Hey everyone .
I love giving advice to friends and
i would love to give adive to you !
feel free ... this may be hard to keep
up with but im gonna try ! just no rude
and unexpected comments please =)thanks
guys !! x0 love aways . becky
E-mail: pinkxice143@yahoo.com
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UGHHH this is becky the one who gives the advice.. the qoution where the person said the 3 montes thing and moving on well if you go to view my whole answer is there but it only gave half lol sorry (link)
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opps
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okay... me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 months ago. and im crazy in love with him... and ive tried EVERYTHING to get him back except the "moving on but not really" tecnique. im wondering if that will work... ya knw like if i just ignore him... try dating.. i dont knw, please help me!! you seem really good at giving advice!! -brittany (14)female (link)
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lol thanks
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Okay.. there is this guy.. and we have been best friends since we were little.. and i really like him.. But im afraid to tell him, because if i tell him i dont want him to feel uncomfortable around me.. I dont know what to do? should i just flirt with him to see if he likes me??
Thanks for the help! (link)
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Ask him ! because ten to one he'll like you too ! maybe he has feeling for you or maybe he feels the same way but is just too scared to ask ! I bet hell like you too
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a lot f my friends tell me in pretty and i no am but i just cant seem to get a boyfriend! i no a lot of guys that like me but i jut dont feel the same way about them... whats wrong with me?? (link)
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Its not always about your look ! Im not trying to be mean but maybe you have a bad attitude .. or maybe people are considering your a slut =( or maybe girls are jelous of you and tell boys stuff that arent true ... if i didnt help youuu just tell me . good luck :)
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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened? (link)
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Maybe he didnt really feel the conneticon its common and there is a better guy waiting out there for you dont worry !
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ok im only 15 years old and a lot of my brothers friends like me and they are a lot older then me (like 18-23)i dont like any of them bc i am just not attracted to them at all... but for some reason they always try to get me alone or go out behind my brothers back and i cant do that to my brother... but i cant say no to them bc i dont want to be mean about it ..... what should i say to them???
XoXo
Who Knows! (link)
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thats gorss huh ? lol and scary ... tell them that you arent intrested if thy force you to do " something " go right away and tell your brother to not inite them over ever again tenn your parents and they will understand i dont think you should be in your house feeling uncofertable while way older boys are hitting on you its just not right ! talk to your brother or your mom or dad !
good luckk !
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Here’s the thing I’ve never been kissed (15/f), but there’s a guy I like so if I get a chance to kiss him I want to really impress him. And I don’t really even know the basics. I know many people say it’s good to just “go with the flow” and that it will happen naturally, but I’ve also heard many people talking about their first kiss and how bad it was and everything and how the other person didn’t like it at all. And I know it will really mater to him, because he is really hot (can get any girl he wants, but is not a player) and is a perfectionist, so if it goes wrong I will make a really bad impression and might never get a second chance. Plus he is two years older so I suppose he’s had a lot of experience. I really need someone to walk me trough everything. I am going for something that includes a French kiss, a kiss that he will remember in a good way that will sweep him off his feet. (link)
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What kind of kiss ?
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ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him. (link)
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I have the same probelem and i know how you feel but the kid i like isnt shy .. it told him that im wicked shy and he just told me to be myself around him and it tottaly works its awsome !
call him on the phone and stuff
thats what i did and it worked !
good luck !
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So I went out with some friends and they played spin the bottle and I was dared to kiss this kid. I was so effing afraid to though, Im such a prude. even my best friend (whos a guy) had to kiss this girl and he did and I thought he was the same as me. I really wanted to, but im so afraid somethings going to go wrong. Anyone ever have this problem that could give me some advice? rate you for anything...seriously... (link)
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its only a kiss ... lol dont be scarded you cant like get pregnant !
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I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
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I dont think you should becz what if you guys have " sex " and you get pregnat he can go to jail and hate you and also how would your sis. feel ?
good luck
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My boyfriend and I went out for six months, we were inseperable. Before that we had been best friends for little less then a year. We were so close, always with each other. He would always say to me "I love you. Someday we'll get married, we can be forever. Run away. Just you and me" he's romantic like that, but the I love you really stuck with me. Only a few weeks after he dumped me (He didn't even tell me why) He has a new girlfriend. His girlfriend always smiles at me when I walk by her in the halls, that bothers me so much. She's always giving me looks if I look at my ex. I like him so much, and I feel my heart drop to the ground whenever I see him! I've noticed though, he watches me. Whenever I walk by, or I'm talking with another guy- he's watching me. He says we can be friends, but he blocked me online and won't return my emails. I'm completely heartbroke and crushed,I just don't know what to do.
I'm 14 by the way
Thanks
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Everypne says that they love you .. maybe he got sick of you becz this is what happens in mst relahinships the boys gets sick of you =( yea it sucks but you 14 and you have a long life ahead of you .. Good Luck !
