Guy is gonna ask me out --> Don't know if I should.
Question Posted Friday October 15 2004, 2:52 pm
I'M HAPPY BUT SAD.. the guy i really like has been trying to ask me out, but can never find me after school. He also likes my best friend. He's like "She's going out with ____? Maybe if i ask her out she'll dump him and go out with me." Right AFTER he was trying to find me to ask me out.. But yeah.. so today he was looking for me again, but I couldn't go meet him because my ride was coming and plus I didn't know if I should because he likes my best friend, too. I think I am just his second choice, but my best friend says that he likes me more... but he tried kissing her yesterday! She pulled away though because she has a boyfriend.
I'm going to see him tonight. I think he's going to ask me out, but I don't know what to do. He seems to like my bff more than me, but then again I barely see him.
babiigurl076 answered Friday October 15 2004, 4:18 pm: I think you should just let things happen the way they are meant to. Sorry to be the one to break the news to you, but I just don't want you& your best friend to get hurt from a guy. It sucks, but if youre closer to him as a best friend, let it be that way. Just see how him& your friend work out& then maybe give it a shot later on if you still like each other. Hope I helped! [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
soljette answered Friday October 15 2004, 3:26 pm: honestly, im not sure if you should.. because to me, it seems like hes playing mind games. how is he interested in you and your best friend at the same time? say you and him started going out,how do you know if hes trying to talk to some other grl. but if you really like him, then give it a shot. just be sure you know what you want and that you looked at all sides before following through [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
beachbabi answered Friday October 15 2004, 3:18 pm: you should see if he asks you out bfore u start to freak out. and if he does, then think about it carefully, mabe even say you'll tell or call him later. think if u really want a bf that wants ur best friend too. if u dont mind that then say yes! [ beachbabi's advice column | Ask beachbabi A Question ]
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