okay-i just started to go out with the guy i love nd the guy that loves me,we had to wait 2 months to go out though because he wasnt sure if he was over his ex.me nd him have been going out for a week now.. nd his ex is telling me he likes her still. but when i ask him he says no i hate her. nd he shows me convo's of her nd him fighting..but she still contines to say he loves her she is a bitch nd really anoying.. nd when every i asked ryan(my bf) if he likes her he also kinda gets mad cuz i ask him alot nd he thinks i dont trust him but i do.. i just dont no who to belivie.who do u think i should belivie my love or the bitch?
is it really not that obvious to you what that chickenhad is doin? you dont even need a guy if you cant trust him. listen ta him not her. stop askin about it cuz you jus gon drive him away.
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Hello Alexis!!!!!!!!!! I hate study hall..................:(
thats all?! thats not even a question.
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I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?
ok well tell you need to tell him that you dont wanna do it anymore and if he doesnt stop tryin ta get you to do it dump his triflin ass. you need to be a stronger person and dont let him force you into anything that you dont wanna do. stand up for yourself.
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ok hi lets be straight up here:
my friend treats her bf like poo and he treats her like a queen. behind her back, hes real flirty wit me. for some reason. and its been like a month ago since this started, but i love him. and i can barely hide it. i dance with him when shes not there, i dream about him, i daydream about him....its like i seriously need him. i dont know what to do either. hes a better friend to me than his gf is, if that helps...
i think youre crazy and you need help. i cant help you out. you are one of those crazy bitches i make fun of. thats your friends man so back off. find you one thats not taken.
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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!
this happened to me once too. and i cried when i tried to tell him that it was over and it took 2 dang hours but i did it and i felt so much better after it was done. you jus have to be honest and nice about it. dont lie it only makes it worse.
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Okay, I'm really confused about this guy, it's drving me crazy. This boy and I are in the one of the same classes together, and we talked somewhat, and I did flirt with him, but didnt expect anything to come out of it. Well, we started talking on the internet a lot, and he admitted to me that he liked me. So me and him started going out. Well in school he doesnt talk much and it's kind of awkward between us, and sometimes we don't even talk. It doesn't seem like he wants to be around me much. For that first week, he was online all the time, and was the sweetest person to me, always telling me how much he wanted to see me, and now he's hardly ever on. I confronted him and asked him if he still wanted to go out with me and he said he did. it just seems like he acts like two diffrent people. At times he'll seem like he doesnt wanna be touched, and then the next second he'll put his arm around me and pull me closer. And he doesn't talk to me on the phone, and he doesnt make much of an effort to see me on the weekends. But, he is really nice most of the time, and really sweet, there's just nothing to talk about between us.I know this sounds trivial and unimportant, but it really bugs the hell out of me. So could someone please help me and tell me what's going on or what to do?
well if he acts like that then you need to jus be friends and try and find you a guy that actually wants to be wit you. dont waste your time. jus be honest wit him and tell him how you feel.
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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah.
ok well why did he dump you? maybe you should have talked about it first. he could jus be goin back wit you cuz he doesnt wanna be alone. you need to talk but i bet if what i say is true he wont tell you. you should have thought of all the points before you let yes slip out of your mouth.
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okay what if i went out with this guy couple months ago (i broke up with him becasue he cheated on me-he cheats on all his gfs) but then 2months after we broke up we both liked each other and stuff and we made out and now wer best friends and friends with benefits and i REALLY like him but now hes going out with my friend and he likes me but he likes her too (probably more) and we talk on the phone more then they do and stuff and when other people are around he always talks about her i hate it but when its me and him he talks about us and i love it...What do i do?!
well you said he cheated on you and that he cheats on all his girlfriends so why would you want to go back wit him. you tryin ta get back wit him only sets you up for problems and pain. i dont see why you would even do that to yourself. all im sayin is that you shouldnt even try and get back wit him.
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Ok..i went sorta on this date last night with this guy i have been chatting on line with. My friend has met him so hes no harm. Well that whole night he would try to talk to me and i just didnt talk much. After the date..i got online and he didnt talk to me at all. My friend called me up a few min later and said i was really boring and didnt show my personality. Do you think this guy should give up? Or do you think he should let me have a second chance?
well it think that you should talk to him and let him know that you were jus nervous about goin out wit him. but if you are funna act like that again then dont even try again. it will mess errything between you two to jus be friends.
