoxo


Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?! (link)
You should just ask her back out then see what happens from there

hope i helped xoxoxosoccrchick


my boyfriend kinda throws me around a little and im ready to get out what do i say?
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Well it is really good that you have realized this because if you didn't well nvm but it is good that you realized this. You should just tell him that you deserve so much better then him. If you want to be nice about it just tell him that you don't like him anymore or just ask to take a breake. But when taking a breake don't ever get back together with him. (that's what I did to my ex and it worked)


A friend of mine likes my boyfriend. But she is going out with his best friend(we can call him Lee) She says she loves Lee but then tells other people she Loves my boyfriend and just likes Lee.. shes ubsessed with my boyfriend and flirts with him constantly in front of me.. how do i make her realize shes dating Lee not my boyfriend (link)
You should just tell her that she is dating "Lee" and not your boyfriend, or you should just tell her to stay away from yours. This may help too, when you are with your boyfriend don't be with her at all that may help.


hope i helped

plz rate me ~soccerchcik~


lately, i've felt really sad, and i've felt all alone. i'm 8th grade/f, and i feel like a guy could fill up a space :( what can i do??
-all alone- (link)
If i were you (and i know that im not but anyway) i would try to look around at boys maybe try to get them to like you but try to get them to lke you for you what also may help (i know this helped me) was to hang w/ your friends alot more then you normally do

hope i helped xoxox if you have anymore ?s leave them in my inbox plz rate me


I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
I think that if you feel that you are growing apart and never seeing each other that much then yes you should just break up w/ each other or take a breake from being together until you see each other. Then if you have problems gettin ova him then start to see other guys, even tho u might not lke him then you will be getting over him and the reason im telling you this is because my bf and i just broke up and i loved and still do love him w/ all my heart and it is still hard to get over him but i now am seeing another guy and it has helped alot


hope i helped xoxoxox

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a month now, he's really shy but i no he really likes me. We haven't hugged, kissed, held hands, etc. all we did was say i love you and call each other and those little things. For valentines day i want him to at least hug me... but i don't know if he is ready for that because he is so shy... how can i tell if he is? What do i do? I am really confused... i rate 5's... pleaz help... (link)
I have the same problem, my boyfriend is really shy. You she just give him on v-day if he gets u a gift i hope i helped


thanx for the advice.i dont know how to rate peeple.srry.can u tell me!ur idea was great.im going to get my friend who he doesnt know to ask who he likes.the only thing is that my friend has skool and me and anthony(the guy) have homeskool.he gets on really late.but it is the weekend! (link)
thank u, actually i dont kno how to rate lol u could ask sohojules26


i like a guy.i dont know if he likes me.we have only known eachother for 2 months.we have never met.we only chat on the internet.i know we will meet someday.how can i find out if he likes me?(i dont want to strait out ask him if he likes me). (link)
Thats what happened to me. We only talked on the internet, but then he asked me out. Maybe just ask your friends to ask him who he likes. Hope I helped. Please rate.


There is this boy at my school who is soooooooooo hot. I really like him. He always smiles at me andwhen he walks by me he walks really slow and is smiling. Does he like me?

I will rate (link)
This is hard. He may like you but it is hard to tell. I would talk to him about it.


My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
he was so flirting


Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
If you really love him then you shouldn't care what other people think. You should go out w/ him.



~soccrchick~


ok so you met this guy and you like fell in love with him and he liked you for awhile but he lives in a different city and you talk to him all the time and you see him occasionally but then he starts liking this other girl who is a slut and your still like in love w/ him and you cant get over him even though you have tried.and then you thought you were finally over him and then you saw him for a weekend and fell for him again and that is what happens everytime you see him. what do i do? (link)
There are two ways to do this, 1) try not or never to see this guy then you will stop thinking about him 2) When you see him pretend to not seen interested and just think about something else



I hope this works


~soccrchick~


I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused (link)
You should tell him that this realationship isn't working out and that you still want to be friends w/ him. Be very nice when you are saying this and then he will understand.


~soccrchick~


theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!! (link)
You should tell him that you like him as a friend, but he needs to stop lying to you. And then say can we start over.





~soccrchick~


Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
Well, no I don't think it will work, unless you both want it to. You must keep in touch everyday and try not to get bored of him.



~soccrchick~


Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated. (link)
You should first tell him that you like him more then a friend. I know it might be hard to tell him but tell him at the right moment. Then ask how he feels about you. If he says he likes you as a friend then you still should be his friend but try not to get emonital about it.




~soccrchick~


I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians? (link)
Yes, it may mean that you are a lesbo, but that isn't bad. You must tell her how you feel about her and then be open to what she has to say. Maybe you guys should have so space from each other and then you will know if you really like her or just as a friend.




~soccrchick~


I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks (link)
Well it is helping a good cause. You should send the money. Just think if your house got washed away. And maybe even worse some of your family and friends died. The money would help. You should send money even if it isn't much, at least you are trying to help.




~soccrchick~


okay so here it is. i wanna break up with my boyfriend and its Friday and we go back to school Tuesday. Hes suppose to give me my christmas present at school. Should i break up with him on the phone tonight or tomorrow that way he doesnt have to give me my present or should i break up with him on Tuesday. i need major help my mind is going crazy. (link)
I woud call him and tell him that you want to break up with him. Before he brings a gift for you because that would only be using him.





~soccrchick~




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