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So I went out with some friends and they played spin the bottle and I was dared to kiss this kid. I was so effing afraid to though, Im such a prude. even my best friend (whos a guy) had to kiss this girl and he did and I thought he was the same as me. I really wanted to, but im so afraid somethings going to go wrong. Anyone ever have this problem that could give me some advice? rate you for anything...seriously...
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If it's your first kiss (which it sounds like it would be) then it's normal to be nervous I was nervous about my first kiss. Actually I was terrified. I know what you're going through I was afraid I would do something wrong or mess up or something. But trust me it's fine. Just go with it. You don't have to kiss someone if you're not ready to though. Don't rush it you'll know when you're ready and when you are it will just happen. Don't worry about it it will be ok. When it finally does happen it will be great and you will happy that you did it. Really don't worry about it when it's ready to happen it will happen and it will be wonderful.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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its only a kiss ... lol dont be scarded you cant like get pregnant !
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Those kind of games are fine if you want to play them but if you don't like kissing random guys just for the heck of it then don't. I don't think it makes you a prude...you just like to pick who to kiss yourself! Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. :)
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you just have to loosen up.
theres nothing wrong with being a prude...but if you wanna have fun, just go along with it...
your only a teenager once...experiment and have fun...don't miss out.
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So your problem is that you were afraid to kiss the guy? Im kinda confussed on this.
Um.. even though you were playing the game - dont let peer pressure get the best of you. if you really dont want to do it then dont. tell them you dont feel comfortable and sit out and watch then suggest to play something diffrent. they'll get the hint
((sorry if thats not the answer you were looking for, i was kinda confussed with the question))
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well i havent had this problem but i think i might be able to help ya! if your just afraid of kissing people because you think something might go wrong...then trust me honey....you have nothing to worry about. you cant mess up when you kiss...it just comes naturally. and if your prude...then dont do anything until you feel your ready. if something like that should happen again then just kind of laugh it off and dont do it....get up and "go to the bathroom" or choose not to play in the first place! hope i helped ya hun!
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