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I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do???????????????????
well im kind of in the same situation except i would be Seth. you should tell him how you feel. even though you dont want to if Jared is ignoring you and spending all his time wit his friends you should maybe get back wit Seth. or atleast start talkin again. if you really love Seth then thats who you should be wit. dont let Jared think errything is fine bewteen you when its not.
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well I have been talking to this guy and he asked if I wanted to be his gilfriend. But he has only seen pics of me that are like old and crap and dont even look like me but im nervous to meet him what do I do?
ok well first off dont go out wit a dude you aint never met before. keep on talkin to him or whatever and meet up i guess but dont jus start goin out like that. meet him and hang out in person and find out if he is who he says he is. sometimes people put on acts. jus take things slow.
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Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me!
ok well dont cheat on him jus cuz he says it takes a lot to hurt him cuz once you do it you will mess errything up. i think that you are jus too curious wit this girl. dont mess something thats already good up for something or someone that might not be.
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ok so this is the problem. Ive been going out with this kid for 4 months now, and i broke up with him a lil whie back for like 2 days bc i had feelings for this othre kid. In the summer the other kid and I almost hooked up and we screwed around and i really liked him. but that same night the other kid ( lets call him John) John broke up with this other girl, and so i forgot about The other guy and went out with John. BUt latly i've been haveing mixed emotions like i still like the other kid and when im not with john i feel like i dont want to b with him ne more and stuff but then i hang out with him and its like it all goes away. I really need some help. I rate 5's/
girl i dont even know who is who cuz you keep on sayin the other kid. name these bitches from the beginning and then maybe i could answer your question.
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i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do?
ok well if he has a girl you need back up and wait for him to cut her loose. dont mess wit him while he has a girl even if they dont see each other. you wouldnt want that to happen to you. slow yo roll miss thang. you aint known him but a minute. jus chill out and wait for him to let his girl go first.
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Okay well I have liked this kid whose 1 year younger then me for a while now. He has two other twins so let's just he's a part of triplets. My best friend Allie well kinda my best friend likes his brother, and I kinda like him too. Well she likes the kid I like a bit and I like the kid she likes a bit yet I really like Alex, and she really likes Sam. Besides that. Alex is taken and it really makes me sad, yet Sam isn't. I don't think he likes either of us tho =o/ Yet Alex said if he wasn't taken he'd go out with me .. But besides that also.. Everytime I am like talking to Alex or Sam everyone tries to embarass's me or however you spell it. Like on Friday I was talking to Alex and Allie came up and was like "Hey penis" and Alex was like you have a penis? and they both laughed! Usually I am more the talkative type and Allie doesn't really talk but idk what to do? I know this doesn't make too much sence but what should I do? I rate high!
i dont think i would worry about him too much. try and find you a new guy but not sam. dont play yo friends like that. it aint right. but if you really wanted to you could wait on alex to get his together and possibly get wit you.
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or maybe me just typing this all out will help me come to a conclusion of some sort..well here i go.......About 12 months ago I was going out with my bf at the time who i had been going on and off with for about 9 mths..but i never go to see him much like 3 times a month becuase he lived farther away..but the time we spent was fun yet our relationship was mostly physical(no sex tho) Anyway i wasnt happy and I cheated on him a couple times becuase i was so unhappy i needed sumone to be there with me more..So i desperately was looking for a reason to dump him besides the lame I need sumone i can see more thing...Anywho meanwhile this chad who i was good friends with and had been hanging out with and such had an older brother that i never really had met before until one day i was over to his house and heard crying...his brother jake and his gf of 2 years had broken up for good and he was a wreck..it was the first relationship he had been in and they even lived together for a while and the whole 9 yards...anyway I am a very sympathetic person and I tried to help him out..and I told him my problem of never seeing my bf and how i wanted sumone more sensitive and etc..well Jake and I started talking more and being I was friends with his brother I was over to the house alot...anyway to cut to the chase jake and i after 1 month of totally crushing on each other and late night calls and stuff he shly asked me out ( i was soo happy! this was my reason to dump chad and I had found someone who was cute and i could see alot and I had soo much fun with and he is into music and woow i was soo happy) so ofcourse i said yes.......now 11 months later jake and I are still going out but stuff to me is horrible..let me explain the first 6 mnths of our relationship was amazing, we spent all of spring and summer togther and made soo many memories and i could never get him off my mind... when school started that was when halo came out and he started be absessed with it..well know he doesnt come to school much anymore and stays up til 5am playing Halo and forgets to call me..But the thing is when we do hang out its still soo amazing, but thats only on weekends becuase i no longer see him in school now..and lately on the phone when we talk we often get arguing over stupid stuff and sumtimes i think its becuase i get aggravated with him for not getting his license and skipping school and not gettign a job..but the thing is i love him..and sumtimes i think about dumping him.. but then it seems like my life wouldnt be the same without him as my hunni..b/c we have soo many memories together and everything..But my concern is that the only thing that is stopping me from dumping him is i have grown in the past year of being used to having the comfort of him there, and that maybe i dont love him anymore, im just so used to that being the way it is.. me with Jake..and i still think about him all the time too. But wow i just wrote thatand i still didnt find a solution..so what do you think do i stil truley love him and do i stay with himn and hope the problems go away? I really think i love him but the whole just being with him now for comfort and becuase im used to that and i dont want to deal with change and throw away a whole year of wonderful memories...its just stuff inst the same and it hasnt been for a couple months now.. PLEASE ANYone see throught all this babblin and Help me!!!
