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ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and i think our relationship is just based on sexuality and looks... i mean when we first started our relationship we were like awesome friends and we loved to talk all the time and now i feel as if we never talk anymore and he isnt the person i once thougtht he was.. like we never talk anymore and i feel all we do is like make out... i try to read books and see if he is interested in what they have to say and sometimes they have poetry and i leave him sweet notes in his locker but we still like never talk anymore... help!
how do i tell him how to change without looking like im tryin to make him the person i want him to be?
I think you should break up with him. Most relationships eventually loose the feelings that were there when it began. I know it might be hard to break-up with him, but you WILL FIND SOMEONE who has more qualities that you want, than this guy did.
Of course you could always invite him to your house and just talk. Like if he tries to kiss you then just turn away. Eventually he'll get it and ask what's wrong. Then you can tell him that you miss actually talking to him and hopefully he'll make an effort to talk with you more :o)
Good Luck!
I'm 14-years-old so I'm not looking for my life partner or anything. Well, my friends and even some people I don't know call me shallow because I only go out with guys I think are hott. And it's true but only to a certain point. Yes, I do look at looks first but doesn't everyone? I look at looks and if I think they're attractive then I'll talk to them and such. But I'll only date them if they have a great personality to go along with their looks. Personality can also make a guy hott to me so even if I'd initially think they were ugly but they had a confident, amazing personality I'd think they were hott. And like I said before, it's not like I'm looking for they guy I want to marry right now; I'm just having fun and meeting different guys. Does the way I see that make me shallow? Or is the way I pick the guys I want to go out with wrong?
NOOOOO! you're fine. Thats how most people are. unless they're purposely looking for someone ugly to go out with (which is kinda weird). EVERYONE begins friendships with people (of the opposite sex) b/c they're attracted to them. Don't listen to the people calling you shallow b/c i'm sure that they're the same way! Good Luck Girl!
hey..
I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!
start talking to him again. tell him that you miss talking to him and wish you could spend more time together. then he'll probably get the hint and maybe he'll like you again! :o)
Good Luck!
Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.
Well, maybe you don't like him, and this is just your reaction to him talking to you. You're probably so excited that he just started talking to you again, so you think you like him. But maybe you do like him...who broke up with who?
But anyway, if you really think you like him you should talk to him about it. If you're getting a lot of hugs then your chances are good! Good Luck!
I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship.
~Confused
If you tell him you guys may get that relationship that you have wanted...but if you don't then you'll just go on not knowing if you had a chance with him or not. And besides, after you tell him, if he says he doesn't like you then you will most likely move on, and he will realize this so you two can still be friends! i hope that makes sense! Good Luck!
Sorry this might be long but here it goes. I met this one guy at a party in the 8th grade. Lets call him Joe! So me and Joe really liked each other and everything and we talked alot over the summer. And this year (9th) we went out and broke up but we both had feelings for each other. So me and Joe ended up hooking up and having sex. Also we ended up going to the homecoming dance with me and he saidhe loved me and everything and then after the next few days or so, so I talked to him and was like whats the matter and he said that he didn't like me as anything more than a friend anymore. I was completly devistated because he promised me he would never leave me and that he loved me. And today at the busses we were talking and i asked him for a hug and hes like "Kristen were just friends now..." That hurt me soo much that I cried! I don't know what to do with myself really like this guy and i want to make him see me as more than a friend or find some way to get over him! Please help me! Thanx! Sorry so long...
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This is really sad...Joe was just using you for sex. you should definitely forgot about him and move on. a lot of boys will "promise" to love you forever and never leave you, but they do...and most of your boyfriends will end up leaving you (or you leaving them), no matter what they say...boys lie...that's just their nature....Good Luck!
Hi you guys... i don't really know where to start. i'm head over heels for one of my best friends (my best guy friend). and i don't know what to do. sometimes, when we're talking and it's late at night, i come so close to telling him, just because i'd like to know if i have a chance. but then part of me is afraid. he has a girlfriend at the moment, and i don't want to ruin anything between them. i found out a few days ago that he used to think we had the potential to be soulmates, that's definitely how i feel. and have felt. i just don't know if he still feels like that and i'm really afraid to ask. so, all wise advice givers, what do i do?
I think you should wait until he doesn't have a girlfriend. This way you don't look bad and it will show your maturity to him. But when they break up, give him a week or two to get over her, then you should def. tell him! I know this may seem like it will take forever...but in the end it will probably be worth it ;)
Good Luck!
freshman/m i like this girl, but i can't really see us goin out. my friend also likes the same girl. i asked one of my female friends how i could get to know the girl better without being too obvious and she sed to "write her a note and say hey and stuff." but don't u think if i "write her a note just sayin hey and stuff" she will think somethings goin on? i'm not sure i want to let her know that i like her just yet. is there any other way? thx
Talk to her. If your in one of her classes then ask about the homework or something. uhmm, i really can't think of anything else.....but when you talk to her just play it cool and don't flirt if you don't want her to know you like her.
Good Luck!
what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?
If you are seeing someone you just go on dates with them. A boyfriend is someone who is like your best friend, but in a romantic way :o)
Anyone know any ways to fix short curly hair?
Using a cleansing shampoo and a moisturizing conditioner will make your hair look really shiny and sleek. Tresemme works REALLY well! If you want your hair out of your face you can use a ribbon as a headband...this always looks really cute! If you want, straightening is always and option. I hear you should spend around $40 dollars for a decent straightener. Or if you don't want the damage from a straightener you could always use one of those serums, or even better get it permanently straightened (but this is REALLY expensive!). Good Luck w/ Your Hair!
I'M HAPPY BUT SAD.. the guy i really like has been trying to ask me out, but can never find me after school. He also likes my best friend. He's like "She's going out with ____? Maybe if i ask her out she'll dump him and go out with me." Right AFTER he was trying to find me to ask me out.. But yeah.. so today he was looking for me again, but I couldn't go meet him because my ride was coming and plus I didn't know if I should because he likes my best friend, too. I think I am just his second choice, but my best friend says that he likes me more... but he tried kissing her yesterday! She pulled away though because she has a boyfriend.
I'm going to see him tonight. I think he's going to ask me out, but I don't know what to do. He seems to like my bff more than me, but then again I barely see him.
Should I go out with him? I just don't know..
STAY AWAY! Boys that can't pick are players!
Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?
He sounds like a really dependable guy because he told you about it :o)
But make sure you tell him how you feel about it...calmly...and maybe he won't do it again!
can yall give me some tips on what i shouldnt do when im around a guy im dating or just friends with so they dont get mad or annoyed at me? thanks!
Be yourself...and don't talk about your ex's!
Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18.
Does you mom know him well? Maybe if she got to know him a little better than she would be okay with you seeing him. Invite him to dinner, or a family party (reunion thingy or whatever).
...But if he has a criminal record I see where's she's coming from...If anything like that is true then she's just looking out for you like most mom's :o)