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I'm fed up with life and I just want to die, but how exactly can I kill myself - I don't know how. I'm 14 and never had, never will have a boyfriend - I'm ugly, short, boring and shy. I think I have social anxiety but I just can't face troubling someone with my problems, I'm not worth that. I don't have a life, I spend my life going to school, eating, sleeping, and on the computer. I moved house about 8 months ago, and before when I was with my mates I could be confident and loud, and not care what people thought of me. But my new friends are really immature - we're in year 10 and they chase year 7's and are REALLY loud. They think I act like a 50 year old because I don't find acting like a 6 year old fun. I can't say what I think because if I offend them then they'll leave me and I have no one. I can't get new friends because I'm too shy. I want to move back to where I used to live, so I can get my old life back, I miss my friends so much. My dad kind of wants to move back, but my mum is happy here and she won't move. There was this boy at my old school who I liked a lot since year 7, and I miss him but have no way to contact him, I couldn't ask my old mates to get his number 'cos it'd be embarrassing. I have nothing to live for, what can I do? (link)
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don't kill your self,death is not the ansewer. (if you get caught and it doesnt work then every thing might get worse.) try to make new friends. as hard as it sounds, just start over.
~roxy~
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im 14/f/bi- since yesterday, it has been exactly 4 months since my ex Christina and i separated. she is still one of my closest friends though.i found out two weeks ago that she still wanted to be with me. Me and her started getting all close in her room, then she asked me back out. So me and her went back out, but then she broke it off because she said she needed some more time to think. A couple weeks ago i was going out with this one girl Geanna. Geanna and Christina also went out with eachother but a month and a 1/2 before me and geanna started dating. Geanna and i only lasted about a week. She told me she broke up with me because she didnt want to come between me and Christina. A couple days ago, i found out that Christina and Geanna are going back out. i dont know what to make of all this. Can somebody try and explain to me what just happened? (link)
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maybe - at the risk of sounding mean - christina and geanna munipulated you to get to each other. i mean thats what it sounds like. i think you should forget both of them and just move on.(even though this probly wasnt what yyou wanted to hear)
~roxy~
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I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did? (link)
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dont feel bad stuff like that happens.
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ima 14/f, this guy *Nathan i liked smokes weed.. he didnt really notice me, so i started smokin weed with all the people he hung around with. Now, im kinda like addicted to weed. I got Nathan, and im in love with him... but he wants to have sex, im scared that if i dont he'll break up with me. but i can't tell my dad any of this, so he can help me cuz he would like flip out on me. what should i doo, please im really scared, and i really wanna stop smokin and go back to the old me, but than nathan wont like me!! just please someone help me!!
signed, scared n wants to stop! (link)
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holy crap!!! break up with that shit !! hes so not worth your time. be your own person .
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks! (link)
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this is alot like what happened to me and i am crying thinking about it .i am always imaging whats it could have been like if she did nt steal him and i cant really get over him, i really starting to think i never will, but its how life is boys are gonna break your heart and it fuckn sucks!!! but you know what you sound like you really do deserave better then that shit, as in him and her there both losers and you should unassoite yourself with that kinda shit!!!
i sersiosly hope you feel better,
if you need to talk more my sn iz pixierebel75
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Well, I like this boy, say his name is Bob. But he has a girlfriend, named let's say Lori. Now Lori is one of my good friends, and Bob is like, my best male friend, but I really really like him. And he flirts with me a lot like online, and in person when Lori isn't there. Now I don't want to ruin their relationship, but they never see eachother and stuff, I so know eventaully, they'll break up. Should I just wait for them to break up, because I know he likes me, and he knows I like him, or what. I am s0o Confused. (link)
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you should never go out with him, i know what its like to be that friend lori, cuz that happened to me and i was totally in love with the bob. it not worth losing that friend , well then again .
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How do you know that you're in love. I've liked this guy since the beginning of the school year and my friends think he likes me back. He's had several girlfriends but the "dating time" never really lasts long. Lately I've been thinking about him a lot and everytime a hear a song...I automatically think of him. What is love? And how do you know that you're in it? (link)
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ough... its all in your heart its really never for sureit may swa back and forth but if your in love youll know
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Well, my boyfriend of 10 months just broke up w/ me and I'm kinda wondering wut he means of wut he told me. He said "I think we should see other people," but then he said later how he's not breaking up w/ me bcuz of another girl. Then I asked him why he broke up w/ me abuncha times, and everytime he said he didn't know why. Then he said, "I think I just need sum time alone," so that sounded like maybe there's still hope left. Does any1 know wut he meant when he said all of this? Also, wut should I do? Ando do u think there is any hope 4 us?? (link)
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i think hes trying to tell you nicely that your though because he cares about you in the friend sorta way, but theres always a little hope.
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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?! (link)
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thats kinda what happened to me but kinda not. friends like that suck and there not gonna help get your life better just fill it fill of more heartaches and pain.
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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okay, how sure r u that you are pregenat? cuz sometimes those stupid tests can be wrong and you tell your parents and every one 4 no good reason. and n e way if its rite you have to tell your parents and your bf maybe he'll be very supportive, and every thing ill be alrite, but for the last one, i d keep it . i am very againest abortion and kinda againest putting it up for adoption unless there was no way to take care of it, good luck!!!
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all i wanna do is stop thinkin about this one guy that i barley even know but since we met i can't get him outta my head i don't think its love cuz i haven't know him for that long .. we live a distance away so its not like we would even get to know eachother but i just need to find away to get him outta my head cuz right when i think im tryin to get him out and it works he sends me a text sayin " i been waitin all week just to here ur voice " now for me that makes me like him and i try not to i try to think oh he just playin with me cuz sometimes it seems like he likes me and sometime it seems like i don't even have time for u ! i met him camping one time and thats it since then we been talkin on phone online ! whut should i do ..stop talkin to him even tho thats easier said then done !! help please ! (link)
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this very confusing??? but i think you should just be friends and really find out if you love him
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How exactly do you french kiss?
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its like a kiss but more tongue.
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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ok this is what a i would do a email him tell him god its been so long how ru? and ask nice "getta know guestions and try to aquer his # or b tell him hes awful to forget about you and should go to hell and get his act together and emaial you back.
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