first off we dont date friends older brothers. thats wrong even if your friend is a guy. thats how shit gets started and friends get into fights. second of all you need to talk to him and see whats up. if things dont change then its time to move on. if he cares more about a video game than you then you know its time to cut that boy loose and kick it wit the girls for awhile. you dont need a boyfriend all the time. sometimes you need to be single and "date" around a lil bit. and i said date not ho. jus cuz you datin around dont mean you gettin and givin some to anybody that offers. jus try talkin to him and if that doesnt work try bein single. its not that bad.
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NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!!
y the hell are you makin people swear on your relationship and your life. im sorry but if that aint the gayest shit ive ever heard i dont know what is. so what he looked at porn before there ever was the two of you so y does it matter. as long as it didnt get all serious you should let him be. he prolly lied to you cuz he knew you would flip out. since it was before you then dont bother wit it. he obviously aint lookin at it no more.
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ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and i think our relationship is just based on sexuality and looks... i mean when we first started our relationship we were like awesome friends and we loved to talk all the time and now i feel as if we never talk anymore and he isnt the person i once thougtht he was.. like we never talk anymore and i feel all we do is like make out... i try to read books and see if he is interested in what they have to say and sometimes they have poetry and i leave him sweet notes in his locker but we still like never talk anymore... help!
how do i tell him how to change without looking like im tryin to make him the person i want him to be?
you jus ask him y things between you changed. ask him y he doesnt ever wanna talk to you about stuff or have like a romantic relationship instead of jus a physical one. you should honest but be nice about it too. dont let it turn into an arguement.
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Ok well I like a guy who doesnt like me dont know how to get his attention, im 14 and i dunno I want him to like me... i try to look the other way(try to like other guys) But for somereason i still like him(liked him since like 7th grade and now im a freshmen... we talk on the phone sometimes (as friends) I know who he likes...(makes me kinda sad... so i cant ask him out!)Friends with the girl he likes... which is also hard... hard looking at her knowing she has everything i want... she used to like him not anymore...wish I could be everything she is... even tho I dont know why...I try to keep my self from crying... but sometimes it doesnt work...(its hard knowing we can only be friends) dont talk that much at school (i guess hes shy! and i am too) he knows I like him which also sucks(ooh so do his friends... i think he told them all)... it makes it harder to talk to him sometimes... when i do talk to him i try not to think about him knowing i like him...I think hes the cutest person ever... i dunno i just need advice I dont want to cry over him... but i dont just want me friends with him... and I dont wanna get over him... yea confusing... well help if u can...
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if hes not interested you have to move on. no matter how hard that is you have to. you cant sit around and wait forever on a guy that might not ever think of you that way. i know how you feel about not gettin over him but you goin to a new extreme wit cryin over him and all that. jus try and not think about him.
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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??
well first off y you wanna call him now for anyways? what do you still like him? cuz if you do then yea yall should jus try and talk again and even if you dont like him like that then you could atleast try. thats how it is wit me and my ex and hes like one of my best friends so yea i would say go for it. but if he try and cop a attitude let him be. sometimes ex's jus cant be friends.
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