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ok so I have this friend who I can't stand. (she isn't really my friend) She is so screwed up and I can't stand her. 1. She is a patheloical lier and 2. She snjoys screwing peoples lives up. So anyway my best friend recently started dating her and I can't fiure out why. She's mean, ugly, dramatic and really hurts people. No one likes her. So we were at a concert and he had his arm around me and I turn around and he was making out with her! How do I tell him how I feel about their relationship? Thanks. 14/f (link)
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Well its really his choice not yours .. but if you too are really best-freinds maybe hell listin to you ! good luck =D
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i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i really don't kow what to do (link)
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shes not a nice person att all ! dont be frineds with her if shes doing that to you you really like him so tell him how you feel tell him all that was you but shes sayin it ! well hoped this helped !
good luck
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Okay, I liked a kid, and he liked me, but we never got together or anything. Now, I'm bored with him, and am slowly ridding all thoughts of him, just not interested anymore. Problem is, he's still really into me, and when I explained what I was feeling, he got really mad. Then I realized I didn't want to make him go through such pain, so I'm pretending basically to like him. We're still not going out, but whatever..that's good for me. You see, we talk everyday on AIM & sometimes phone because we go to different schools..and only see each other SOME weekeneds. But, everytime I'm on AIM I have stuff to say to everyone, but when I talk to him it's like the most boring conversation you could ever be in. What does this mean? He said he feels that way, too, like never has anything to say to me..then why is he acting like he loves me? I want to let him go, but I want to be friends. I don't think we can be friends, with his attitude..and it just sucks. What can I do?
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I bet in his mind he has tons of stuff to say but he just cant ! like this kiid i like he probley says the smae thing you do about me ! its hard it really is but the guy should be the one making the convo not the girl ! talk to him and tell him how you feel without making him mad ! hoped this is gonna work
good luck =)
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how do you get a girl that is a pussy to tell you stuff to tell you how she really feels...cuz its getting pretty annoying...
(P.S. my guy friend asked this question...not me--no, not a lez) (link)
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Ummm you ask her how she really reals make her feal comfertable not uncomfertable tell her its okay if she tells you !
well good luck =D
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do most girls shave their pussys? (link)
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haha yes they do . only for like sexuall stuff like if a guy asks to finger you and stuff lol i know this is gross .. E-Mail me or I/M me and ill tell you more .
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Just as a warning, this will be long. If you have a problem with that, skip on to the next question.
Okay. So my guy and I have been together about 18 months now, and it's been great up until awhile ago.
Now, my boyfriend and I used to have the exact same ideals about sex - we both thought oral was stupid and disgusting, and neither of us was really into the whole manual thing.
All of a sudden, he's asking me for oral all the time - I did that once and I told him I wasn't comfortable with it. He's even asking for "road head" which I always thought only assholes asked for and only sluts gave.
Does he think I'm a slut just because I've had sex?
I feel like he's been taking advantage of me lately and making me feel like a bad girlfriend. I know I'm not, though he makes me feel like it's my fault when we fight, and makes me feel like I'm the one that needs to change, when I believe now that it's him that needs to change.
I really do hope this is just a bump in the relationship - don't most people hit bumps when they've been together awhile?
We were such a great couple for so long, and then all of a sudden, he decided he wanted more sexual stuff than I'm willing and comfortable with giving him. Now, I can understand he may be a little sexually frustrated, as we haven't had sex in like a month, but I told him we'd have to wait a month (due to a medication I ended up on that conflicted with my birth control pill), and he was okay with it. Now he's suddenly not. I'm confused.
He used to be utterly romantic and sweet. Now he's turning into a complete ass.
I really want to ask him right now if he really loves me or he just enjoys fucking me. Recently, it seems like the latter.
We always said that sex was like the icing to a cake in this relationship. He claims this relationship is based on love, not lust, but I'm not so sure about that anymore.
I don't want to break up with him. I want him to realize what he's doing, and I want to fix this between us, hopefully before saturday. Saturday's his birthday, and I went to a lot of trouble to find him a present he wants this year. I'd rather not return it.
But mostly, I just want this to go back to normal. I was so happy with him before...
Help me out?
~Cali~ (link)
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To tell you the truth .. i think he is using you for your sex ! by the souunds of this story you must be a very good G.F and not a bad one ! i think he is the bad one .. he shouldnt always want sex you should always be able to love eachother for who you are and not for the sex ! well if you need more help just E-Mail me or I/M me .. good luck hun !
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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do? (link)
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Does he have AIM or an EMAIL ? well those are ways .. i meet lots of people and NO dont get me wrong i dont go in chats and then go meet them i would never do that but say i dont know this kid and he goes to my school he could say oay im Tall and i have blond hair wll this really happened and to tell you the truth we are best friends now ! try to talk to him and just be yourself ! good luck !!
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ok so i liked this kid ryan like 2 weeks ago, and then i stopped liking him, and now everyone keeps asking me if im mad at him or if i still like him. And tonight my guy friend told me if i was mad at him because they were playing basketball and ryan told him that he thinks i am, does this mean anything? (link)
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hitler the goat answered Monday May 16 2005, 7:32 am:
yes, that you need to stop screwing around with this dude and get some mood stablizing drugs.
-hitler
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carlthecatguy answered Monday May 16 2005, 7:24 am:
you have commitment issues
wow people are soo rude huh ? lol wow ! anyways maybe he likes you and dosnt want you to be mad at him .. and maybe hes asking people to ask you becz hes scared your gonna hate him !
well good luck hun !
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Im 14 and i really love my boyfriend. We haven't kissed yet but i really wanna kiss him. I'm this memorial day party soon and im hoping maybe it'll happen there. I want it to be really special and i know i shouldn't like plan our first kiss but, i want it to be really special and i wanted to know if there's anything we can do or place to go to make it better.. let me know!
Thanks! xoxo (link)
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haha no dont spank him . talk to him and and just lean over a little and kiss him !
dont do anything Nhautey ;-)
haha good luck
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